ok, it started out as a 4 yr friendship and then went to something more. he lives with me, and we were set on having me and my girlfriend of 10 yrs live together. NOW.....it was an adjustment and now he is like lazy, doesn't want to put the effort in to learn to read better, to get a REAL job, he hangs out with his boys and when i confront him says"you don't knowhow hard it is out there...{OR} "i'm working on things,"" then he has a temper and has harrassed me bordering on being abusive, he punched a hole in my closet door cause i asked him to help with the bills- and he called his mamma about it! sure he helps a little around the house, i'll admit, but he's lazy and i got to tell him to do everything. i hate to be a *****, but damn, he broke my cell and isn't helping to pay for it, my girlfriend called him a lazy mofkr, and i can't deal with this, he's 28 yrs old for god sake, so any ideas? sometimes i can't stand to be around him so what do i gotta do? ideas to mk him leave?
2007-01-30
17:06:18
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