Family & Relationships - 30 January 2007

If you see somebody in the mall and your interested, what is the best way to approach and say to her to get her number. No corny pick up lines please, It don't work or does it?

2007-01-30 17:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah i wanted to know..what are some of the things that adoptive parent(s) gain from adopting a child. i understand that the child benefits in the way that he/she now can call a place "home" and he/she now will have a family who cares and loves them, and will provide them food and clothing. but for the parent(s)....how do they benefit from adopting child?..or teenager?...or infant?...i guess how in general?
thank you.

2007-01-30 17:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I decided to get to know this girl that always sits next to me in class (for about 4 weeks now), i decided to talk to her and get to know her better. At first she was playing with her hair when we started chatting. She greeted my conversation with a smile and seemed genuinely interested in the conversation.Then the professor started lecturing and she was fidgeting with her earrings, playing with her hair (grooming...?) and passively bitting her nails the entire time.

What do you guys/gal think? (That was yesterday)

UPDATE: Today we talked more freely and we had a pretty engaging conversation. She laughed at everything i said, funny or not.

2007-01-30 17:45:10 · 12 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

recently, i found out that my hubby have been SMS-ing other woman. he told me that they are juz friends. But what kind of friend when the other party SMS to him at night and said that she miss him eventhough she knows that my hubby is married?? when i confront him, he said that he is sorry and he have no idea why that woman SMS to him that way. and he promised me that he will stop communicating with her. one part of me wanted to believe him but the other part juz can't. i've always feel like wanting to get a divorce from him but i juz can't make up my mind bcoz of the kids. maybe can anyone give me a gd advice or recommend me a lawyer (in singapore)? thank u....

2007-01-30 17:43:36 · 12 answers · asked by Bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-01-30 17:43:29 · 2 answers · asked by shirley s 1 in Singles & Dating

ok say you are dating someone would you tell them that you have cheated in the past?
was with someone married?
or you wait till they ask then would you be honest???

2007-01-30 17:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when I first met my wife 4 years ago, she told me her 5 kids were all adopted. about 6 months later, I found out that she lied about it and That 3 of the kids were hers.I forgave her because she told me that she did it because she thought i wouldn't stay with her if the kids were hers, and a year later we married.since then I have found out that pretty much half of what she'd been telling me about herself has been lies and i'm not sure if i can take much more of it. She has lied about marrying the kids dads,about living with them,she even told the older kids to lie to me so i wouldn't find out... and there's loads more. I love my wife deeply, but I don't think i can trust what she says anymore,i feel torn between loving her and wondering what else is lies. I desperatly need some advice guys and ladies, am I right to feel this way, or am I just a bad husband for distrusting her now?

2007-01-30 17:43:09 · 24 answers · asked by ROBERT M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we broke up and he 's got a new gf which has been emailing me like crazy ,saying nasty things ...never saw her ,but l'm afraid l can see them someday and l dont know how to behave ...my will is to kill her,but l dont think that's the best way to keep my pride after all.he's an asshole anyway.so give me some advice please,l need to be prepared for that.

2007-01-30 17:41:34 · 15 answers · asked by ann 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so when i was 17 (i'm 23 now) i was ripped. totally solid. 6-packed out the door, swam 2 hours a day, weight lifted 4 times a week hard. peak physical condition, and got the ladies (body AND confidence, a deadly mix wouldn't you say?)

anyway, i'm - a lot - heavier now, (though losing weight mind you, trying to get ripped again........well not ripped, that'll take a LONG time, but skinnier) but i have this whole image of not being attractive to the opposite sex until i achieve my previous look. i had all this confidence when i was "hot" and now, it just seems the confidence is totally gone and i can't seem to get myself happy, i have this image of what I USED to look like, and can only seem to think "when i get back to looking like that, THEN the ladies will like me"............what is the cure to this problem? without paying 120 an hour, i mean.

2007-01-30 17:40:54 · 5 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4 in Singles & Dating

heres the deal. theres this girl in my class. i like her and i think she might like me to. on the first day of class we had to ask three classmates for their phone #'s she asked for mine so we exchanged #'s. the other day day i noticed that my name and # we on the top of her paper with a star next to it. also, i dont know if its my imagination, but it seem like she always stands near me during class activities. Although im always complimented on my looks im really insecure around girls. im not scared to talk to them at all, but im scared to show that i might be intrested. anyway i guess what im asking is 1) do you think she might be intrested and 2) what should i do? (call, ask her out, etc)

2007-01-30 17:40:39 · 8 answers · asked by sushiking 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you hate about them and what makes you crazy about them also

2007-01-30 17:40:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think a woman in general and especially a 53 years old woman can be sexually aroused by rubbing her feet?

2007-01-30 17:40:18 · 9 answers · asked by emad haddad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend's house burnt done a complete days ago. Besides supporting her I would like to know some things I can get her besides the obvious clothes and toiletrees.

2007-01-30 17:39:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is there any advice on how to conduct myself? I am 2 and a half years sober, I am asking for more rights with my 2 children, last year I was grantes supervised visits, The visits went extremely well. I am now asking for unsupervised with joint legal custody. They live out of state . Thank you

2007-01-30 17:39:39 · 3 answers · asked by sofora k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

...Does anybody know about persian girls?? ( iranian girls)
...if u do...tell me what u think about them...( look, personality,....)...Thanks

2007-01-30 17:38:49 · 1 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

So the worst of times bring out the best of people, or the worst of times show your true nature.

To see what I can expect, tell me your most awful, Greek-tragedy love story of how things ...

weren't meant to be.

2007-01-30 17:37:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to move back to where I'm from but my sister is bi-polar and I am scared that if I moved back to that area she is going to use anything she can do including manipulate my friends, co-workers and roommates, like she has a in the past, to control my life. Should I not move because of her or should I move and just give the people I work with a disclaimer?

2007-01-30 17:34:50 · 3 answers · asked by hollydolly1083 1 in Family

for some time now i have asked questions regarding a relationship i was in and now on my way out. i have finally got a place and will be moving in 7 days. how would you feel? answer this for me please and forgive my misspelled words.1.) his mom goes in our room and steals my possessions! my b/f & his mom blame it on the dog??? she takes my medicine! clothes!food!underware that will never fit her. mail & credit cards including his as well.he keeps saying he will put a lock on the door that will never happen.he takes this lightly, i do not! at times we feud & ive had my toll. ive tried to talk but no response as hedoes not take anything serious. i may break his heart when i up and leave but really what choices do i have? NONE.im a nurse and he does not want me to work? so i asked for $6.00 he makes $30 an hour. he said do tou think im made of money? i felt guilty so i will pay him back friday.he is kind at most times so i feel sad. but its to late!1how do you feel??opinions please,thanks

2007-01-30 17:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

No sad story here but I feel like I have lost sense of myself, married, 2 kids, hubby in Iraq...And all I want is to go away, escape, tired of the same routine. Should I pack and leave until my hubby come back? I have no family here...No friends...Just tired living in a small town...
Not asking for an answer because it is up to me, but I feel my hands are tied, I told him I could handle it, but it is really taking a toll on me ( 4 y.o and 7m.o)
Anyone been there and done that?

2007-01-30 17:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

And what things do you wish you guys could do together more often. (Ok, Ok, NOT THAT!!!!) What things in general do guys like doing with their girls????

2007-01-30 17:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by spyster07 1 in Singles & Dating

I told her I pick Guy A. Then I told him what was said. He said "You better pick me". Then we dicsussed that Guy B had told Guy A that I was more interested in Guy B. (But I'm not!). My crush told Guy B ... there's no way Gator likes you more than she likes me!
Does Guy A's acknowledgement that I "better like him" and that I like him more mean I am "getting anywhere" with Guy A?

2007-01-30 17:33:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am now financially down and i asked my so called "friends" if they can lend me money and promised I pay them next payday. they told me they dont have money and I understand so i did not ask anymore. the morning & the next days after , i saw them shopping at a mall nearby.i feel offended by what they did so i started to avoid them. they keep on asking me to spend time with them but i keep on telling them excuses. how can i deal with such friends when you know that they are really not true friends to you?

2007-01-30 17:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by st_joys0721 1 in Friends

i always come across people who want me to change according to them. but i m confussed but i love them

2007-01-30 17:32:13 · 21 answers · asked by SHWETA 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in a small town and they are few and far between around here!

2007-01-30 17:31:40 · 27 answers · asked by SARAH D 4 in Singles & Dating

him refers to my crush. i already know he likes me, and i like him, and im not afraid of rejection! but why am i soo nauseous when i think about him. or wen i'm around him?

2007-01-30 17:31:15 · 8 answers · asked by Hehe. ;]] 3 in Singles & Dating

my roommate is an idiot and she hates me because i have michael jackson posters on the wall. once she took it off the wall because she said she "doesn't want to look at a child rapist." what a jerk! can i take down her dumb johnny depp poster? should i get revenge?

2007-01-30 17:30:28 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer 5 in Friends

i am 38 he will be 45 in june.....6 1/2 yrs older.

seems like ok to me,,,,any older would be less in common??? what do you think?

oh,,,,and one more??? do you guys really like to spend every day with your sig. other, together??? I told him to give it a rest.....be with his friends.....that I do not need to see him every day, only because I do not want to over do it,,,,I said that as well. Your thoughts???

2007-01-30 17:30:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance has 3 kids from a previous marriage, and is still fishing around with his divorce...my question is if there was a man waiting for you to be with him, would you leave your fiance and not put up with all his drama, to live a simple life and have it made?

2007-01-30 17:27:46 · 3 answers · asked by Heather H 2 in Singles & Dating

My ten year old son asked me this .

2007-01-30 17:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'vebeen with my guy for 5 years. Since the beginning of our relationship I have always had a few problems. Like he won't listen if I have a problem or if somethings wrong - he won't ever tell me how he feels - he never does anything sweet - he will do really mean things whenever we're talking about something and he doesn't want to. And there are a few other things. In general most of the time I have had the feeling that he is taking me for granted and I HATE that. I'm a pretty good catch and all I want is to feel like he likes me and cares. He says that he loves me more than anything and that he doesn't know what he'd do without me, but he won't make these changes even when I say I'm gonna break up with him. So I did it. I dumped him and he knows why. Am I asking for too much? Is it not worth breaking up for? I just really don't want to spend my life feeling unappreciated. Please tell me what you think.

2007-01-30 17:24:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating