i know he is not right for me. he has hurt me repeatedly. i need to leave him. i dont know how to make this happen. i know all i got to do is tell him. but its not that easy. my self esteem is very low. i cry at times. he knows he plays a big part in why this is happening. so why doesnt he change. i know that a person has to change on their own but if he loves me why doesnt he do it. he lies, he doesnt communicate well at all. what can i do? plz help.
2007-01-30 06:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it, before u lose ure reaosn for living. Be your best friend woman! Just have the balls to do what is best...he doesnt deserve u!
2007-01-30 06:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all healthy relationships between a couple they altogether love and respect 4 people. (each other and themselves)
I can respect you but I cannot give you self respect nor can I give you self love.
You have to know you love and respect yourself too damn much to allow some ahole to come along and treat you like s h i t. This goes for men and women alike!
Part of the cure is that you need to socialize with friends and family more otherwise long story short "you will rely on him too much for your social needs".
As humans we need a certain amount of social interaction to feel normal and if our significant other is going to be one of the primary people that we meet our social quota with, then you damn well better be able to rely on him or her!
2007-01-30 14:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Willie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some support from a friend or family member.
I assume you don't live with him. Talk over with your friend why youwant to dump him, get it clear in your head so you don't get confused and start thinking you should stay with him. Then go ad tell him hes dumped and go back to your friends, watch some movies and cry. You will start to feel better in about a week Assuming hes not a psycho and comes to your house threatening to kill you(In which case get a restraining order)
2007-01-30 14:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god i'm going through da same thing he seys he loves me and he shows it only when we are alone my self esteem isn't low its just dat i really like him but i did actually break up with him but everytime i see him thoese feelins come back and i'm just addicted to his sex not his person so i need help on this situation to..........
2007-01-30 14:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by T_BABY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph simply leave him since you said it yourself that he is not right for you at the introduction
2007-01-30 15:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to rehab. Two points.
2007-01-30 14:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋