Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

i am getting married in a non-church setting, but still hiring a minister to marry us. how much is traditionally "given" as a fee, or gratutity to the minister for his services?

2007-01-30 06:42:52 · 15 answers · asked by shenrich03 1 in Weddings

What is a good pick up line for a girl that you hardly know and what is one for a girl you kind of know but not really? come on players help me out!

2007-01-30 06:42:14 · 17 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 06:41:43 · 26 answers · asked by dat nigga byrd #22 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for months, both in our 40's - are great friends & have now slept together, but he seems to have trouble with erec tions - first time was touch & go, second time no go - says it's him not me - says he's nervous because he has deep feelings for me - should i believe him or am i just not doing it for him? (p.s. he says he's crazy about me & i am attractive & in good shape).

2007-01-30 06:41:30 · 27 answers · asked by born_free_again 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he talk so sweet to me but then when he around his friends its different. at first he liked me alot now that i feel he dont like me nomore its like i really like him. should i just forget about or keep tryin?

2007-01-30 06:40:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Fiance' & I are getting married May 16, 2008 in the evening (6 pm). The ceremony is being held outside on a terrace overlooking a huge lake & the reception is being held inside a tent that is lakefront. I cannot decide on colors. I know that I do not want all of my bridesmaids to wear the same color or the same dress, but I cannot figure out colors/shades that compliment eachother, but I do know that I want predominantly yellow flowers. Any suggestions for bridesmaid/wedding colors and/or yellow flowers?

2007-01-30 06:40:25 · 15 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

i know he is not right for me. he has hurt me repeatedly. i need to leave him. i dont know how to make this happen. i know all i got to do is tell him. but its not that easy. my self esteem is very low. i cry at times. he knows he plays a big part in why this is happening. so why doesnt he change. i know that a person has to change on their own but if he loves me why doesnt he do it. he lies, he doesnt communicate well at all. what can i do? plz help.

2007-01-30 06:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I always talk to both of them onn three-way.and my sister decides she wants to call my by while im not on the phone,when me and my bf have our silly relationship problem's she's always in our bussien.its more problem's then this ur smart people figure out the rest.plus do u think he's more intrested in her then me. what the hell is going on.sorry it dont make sence

2007-01-30 06:38:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they had a 10 year affair and now have been living togehter for four months...whats the chances that this is going to last?

2007-01-30 06:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by txO3blueeyes 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She is a kind, smart, very good person who treats me better than any woman has ever treated me, but I'm not sexually attracted to her. Therefore I avoid sex when possible. She complains, and with good reason. What should I do?

2007-01-30 06:38:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you *BE* with someone without having any kind of feelings for them? The one time I did that, I didn't enjoy it as much as being with someone I love. How can someone enjoy it if they have no feelings for the other person?

2007-01-30 06:38:17 · 3 answers · asked by precious 3 in Singles & Dating

I know it is a very general question, but how do you know when your marriage is over and it is time to just part ways? I feel like I have done all I could do to make her happy and to put her first, but it seems like she always has some sort of gripe or complaint on how I should improve and change to make her happy.

2007-01-30 06:36:51 · 9 answers · asked by simple_man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Their curves are one of a kind! I just love the shape and roundness! Black women have the best figures on the planet! Would you agree? And in case you're wondering, i'm white!

2007-01-30 06:36:27 · 9 answers · asked by No.34 1 in Friends

I am 13 years old and so is my boyfriend. He does not talk to me in school..at all. He (might) call me once a week or once every two weeks and we talk nicely together.But......:(.......today,he was flirting with my friend "jen".They are not going out or having any secret relationships though,I know it.TRUST ME.So should I break up with him even though I love him?? HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-30 06:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by Big boy 1 in Singles & Dating

guys would you rather date a girl that you have to worry about them breaking a nail and crying about it or a girl thats athletic and can take care of herself

2007-01-30 06:36:21 · 4 answers · asked by girl 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy and of course like any other man he loves sex but most of the time he waits for me to intiate(BUT HE WILL SOMETIMES) lots of times we will go a week or 2 without having sex and when i say something to him about this he says "i have been wanting to but waiting for you" I guess he means waiting for me to intiate and i guess i do the same thing waiting for him to intiate. Doesnt make sense that if he wants to have sex then just intiate and lots of people have said just tell him to intiate more but i shouldnt HAVE to tell him he should just do it if he wants sex and a few people said maybe he likes u being the agresssive 1..so what does everybody think

2007-01-30 06:35:46 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it when people hear that you are getting married by the Justice of Peace they assume you are knocked up?? Why can’t people just be okay with the fact that weddings are expensive and not everyone has a mommy and Daddy to pay for there wedding.

2007-01-30 06:34:26 · 30 answers · asked by calalily82 1 in Weddings

we had to write two nice things about our classmates and it wasnt for a grade she just wanted us to do it so i did it and i got mine back today and then said. She's pretty funny she is well behaved always in class trying in school boy crazy very quiet and helpful. it wasnt what i whould of hoped they said i was hopeing that they whould say i was nice kind and loving and pretty cause thats what my friends say about me?

2007-01-30 06:34:22 · 28 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

OK i just met him at a Church retreat and i learned that he is a cutter so what do i say to him (besides yes) that wouldn't make him feel depressed

2007-01-30 06:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by Christine 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone says that in order to make marriage work, you have to be each other's best friend. Then why is it that when you want to do something with your husband that would normally be a friend activity, like watch sports or go golfing, etc., they flip out or think you have an ulterior motive? Case in point - my husband made the comment that he heard more men wanted to watch the Super Bowl with friends than with their wife. I told him that he was lucky that I like watching football so he could do both. He told me that he thinks I "like watching him", meaning that I like to keep tabs on him. WTF? I would think it would be awesome to have a mate that shared your interests and would do those things with you. There are other times my husband acts like this, and it makes me angry. So my question is, do men sincerely not want their wife to be a guy's girl, and if they don't like that, then why marry one? Thanks!

2007-01-30 06:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Leah B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 16 and enrolled in college. For the last 8 months, I've been dating a 22 year-old. My family has allowed this because he acts like a teen. This semester he began to take a Human Sexuality course. The course is very explicit in nature and the textbook is extremely graphic. To keep us at an even level maturity-wise, my parents have told me that I have to take the course as well, or he has to drop it for us to continue going out. I really am not ready for the type of material covered in the course.

He is an only child and his parents basically run his life. They will not allow him to drop the course. What should we do?

2007-01-30 06:32:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I meet this pretty cool girl online. We have had a good time talking to each other. We have a date set to meet each other during the day in a public place just to hang out and get to know each other better. Is this a good idea or should i try to meet someone at the library or work or something like that. Also. She just got out of a long relationship. Am i on the rebound or will those issues not effect or encounter.

2007-01-30 06:31:29 · 8 answers · asked by Crossed M 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I find someone who I went to school with? in canada? I haven't seen him in ages and only know his first and last name and that he is the same age as me. Ideas?

2007-01-30 06:31:23 · 1 answers · asked by dazed&confused81 3 in Friends

He is 19 and in school, and thinks he knows it all.

2007-01-30 06:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by sunnydays 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so my boyfriend told a friend of mine some really nice things about me like he respects me and i have the "best" eyes hes ever seen i kno thats sounds lame but that isnt the important part what is important is weve only been dating a month now and i know hes always had a thing for me since we met like a year and a half ago
but he told my friend he thinks hes in love with me and she told me so now im not sure what i should do cuz i like him alot its just not that much....any suggestions??

2007-01-30 06:30:41 · 4 answers · asked by PhotographyGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Or is it usually perferd for the boy to ask?

2007-01-30 06:29:57 · 2 answers · asked by La Princesa 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-30 06:29:19 · 5 answers · asked by Charlie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say that when you first saw him he didn't strike you as hot or beautiful but by his qualities or something else you started to find him more attractive. If so, how did this happen?

2007-01-30 06:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Singles & Dating

well im having sex with my girlfriend for the first time and she wants to do it in a movie theater bathroom for the rush of it all. We cant do it at her house because her brother is a mad lunatic and for some reason she doesnt want to do it in my car.

We're going to see the Messengers at 4:15 pm on friday. How dangerous do you think this plan is? Since the movie is new there is a big chance that a fair amount of people would be in the theater even if it is early right?

I need tips!

2007-01-30 06:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by som l 1 in Singles & Dating

so i knew this guy from the seventh grade and we were good frends i liked him and stuff but he had a gf so we were jus frends i moved away but we keep in touch the other day i saw him and we hung out and he kissed me and said that he loved me i love him too but i have to question if its real or not?

2007-01-30 06:25:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating