Should I stick with the break up??

Question

I'vebeen with my guy for 5 years. Since the beginning of our relationship I have always had a few problems. Like he won't listen if I have a problem or if somethings wrong - he won't ever tell me how he feels - he never does anything sweet - he will do really mean things whenever we're talking about something and he doesn't want to. And there are a few other things. In general most of the time I have had the feeling that he is taking me for granted and I HATE that. I'm a pretty good catch and all I want is to feel like he likes me and cares. He says that he loves me more than anything and that he doesn't know what he'd do without me, but he won't make these changes even when I say I'm gonna break up with him. So I did it. I dumped him and he knows why. Am I asking for too much? Is it not worth breaking up for? I just really don't want to spend my life feeling unappreciated. Please tell me what you think.

Answer 1

Actions speak louder than any words. If he really wanted you, you would have known by now. Be true to yourself. Stay with the break-up. Be strong. Or he will see that he can take advantage of you; then it may even be worse than it is now. Be proud of yourself.
Go out with the girls and have fun for a change. (There will be another guy looking your way). Good Luck!!!!

Answer 2

Never invest more than 2 - 3 yrs, in a relationship without marriage.
Never have kids out of wedlock..
Never marry someone that you can see problems with..
The problems will get worse after marriage and you can't fix them.
So the answer to your question is yes...
Break up with the guy and be more careful in your choices of
men next time...Don't base your choice on charisma & looks...
Bad boys may be exciting but they are a ticket to lonlineness, abuse and failed marriages...

Answer 3

If it bothers you then it is a problem. He can say that he loves you til he is blue in the face, but if he cant show you they are only words. Stick with the break up. If you feel that you deserve more (and I think that you do) then you deserve more. Never sell yourself short everyone else in this world will. You have to take care of you and if it hurts a little, it will be okay, the heart mends.

Answer 4

i thought you wre talking about me. im at the end of my rope too. but one thing i have learned so far is you cant change no one only yourself. you have every right to let him know what doesnt make you happy. if he does nothing about it you have your answer. it seems to me that a guy rather break up then to change. im in the exact same and i mean exact same boat. me and my bf are on the verge of a break up. becuz of the same reasons you descibed in your relationship. i havent let him touch me in almost 4 weeks. im sick of his ways. i have been fussing with him for 2 yrs about the same problems. and still no change . we have broken up before cuz of this. still no change. so i say just let him go. cuz when my bf leaves this time it is over forgood. ive given him many chances and still no change. life is to short. so you go girl. it is not wrong of you. ill pray for both of us to stay strong. these guys really and truely are not even worth the effort.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

girl you've done the right thing! You don't wanna go out with a guy who won't respect you...you weren't asking for much at all....you just wanted him to treat you the way you wanted to be treated. good on ya!

Answer 7

there is two sides to every story, but it doesn't sound as if you two are compatible, if you don't think he was nice to you for 5 yrs, there is little chance it will ever get better.
It sounds like you made the only real choice, do not change your mind and go back, as it doesn't sound like you will ever be happy with him.

Answer 8

i think that you did what you thought wa right for you. . and really
you have a right to feel as you, if about respect and if you feel
that someone is taken you for granted. then you did right,
you should have done it sooner then that. now you will find
the someone that will appreciated you. GOOD FOR YOU....
BE HAPPY. LIFE IS TO SHORT FOR NOT GETTING WHAT
YOU WANT. AND YOU ARE NOT ASKING FOR MUCH
I THINK THAT EVERY WOMEN IS LOOKING FOR APPRECIATION. RESPECT.

Answer 9

you deserve better, dont settle for whats in the now...be happy and satisfied with your life. stick to the break up honey!

Answer 10

definetly not, u did what your heart told u! and trust me you will find someone tons better than him that will cherish your every move!!! every girl deserves a guy to appreciate her!!!

~best wishes