do you belive that you should support your wife (no kids), if she does not ask for much and loves you and honors you and is respectful to your feelings? even if medical reasons stop her from working? what would you do to keep her happy? if she was not happy and told you piddly things to make it better, would you be willing to do them? feel free to email if you wish...oh...and BE HONEST!!! men only please and 40 to 45 yrs old
2007-01-30 17:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely Yes..
She should not have to work if she does not want to work
or if her health is the least bit in question...
She is my lover, my best friend and my chosen companion through
life....She is my other half, what makes me whole...
If she went to the fridge at 10pm to get a popcicle and there were
none, I would ask her if she wanted me to run to the store to get
her one....And I would mean it....And I am 47 yrs. old....
2007-01-30 17:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
42 years old to be honest with you, i would give my wife a certain monthly allowance for her personal needs. I would likewise expect the same if I was medically down. Life is to be shared. On the other hand, is he having financial difficulties for the moment? perhaps he is not opening up to you and that could pose a problem. Strongly suggest that you sit down with him and ask him eye to eye until the truth comes out. If it is the case, then you need to let him know that you support him as well until he can get things turned around for all of you! putting more pressure on him will only exacerbate the problem and make things worse.
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2007-01-31 05:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your are seriously thinking about middle aged wife and husband relationship.. I am having 24 years marriage life experiance in 44 years since i married in 20 years. I have seen many feelings, movements and cercumstances with my wife.
I can say that spouse is only companion through out our life started from marriage to end. one is bonded with other and hence it became single object. so one can say couple is single body with two elements.
though bodies are different they have attached to single bond. It may be trated as that spouse is also part and parcel of ones body.
if your get hurt any of your body part what will u do. you do whatever thing to cure it. like wise we have to do for the betterment or happiness of spouse. it is ones duty to extend the needs and fulfill the willings of other without expecting the same from other. That is the great job fulfulling in 100%.
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2007-01-31 01:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by venus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm disabled due to heart complications (CHF) and my wife works full-time and also goes to school four days a week, And I still work under the table to contribute to our families well being. So I would probably have to "ASK" her to be more supportive. Love is love, Respect is respect, But someone willing to contribute as well means so much more to me...
2007-01-31 01:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would
but it does depend on what the medical problem is
and it might depend on time if this is a recent thing time might help
2007-01-31 01:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by creme8888 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HONESTLY, I think you're looking for an internet honey to fill your emotional needs. Get help.
2007-01-31 01:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋