SHE ALSO SAYS THAT I AM NOT LOOKING GOOD
2007-01-30 17:06:09 · 7 answers · asked by CAPTAIN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, don't marry a woman who would refuse a proposal based on the way you look or a mere one year age difference. Those are lame excuses and either you two are very young or she's too immature to tell you the real reason. In either case, the best thing you can do is to move on. She may realize what she's missing and come back to you. But if not you are better off finding someone who will marry you for you and not be blinded by superficial things.
2007-01-30 17:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by blhenne 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't marry you to make you happy. He should marry you because he's 100% certain it's what he wants and he WANTS to be your husband and build a life with you. If he feels like he was tricked or coerced or bullied into it, he'll eventually resent it... and throw it in your face every time you have an argument. I'm not at all against prenups. They're not romantic, but what legal document is? However, his attitude about everything makes it seems like marrying you would be some big sacrifice on his part. That's just awful, as far as I'm concerned.
2016-03-18 00:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually she is not confident on you and so she is hasitating to respond. So you have to me more than a human to take her into confidence by helping her in all possible ways. You can help her family, her studies, try to know her hobbies and nature, likes and dislikes and slowly win her heart. You have to be confident within yourself too and try to prosper in life. Once she is confident, she will certainly come to you sponteneously.
But if she is strict in her mind that she would not accpet anyone junior to her, then it's better to leave her. It is also a fact that for biological reasons wife should be younger than the husband by 4 to 5 years.
2007-01-30 21:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to impress someone that thinks you're ugly and immature? If I were you, I'd find someone else to impress. Good Luck!
2007-01-30 17:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Leohades 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to impress anyone, you need to find someone that
'will lrespect and appreciate you, she sound like she not the one
you need to waste any more time with. she making excuses and
you really deserve a lot more then this one. time to move on.
2007-01-30 17:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey captain dnt get dishearted if she says ur not looking gud den she dnt worth gud person like coz she said all dis 2u and still u wanna impress her no my dear frnd have some self respect 4urself
2007-01-30 17:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve that. Sorry, but it just sounds like an excuse. She doesn't sound as into you as you are into her. Find someone who deserves you.
2007-01-30 17:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by hopewriter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to do some serious thinking about moving on.
2007-01-30 17:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this isnt love, you love her but she is taking you for a ride. it sounds like a convenient relationship to her.. do you spoil her rotten that she wants to hang around for the benefits but not the love? dont understand! you need to find someone who will appreciate you and love you back!!
2007-01-30 17:17:01 · answer #9 · answered by AngD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her pregnant :) there is no turning back after that point :) .. teh key is seduction
2007-01-30 17:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋