tom moved into my condo complex 4 weeks ago after his divorce.he was the one to pursue me but was always a perfect gentlemen.spent 5 hrs helping me setup my computer,called to thank me for watching a movie with him ect.well it was just freindly stuff till he tryed to kiss me one night.then i asked him what his gf would say(saw him with a blond often)and he looked at me like a was crazy and said thats not my gf shes just an old friend.well when i found that i thought he would make a perfect bf.well after we had sex things changed.then his whole attitude changed he was "colder" towards me almost rude.the only time he ever called was for me to come down for sex.than i found out this "old friend" was not only his gf but the person he left his wife for.how can a guy seem so interested in u then do something like this?
2007-01-31 12:40:30 · 6 answers · asked by janeymorgen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A guy can do something like this because you let him. A newly divorced guy and you knew him for 4 weeks before having sex? You even had an instinct that the blonde was his girlfriend. Next time get to know the guy before jumping into bed with him.
2007-01-31 12:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found guys will do or say almost anything to get into a girl's pants. Based on this guy's current behavour towards you, I'd either talk to him about how he's changed, or more likely, accept that he's just not that into you and accept that he's trying to keep you at a distance by being cold. If you want anything more than sex from him, I'd give it up. If that's all you want, then enjoy it while you've got it, but I'd always ensure he's wearing 'protection'.
2007-01-31 12:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooo that's cold sistah!
But, you are a classic example of a totally convenient booty call. You're probably cute, obviously willing, and a few doors down! Hell, this guy couldn't have orchestrated it better himself!
He's divorced, seeing a woman he probably cheated on his wife with, and you're wondering why he doesn't like you so much? First of all, he's got one woman he's trying to hide from you. And secondly, he already slept with you, is not interested in carrying on a relationship, so why does he need to expend the energy to act kind to you anymore? You said yourself, he calls you for sex and you run right down there. It's like you're a vending machine.
Respect yourself and tell him to f**k off.
2007-01-31 12:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because for most men the thrill is in the chase. Once they "have" you, they lose interest. This guy is obviously a loser. Sorry that you had to find out his true colors this way. Kick him to the curb. But be warned, when he sees you no longer are interested, it will spark his interest. Don't let that fool you. He is just a creep who doesn't deserve a good woman.
2007-01-31 12:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by Rhoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for sure he just wanted the sex from you. and don't care what he did to your heart and head.go on with your life.don't look back look forward. (sorry for you) i just don't know thy do that.its a lot of hurt on you. have a BIG HUG on me.
2007-01-31 12:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o boy
he got what he wonted and he moved on that is what we men do.
Lesion to your hart it told you what he was after and you did not Lesion.
Remember men are DOGS.
We must be trained
2007-01-31 12:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by the black hand 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋