Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I've never really talk to a guy on an intimate level before, and this guy came up to me and said that he was interested in me. So I gave him my number an he's supposed to call me in order to get to know each other better. I'm supper shy, and I get tense when a guy I like talks to me. I afraid that I wouldn't know what to say, or he'd ask me questions that I don't want to answer. What should I do?

2007-01-28 15:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lizy 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyways I am a girl and I tried flirting with this guy last month.

While I was talking to him, I noticed he spit (some people do that, hence the saying "say it don't spray it") so I said "You spit on me!" He is now walking away so he says sorry. I reply with "It's a blessing." He turns around, smiles and says "Thank you, thank you for everything." (I showed him my project too and he said it was ideal for what I was doing.)

Anyways how would you feel if that happened to you? He isn't allowed to date me and I can't be too directed with the flirting...thanks.

2007-01-28 15:19:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

prostitute or he goes to bed with his girl friend ?

2007-01-28 15:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by yesiree 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Girls tell me im cut and stuff right so what right ok im very nice smart romantic and all that stuff
Not bad for a 16 year old ok my ? Is y cant I get a good gf girls plezzz help
ps And every time I think I found a good one they brake my hart y

2007-01-28 15:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to take to take a break during a relationship or is a break likely to make things worse?

2007-01-28 15:18:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've tried everything everyone's told me, I've been outgoing, friendly, patient, I talk to people in classes,joined clubs, I say hi to people every chance I get, I plan my day around bumping into people I know to have a chat, pretty much anything anyone can think of. I was alone in high school, my mom, the school coundelor and everyone told me it would get better when i moved to a new city to go to university, but it didn't. I meet new people all the time and even have a few regular friends but i always get forgotten about. I don't get invetied to parties (don't tell me thier not imprtant because they are) Í sit in my apartment on weekends. Every move I make is trying to find someone to be with but that doesn't happen often. I act relaxed and pretend I'm not lonely and desperate when I do have people around but they still lose interest. I have hobbies and talk to people with the same hobbies (music). Should I just give up? Is there anything left to try? 'm tired of being patient

2007-01-28 15:17:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 15:17:27 · 15 answers · asked by MeggiePoo 1 in Singles & Dating

here's what's going on. i have a friend i used to stay with and i am still in the process of recovering all of my belongings from her house. just recently, i saw that she had on a pair of my panties. i couldn't have mistaken them. there's a size difference between us and they were several other indications that proved that they were obviously not her's. how should i react to my friend? should i confront her about it? am i being weird?

2007-01-28 15:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 15:16:46 · 3 answers · asked by k marie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I wanna let this guy know that i like him, but i don't want him to know that i want him to know. Is that confusing? But any ideas?

2007-01-28 15:15:43 · 3 answers · asked by Tizmo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 15:15:21 · 9 answers · asked by Shadow 3 in Singles & Dating

It's my second anniversary and i want to gift something gud to my husband....my limit is 2000/- bugs...no watches ,no perfumes....

2007-01-28 15:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by nanny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sometimes I really don't have anything to say and this seems to make her upset. Why?

2007-01-28 15:14:21 · 5 answers · asked by BRAINS! 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 15:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by carey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf and i act like we are a married couple of many years. but we've only been together a few months.
we hang out with my sister.
we refer to everything as ours or we or us.
when shopping we tend to by more towards the necessities instead of wants.
i cut his hair every two weeks for him.
he does my laundry.
we have little nicknames for each other.

is this still the puppy love stage or is a good potential for a future with this guy?

2007-01-28 15:12:30 · 17 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

.... I have no one to talk to. I am trapped here & my family is so far away.. I am around judgmental people with no, well (a tiny bit of compassion) and I have no friends. The people I would like to be friends with think that I am a snob like the people I have to be around. to tell you the truth the personality you read on my 360 page is who i really am but i can't be that way around these people.. they are republican(if that says anything). so Basicly I am completely alone ... i have been invited to visit my bf's friends mom but I was told i cant go there because my bf's mom will think i am some kind of trouble maker because she doesn't like that they aren't like her....... so what the hell do i do i am trapped ... no where to go .. no one to help me .. i keep telling my bf that i need counseling but he say's i am fine and so does his mom... i know you will all tell me to leave him ...Believe me i would if i could but i have no money and no where to go... I am not abused physiclly.

2007-01-28 15:11:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is considering letting someone knowing their feelings towards a girl he likes. However, he has no clue how to do it, and has turned to me for advice. Guess what. I have no clue what to tell him, lol. However, I was thinking of telling him these ways. Which one is better? Why? Is there a better way? I know no way is perfect, but what way do you think is best for him?

A. "I was wondering, do you want to go *Wherever* with me this *whenever*?"
or
B. "I must tell you the truth - My feelings for you... have sort of grown for you, and I thought it was time you should know."

Well, I was gonna tell him go with B, but I know A. is more traditional. Of course, he would expand. What do you think? Oh, and he told me he asked her once like A already, and she said she was busy that day... that's why I was gonna suggest him B, as he won't be too sure of her feelings if she says yes or no with A With B, he'll know what her real feelings are without being confused. Thanks in advance.

2007-01-28 15:11:00 · 2 answers · asked by Nova 2 in Singles & Dating

to let her know you made it safe to your travel destination to visit your girlfriend ? ( you being the guy). Is it ok or am I over reacting ?

2007-01-28 15:10:47 · 20 answers · asked by Mx2 4 in Singles & Dating

think of sex all the time girls,,,,,,, let me know what do you think of that i know its good sometimes but like all all all the time i think thats the biggest part on there brain !!!!!! any ways can u answer y they think of sex all the time

2007-01-28 15:10:43 · 18 answers · asked by canada chick 2 in Singles & Dating

question above?

2007-01-28 15:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by Who_am_i 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to go look at my boyfriend's phone and he snatches it away saying there is nothing to see on it. We get into and argument and he didn't let me see the phone and thus got "mad" when I persisted and broke the phone, which was basically the only thing to prove he has nothing to hide. He then shows me a text from a girl saying she will call him back when she gets out of court. I ask who the girl was and why are they texting each other. He says someone left a secret admirer note on his car with the wrong # and he thought it was "Natalie". So what if it was her? It doesn't matter who it is! We have been together for a year and 4 months. Mind you, this happened on our anniversary. Now when I ask him the same questions over and over to catch him lying, he refuses, says "I love you", or tries to change the subject. We fight about this everyday because I persistantly ask him. So is he CHEATING, LYING, or HIDING something?

2007-01-28 15:09:34 · 29 answers · asked by JuicyPiink 1 in Singles & Dating

iam 32 years old i just got married may of last year. my husband and i are in the process of buying a home on east state fair two
blocks form east point in detroit mi, my parents are trying to talk
me out of moving down there which far away from them
so they cant nag me and interferr in my marraige anymore.
they say that the area is bad and they found people dead
over there and they shot and kill people. dose anyone
have a word of advice on what i should do or dose anyone
know that area over there if so tell me how is it really.

2007-01-28 15:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

a girl who smells good, quiet and okay looking
or a beautiful girl who is kinda loud and obnoxicous

2007-01-28 15:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we need some creative wording for our invitations. Our reception will be at the "bad Habit" beach house. Thank for your help! Looking for some originality.

2007-01-28 15:08:43 · 2 answers · asked by texas mom 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with this guy for a year and a half. Lately, i'm beginning to wonder whether he still loves me. He used to say that he will always love me as long as i love him. Any advice on this? Should i continue holding on to his words? I really love him. Does the 3 word, I Love You, an essential part in a relationship?

2007-01-28 15:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Callisto 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 15:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Helene M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone dated a much younger guy (i'm 27, he's 18)...and if so, what happened?? does anyone think it's wrong...
ps i don't go out with him!

2007-01-28 15:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thats always the adjective girls and some guys refer to me as. Im not sure whether thats a flattering term or not for a guy. what do you think. i mean i could be called ugly so its not that bad but what are these people meaning behind the comment.

2007-01-28 15:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom died when I was 8 years old (I am 15 now) and I just had some new neighbors move in just over a year ago. And at first I wanted nothing to do with their parents becasue thats just what I've been like since my mom died. But as I go over their and "hang out" I find myself wanting their mom to be in the same room as us and to talk to us and play games like "truth or dare" and "would you rather" with us. And then if the two girls that I'm "hanging out" with get yelled at by there mom I feel like I want to get into trouble too. It's really weird. I also find myself feeling jealous when she goes and sits next to one of her daughters. Another thing, sometimes I feel like I just want to sit down with her and just talk with just me and her. I'm not sure whats going on, can someone help me? AND what shoud I do about this?

2007-01-28 15:06:28 · 18 answers · asked by Truthordarelover 2 in Family

Would you ladies rather marry a doctor who is just average financially or a rich guy who has an average job? but is rich from his family.

2007-01-28 15:06:17 · 13 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1 in Singles & Dating