I have been marrried to my husband for little over a year, but have known him and been with him for a long time.
We have had a very rocky relationship to say the least, where we cant seem to communicate over the simplist of issues. This last argument has been very bad, where i have ended up staying at my mothers house. I am at a point where I dont think thigns will ever change unless we get help. I have tried to talk about counselling in the past, but my husband want everything to be kept behind closed doors, his opinion was that how are they (counsellors) going to stop me from doing this, or being this. I am perfectly aware that marriage counsellors are no miracle cure but I feel we have no skills in handling any arguments for ourselves. So I have said either we get help or I cant continue. The heart breaking thing is that he has put conditions I must satisfy before he will go. These conditions are to advantage only him, when I have asked only for counselling to help us. Please help
2007-01-30
12:39:17
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Miz_Jasmine
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Marriage & Divorce