This one guy asked me out and is spoiling me, I do like it, just not him. I put off telling him no for so long that I had to say yes. It has been getting to me and I can't stand it anymore. If I break up with him, he will probally cry, but if I stay with him, I will cry! Please Help Me!
2007-01-31 12:46:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ur kidding right? break up with him.. the longer u stay with him the worse its gonna get for the both of u.
2007-01-31 12:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just man and up and tell him already. And next time don't be so selfish about it. Getting what you want or getting spoiled as you put it obviously isn't everything. As you can tell there's more involved than getting something out of the attention a guy can give you. Like his feelings and you're threshold for sensitivity and collectedness.
2007-01-31 20:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do what your heart tells you to do.
I had this problem before with a girl and i just stayed in a quiet place to hear what my heart was telling me. it told me to do the best thing for both of us so i said you know what maybe you should give me time cause i like you but not that much. I like this other girl and she likes me when i break up with her i mite come to you ok. Thats all and she was happy.
2007-01-31 20:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin the Cool Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yap! that is really exactly the real feeling of what you are now. and it can't be ease because of what you feel. you can't observe the real meaning of love with-in a short relationship. that's why most of the married couples are claiming failures after all.
i understand what you feel now.
choose what is right for you to avoid confusion in the future.
2007-01-31 20:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him does it matter in the loong run that he's hurt he'll find someone new and more enjoyable
2007-01-31 20:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋