So the worst of times bring out the best of people, or the worst of times show your true nature.
To see what I can expect, tell me your most awful, Greek-tragedy love story of how things ...
weren't meant to be.
2007-01-30 17:37:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I saw, I fell, she conquered, and we married!!!
2007-01-30 18:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what you can expect.
Romantic head over heals "love" not only isn't love, it doesn't last.
If you marry someone for good looks two things will happen. After awhile the same beautiful woman or same handsome man won't turn you on anymore. Secondly male and female -- they don't get to keep them.
Men are idiots, they divorce good wives because they fall in love with a 22 year old who will likely make their life miserable. The reason some 22 year old women do this is that for some reason they like to break up a marriage of a man who doesn't know better, they think of you as a wallet. And yes for some they get a kick out of a marriage breakup, although the man is just or rather more responsible for the divorce --- cheating is cheating. This goes for women too.
Divorces are expensive, they hurt your partner, your children and ultimately you. Marrying someone older or younger is NOT a mistake, divorcing someone to marry someone younger is a big mistake. A divorce means does not mean you married the wrong person, it means that you are not capable of doing what it takes to be married.
Real love takes time and it takes effort. It takes forgiveness and it means that you do what your partner wants because it means a lot to them, and sometimes you don't understand why and they can't explain it to you. She should also do the same for you. It especially means not holding a grudge after an argument. Lastly when I say it takes work, it takes work. You need being alone time with each other every day. Job, children, parents do not come first, your marriage comes first period, even before the children.
If one partner puts the children first, you will have to confront this problem head on. I've heard "Dr. Laura" say children come first. This is sheer idiocy. Your marriage comes first, it's a promise you made before God. Remember to keep it no matter what. Having children does not give you a "Get you out of your promise to God card." This is the hardest lesson of all for most couples to learn.
2007-01-30 18:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 he was 24, we dated for quite a while and of course one thing lead to another, I got pregnant and since I was so young we decided that I should terminate the pregnancy- only he didn't think he should assist me in paying for it- which of course lead to a fight and break-up! I left town to take care of things and when I came back I heard that he had gone out with this "easy" chick which broke my heart! Then I heard she was pregnant!!!! And she was!! But she decided to have the baby-he never saw her again after she had the baby and he ended up leaving town-not knowing that I still cared for him deeply and every now & again I see the child that other girl had and she looks just like him!! It pisses me off but also sort of makes me relieved that I decided to do what I did-he never paid support or had anything to do with either one again and I met a great guy , we married and had two kids and recently became grandparents! I saw that guy about three years ago (it's been like 20 since we saw each other)and he said to me "you know what? I don't have many regrets in my life but the way I treated you- that is probably one of the biggests regrets I do have" He had married but got divoriced and has no kids,(cept' for that one ) no place to live and was barely making enough money to eat!!My heart did a small flip-flop and when I went home I cried and cried-I am not sure why I cried-but I think it was sadness for him-because he was so alone now!! But my life was and is great now!The way it wasn't meant to be was him & I together!
2007-01-30 17:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here is my story, we are not even sure it will lead anywear but I want it to. There is so much I love about him, he is the very first person to ever stand up for me and protect me, tell me to stand up for myself, he caresses my face and tells me how much happier his life is now that I'm in it. But there are some major things we disagree on and after a little over 2 weeks of argueing, he says he just wants to be friends but acts like he has stronger feelings for me. He does not want any other men hitting on me, I answered a questionar about what 5 things would I tell him that I have never told him before I died, what 5 things would I ask him etc. He replied and said I hope you know what my answers would be but frankly I'm not really sure. He says he is not looking for anyone else and wants to see where this leads but he seems different the last few days. He wants me to do things that go way beyond the extreme just to prove I love him, some of the things I want to work on and try to change, see things from a different point of view but it is hard to just through your ideas on particular subjects out the door. I am afraid he will leave if I don't do it and I'm afraid he'll leave if I do. He says he would never do that to me and that I'm too important to him. I am really falling head over heals as I consider him the needle in a hay stack and I found him, I am learning to take things slow as I have never done that before but it is so hard. This may not be a tragic love story but it feels like I am looseing the man of my dreams before I really know if he's mine or not.
2007-01-30 17:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by lost angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt my love story but my late brothers.... He got engaged to his first girlfriend at age 23 after a year of dating and he got murdered the Tuesday before his wedding. They were supposed to get married the saturday.... I think you dont get any more tragic than that.
2007-01-30 17:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My most tragic love story was when I was 19 y.o.
I met and fell in love with a great, handsome, fun, sweet man
I was a gonner. I got pregnant, he and I were going to get married, he fell into a group of really bad drug users and got hooked on Heroin, I got pregnant again and had our second son, We were trying to get help for the drug problem.... He overdosed and died. I was left with 2 babies, no husband....my world was over. Story over. Say NO to drugs! It ruins lives.
I went on to other relationships, but never got over my first love, Louie...Rest in peace sweetheart. I love you still!
2007-01-30 17:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Reenie W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife (now exwife) left me two days after 2 of my best friends were buried.
2007-01-30 17:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cing 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have two..both ex boyfriends were killed whilst i was dating them...one in a bike accident..the other in a machine accident at work..(that was within 3 years of each boyfriend
2007-01-30 17:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
me and this guy were dating for four years and then he whent for a business trip and didnt call and i didnt see him for a whole 14 months then he showed up on my doorstep wanting to get back together needless to say i shut the door!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 17:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL AFTER 10 YEARS OF MARRIAGE OF A MAN I NEW SENCE THE AGE OF 9, HE WAS MY FIRST BOYFRIEND AND WE MARRIED AND AFTER 10 YEARS OF OUR MARRIAGE I WALKED IN ON HIM ON MY BIRTHDAY AND CAUGHT HIM MALESTING MY DAUGHTER. NOW 12 YEARS LATER GOD HAS SENT ME A WONDERFULL MAN OF GOD AND ALL MY KIDS LOVE HIM!!! AND OUR LIVE IS WONDERFULL NOW. VERY HAPPY ENDING. AND MY DAUGHTER IS HAPPILY MARRIED WITH 2 KIDS!!!
2007-01-30 17:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
mmmmmmmmm............................................
that day i'm doin night duty in a hospital
i'm a doctor.....
on the same day,he was met in an accident
so, he was bleeding,
i operate him and cleaned his wounds
after that,he was send to i.c.u ward
i will go to his ward everyday to do regular check up
we became good frens then
one day he introduce me to his family members......
then her mother asked me wanna be my daughter in law...
i was shocked............
and i didn't check him for 3 days.....
i ask another doctor to check him...
he came to my place after we discharged him.....
than we became frens
and finally we become lovers
he is an accountant.....
thats the end.............
2007-01-30 18:16:14 · answer #11 · answered by seetha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋