This sounds bad... so if youre one of those stick up the butt "thats not right" people who avoid reality just read another question... :)
It seems like a LOT fewer attractive couples STAY married as opposed to unattractive couples. I just want feedback on my opinion because I never hear anyone talking about this....
I THINK that attractive people have it harder in marriage. They have to be stronger against temptation (because yes, everyone gets tempted).. I think that they have too many OPTIONS. Not that unattractive people are LOOKING for other fish in the sea, its just that temptation is real and its there every day for pretty people. What do you think about this??
2007-01-30 12:39:05 · 6 answers · asked by Christines256 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
haha ok i dont think people are really understanding my question....
2007-01-30 12:55:59 · update #1
Yup, I would have to agree with you -- sad but, unattractive people just don't get that much action coming their way, thus, less opportunity to be tempeted and also they are less likely to feel confident enough to think that they could just go out there and find themselves another mate.
2007-01-30 18:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by gg55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I guess so except, temptation isn't really much more than a stamped out thought when you really love your partner. It all depends on how you behave as well. If you're attractive and you know it, you've got to make a point to show that you're unavailable. My partner and I have a no flirting rule because well, we are kind of hot and flirting gets us in to unwanted territories or at least unwanted attention. Besides, it's not as if fat and/or ugly people don't have options. They did get married after all and you do know what they say about fat women with low self esteem don't you?
2007-01-30 20:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really ... If they are truley commited to their spouses they would not even think of cheating even if they get hit on... It is all about choices and that does not matter what you look like really... Chating and unfaithfulness is a choice usually out of selfishness and alot of people make that bad decision and choice. Attractive people should not be looking for any other fish out there in the sea!!!! This goes beyond looks it goes with what is in the heart and the inward beauty....
2007-01-30 20:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my bf for 7 yrs.I have been through a roller coaster of looks (having kids and all)...Were still together and we want to get married.I dont think looks matter.Cuz even in my ugliest times (9 months pregnant) he still said i was beautiful.It all depends on how strong the love is between the 2 people.Love is also an attraction...so if you love someone..who cares what they look like.
2007-01-30 20:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because they have to work on being High Maintenance? or they try harder not to reveal that they are Ugly or just not attractive? When you have to work at being attractive to your spouse or others then your not comfortable with yourself and that can cause problems,MAJOR PROBLEMS.
2007-01-30 20:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i totally agree with u
2007-01-30 20:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋