So I'm talking with this girl, online and on the phone. We briefly touched on relationships the first time we talked, but just about our pasts and what led us to where we are now. Whats a pleasant, intriguing way to get her to talk more about what she wants in a ideal relationship and with love but without coming accross to strong. She's kinda had it rough, so I want her to know that I genuinely want to talk about the beauty of a real relationship. Thanks again,
2007-01-31 12:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by JD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since she has had it rough, it is very sensitive of you to keep the pressure off. Just bring up the topic in conversation and see where it goes. Let her know your feeling on relationships and the positives of being in a healthy relationship. Keep the conversation on a light and positive note and you should be able to talk to her about anything.
2007-01-31 12:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might try saying what you said in this question, "i hope im not coming accross too strong, but i want you to know that i really care about you. I just want to talk about a real relationship." i just basically copied everything you said in the last part of your question. Im not telling you to say that, just showing you how nice it can sound to a girl, they like it when your slow and sweet about it. Just be caring and nice, im shure she'll open up. Good luck!
2007-01-31 12:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out what she is looking for, nothing like a bit of honesty on your part, you could start off with by telling her what you are looking for and then say what do you want in a relationship, ask what her dreams are of her future, what her aspirations are. Once you open that door all things are possible
2007-01-31 12:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rob 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let her know that you are interested in her. You have to command her attraction by being an enigma of sorts. If you open up too early she will run for the hills. Make sure that you aren't a jerk but make sure that she is getting fully interested in you, before long she'll bring up a relationship...if you bring it up first you are shooting yourself in the foot.
2007-01-31 12:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just get into talking about the best relationships u guys have had. then say something cheesy but cute like "i know uve had hard times and some good but i would like to show u the best do u think u would like to hook up or something" u couod probably plan something to like reconfigure what i said
2007-01-31 12:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, im pretty sure just talking to her is charming enough. just be honest and say what you just said to like a million people. that sounded beautiful, and tell her about you not wanting to come on too strong cuz u she had tough.
that was really sweet, good luck
2007-01-31 13:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by aitlin_cay10@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you sure she wants to find love or is she just having a good time. If she has had it rough you dont want to push her into making a decision to quickly.
2007-01-31 12:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by wildiva3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be open and honest, remember one lie leads to another until you can't remember where the truth begins and the lie take over... be you.. and girls love a good listener.. Later in life you can learn to tune her out.. Good Luck
2007-01-31 12:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't rush into anything. If the sparks fly then you'll know it. Get to know her first. Trust me take your time.
2007-01-31 12:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by amandamc32183 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch out.
2007-01-31 12:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋