Family & Relationships - 31 January 2007

My fiance has gone to strip clubs 3 times (that I know of) in 2006. It makes me very angry. He says he goes when his friends suggest it and he only goes there for some drinks. He says that he doesn't get any dances. He got mad when I called him out on it this time and he said that I don't trust him. I do trust him I just don't want him looking at strippers--how can I make him understand that?? We're getting married soon and I don't want a husband who goes to those kind of places--I've even contemplated not marrying him for this reason. I don't need the stress. I already had one stressful marriage where my ex husband was being shady I don't need another one. It just breaks my heart and makes me feel like I'm not good enough so he needs to look at someone else. I always do what's in the best interest of our relationship but when he goes to those places it makes me want to do something bad to hurt him. I told him if he goes to strip clubs I'm going to start looking at guys.

2007-01-31 12:49:47 · 18 answers · asked by hailesellase 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like my best friends boyfriend best friend. I talked to my friends boyfriend and he said it wouldn't work out. Should I even try anything now? My friends boyfriend does not know me that well at all, but he definitly knows his friend. So...should I bother? I do not want to get shut down for no reason.

2007-01-31 12:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by Flutie 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so he might go to juvie and i love him so much but i dont know if we are going to see eachother for awhile, so should we have sex?

2007-01-31 12:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by bleeding_wrists14 1 in Singles & Dating

so theres this dance coming up next week. I dont have a bf but want one. I have a couple guys i have my eye on. So i dont ask people out. How do i get some cute guys to notice me, aside from talking.

2007-01-31 12:48:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are a few similar questions here tonight but the angle I'm coming from is based on some stuff I've been reading about in relation to that whole good girl goes after bad boy type to try and understand why. Many articles I've read state that women don't respect or even like these guys that they are sleeping with and the ones they do like they won't sleep with because they are do good for them to treat them like that.

Here's a link to one of the articles: http://www.webmd.com/content/article/75/89907.htm

2007-01-31 12:48:39 · 11 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about sneaking out of the house to watch some movies with my friends. They live right next to me. We would have to walk a little bit, but we would wear all black and have cell phones and pepper spray. Also, two of us know karate. I was wondering if you had tips on things to take or how to do it. Also, I would like to know if i should go out the sliding back door or the kitchen window. Your sneaking out experiences would be great, too. Thanks!

2007-01-31 12:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My moms boyfriend and I just got into an argument. He gets into my face and acts as if hes gonna hit me until he finally calms down and he leaves. Im telling my Mom what happened and while shes walking home from work she gets robbed. So everybody's all hysterical but she was fine. Everyone thinks he has something to do with the robbery(accept my mom) and I wanted to bring up the argument but I dont want to add insult to injury. What do I do?

2007-01-31 12:47:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok its for a g/f id like it to be her unforgetable Valentines day
smthin sweet ,romantic .......

what would a girl like u want her b/f to do for her on valentines day ?

2007-01-31 12:47:38 · 18 answers · asked by LeonZe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 12:46:59 · 10 answers · asked by mplus2004 1 in Singles & Dating

My future sister in law picked out a dress that I did not initially like...but did not think it would be that bad since I was planning on losing weight anyways. Well I finally got into the sample size at the bridal shop...my sil wants to have dresses ordered by 2-11-07. I tried on dress and there is no way it is going to support my chest even if I do lose weight because I will always have a chest. I want to tell her that I do not think it would flatter me and that I am not going to be comfortable in the dress...but it is last minute for her. I have been trying to find similar alternatives with same company so we can keep same color and price...I don't just want to throw it on her ...i want to give her options on what I would be comfortable in since it is last minute. Other bridesmaids are tall and thin...so if they look ok in the current chosen dress...they will look ok in a similar dress. SHould I tell her what I think or should I just order the dress and pray it will support me then?

2007-01-31 12:46:33 · 12 answers · asked by k_reile 3 in Weddings

This one guy asked me out and is spoiling me, I do like it, just not him. I put off telling him no for so long that I had to say yes. It has been getting to me and I can't stand it anymore. If I break up with him, he will probally cry, but if I stay with him, I will cry! Please Help Me!

2007-01-31 12:46:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 12:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Dr.Pepper 1 in Friends

2007-01-31 12:46:00 · 1 answers · asked by kennyboy 6 in Singles & Dating

So I'm talking with this girl, online and on the phone. We briefly touched on relationships the first time we talked, but just about our pasts and what led us to where we are now. Whats a pleasant, intriguing way to get her to talk more about what she wants in a ideal relationship and with love but without coming accross to strong. She's kinda had it rough, so I want her to know that I genuinely want to talk about the beauty of a real relationship. Thanks again,

2007-01-31 12:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by JD 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-31 12:45:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think about this quote?

QUOTE:
"If you deny childhood, you deny life.
They can't speak up for themselves so we
must. It's like, how do we define love,
it's a very, very deep feeling, but it's I think
the most important force of life."
"Remember, if you ever need a helping hand,
it's at the end of your arm. As you get older,
you must remember that you have a second hand.
The first one is to help yourself, the second one is to help
others"

2007-01-31 12:45:53 · 12 answers · asked by YAWN 6 in Friends

I like this boy sooooo much!!! and valentines day is coming up but i'm way to afraid to get him anything. can someone help me to get him to like me? please and thanks!!!

2007-01-31 12:45:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am done with college and working a small low paying job right now in a small town where my girlfriend goes to school. I have family in another state in a large city with LOTS of career opportunities for me but there are none here in this small town, however she is in school for 4 more years. Do I stay and work at the small job and not pursue my career, or do I move to pursue my career and live my life?

Me and my girlfriend have been together 2 years, We have stupid arguments once and awhile and she gets jealous easily, doesnt ever want me to go out with friends and I cant ever talk to girls that are just friends, but I do still love her.

What do I do? Thanks!

2007-01-31 12:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by sdnz32 1 in Singles & Dating

i guess girls will know what i mean more than the typical guy. how do you get over what i feel like is a nightmare every day? i since have seen a few ladies and liked them but my soul keeps crying for one person. its ruining my chances with whoever i see. even tho i put the new girl first. i am in love with a woman but my heart and soulstill puts my ex back in my mind after all this time. i think its because i cant finish it in my mind as she moved back to finland when we split. if any firl can help please i need it right now. xx

2007-01-31 12:44:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am so tired of being used, abused and lied to by men. I am 37 years old, have been married twice and I feel that there are NO good men out there. Do all men lie? Are there any men out there who say "I love you" and MEAN IT? Do all men cheat? Are there any men out there who really want a good woman who can love them fully and who they can love fully in return? I am so tired of crying and hurting. Do I have a chance to find a good man? Or should I just resolve my life to the fact that there are no good men left?

2007-01-31 12:44:57 · 68 answers · asked by Rhoe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My roommate is trying to bail on my fiance and I. She signed a lease with us back in November and said that she wouldn't bail on us. She has been a total pain the neck. She never pays her part of the bills on time and is totally sloppy, and is rude. We used to be good friends. The other night we got into a big fight because she was a month behind paying us back $100 which was what we had paid for her part of the bills. We cannot live at this place by ourselves and we are looking for a new roommate, but how do we get her to be coropertive and pay us what she owes and get her to stop being such a b**** to us? And what are some ways to post an ad on wanting a roommate?

2007-01-31 12:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by sexsports_fun 2 in Friends

I know this girl at my school who is always bragging about herself and how guys like her so much. She said some pretty meen things to me before, but the only problem is, she is a person you don't want to mess with. I'm kinda like that to, but not as bad. I want to now why she's doing this and how to make her stop!

2007-01-31 12:43:34 · 13 answers · asked by vcat_11 2 in Friends

would you sleep with a stranger ?
if so i'm a stranger,sleep with me

2007-01-31 12:43:14 · 18 answers · asked by essexgirllover 1 in Singles & Dating

would you give up 14yrs and everything you own for a young hot girl

2007-01-31 12:43:05 · 20 answers · asked by livingwell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-31 12:42:50 · 2 answers · asked by rawr 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So my fiance and I have set the date for October and have booked the ceremony and reception venues. Also, our mothers have done everything short of posting it on a billboard to get the news on our weddding date out.


The thing is, the stress and tension between everyone is killing us! All we want is a relaxing enjoyable day. We are still 9 months away and the moms are bickering, my sister is crying, and it is just pure chaos. Everyone wants to be incharge of everything and I could care less! They are already harrasing me about napkin colors....NAPKIN COLORS!!!!


What I really want to do is back out of all of these "traditional" wedding plans and go to the Bahamas and get married. We would invite our immediate families, but under 20 people. Am I overreacting? Would this be rude?

2007-01-31 12:42:22 · 13 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

We have been living in So. Calif. for the last 10 years. We live in a mountain comunity where it is hard to find work. We don't want to move back to the city. Now we are thinking about moving to Ohio. What whould you do?

2007-01-31 12:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by J K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-31 12:40:32 · 3 answers · asked by lucero 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

tom moved into my condo complex 4 weeks ago after his divorce.he was the one to pursue me but was always a perfect gentlemen.spent 5 hrs helping me setup my computer,called to thank me for watching a movie with him ect.well it was just freindly stuff till he tryed to kiss me one night.then i asked him what his gf would say(saw him with a blond often)and he looked at me like a was crazy and said thats not my gf shes just an old friend.well when i found that i thought he would make a perfect bf.well after we had sex things changed.then his whole attitude changed he was "colder" towards me almost rude.the only time he ever called was for me to come down for sex.than i found out this "old friend" was not only his gf but the person he left his wife for.how can a guy seem so interested in u then do something like this?

2007-01-31 12:40:30 · 6 answers · asked by janeymorgen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

tom moved into my condo complex 4 weeks ago after his divorce.he was the one to pursue me but was always a perfect gentlemen.spent 5 hrs helping me setup my computer,called to thank me for watching a movie with him ect.well it was just freindly stuff till he tryed to kiss me one night.then i asked him what his gf would say(saw him with a blond often)and he looked at me like a was crazy and said thats not my gf shes just an old friend.well when i found that i thought he would make a perfect bf.well after we had sex things changed.then his whole attitude changed he was "colder" towards me almost rude.the only time he ever called was for me to come down for sex.than i found out this "old friend" was not only his gf but the person he left his wife for.how can a guy seem so interested in u then do something like this?

2007-01-31 12:40:07 · 34 answers · asked by janeymorgen 1 in Marriage & Divorce