I went to go look at my boyfriend's phone and he snatches it away saying there is nothing to see on it. We get into and argument and he didn't let me see the phone and thus got "mad" when I persisted and broke the phone, which was basically the only thing to prove he has nothing to hide. He then shows me a text from a girl saying she will call him back when she gets out of court. I ask who the girl was and why are they texting each other. He says someone left a secret admirer note on his car with the wrong # and he thought it was "Natalie". So what if it was her? It doesn't matter who it is! We have been together for a year and 4 months. Mind you, this happened on our anniversary. Now when I ask him the same questions over and over to catch him lying, he refuses, says "I love you", or tries to change the subject. We fight about this everyday because I persistantly ask him. So is he CHEATING, LYING, or HIDING something?
2007-01-28 15:09:34 · 29 answers · asked by JuicyPiink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE broke his phone, which was the only proof.
2007-01-28 15:15:05 · update #1
Dump that loser. He is up to something.
2007-01-28 15:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by refractorygod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girl accuses me of that a bunch, because I stay friends with my ex's. I have never cheated on anyone, been in 3 relationships over 2 years a peice also. When I say I've got nothing to hide, I don't... but I still hate that she thinks I might.
I'd draw offence to her flipping through my phone because of the accusation. She claims it's from her past experiences, and it's something I've learned to deal with.
Every guy is different though, so while it's never been cheating for me, I don't know him well enough, but looking too hard could drive him away, even if he's not cheating.
2007-01-28 15:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i loved a girl but after 1 year and 4 mos. there were pproblems.
we broke up. better pff arguing.
dont ask a guy? ask everybody.
damn like were sexual enough that were different from you.
you are very very jelous and you dont like him talking to anyone?
yeah. same here.
your the one that wants the relationship but he doesnt?
you have to give up at one point in time.
dont be planning on what to say in the argument.
plan on wether you should keep him, or loose him.
you just can't trust anyone these days.
say you wanna leave and see if he wants you back, dont say if you change yada yada yada.
say i can't do this anymore...
im sorry...
what does he say...
then you'll know.
wether he fights for you or not...
2007-01-28 15:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hiding something-my ex bought me a cell phone and he had one, he would snatch mine up all the time and go through it who's this who's that. i wasn't doing anything wrong i had nothing to hide. i looked at his one day when he wasn't looking he had this girls name on there, he got real defensive why u looking through my phone. well he said it was his cousins girlfriend. come to find out like 3 months later it was some girl he had met from work, and he was texting her and going to her house trying to hook up with her after being with me for 2 yrs and we had a baby on the way. so yes he's guilty. he did it this one time i can guarantee he will do it again.
2007-02-05 14:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by 2516 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding his female friends because he likes you but your jealous. If it was me and I really liked you I would tell you outright, let the female friends know that I'm in a relationship, take the numbers I don't need off my phone and keep them elsewhere for a rainy day. (I just got out of a jealous relationship)
2007-01-28 15:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by doogie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I am not a guy but i will answer anyway. Dump him his is probably doing all three. Also, he wouldn't have broke his phone if he had nothing to hide.
2007-01-28 15:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to chill.
Asking him the same questions over and over again is only going to set fire to an already flammable situation - not advisable.
If you have your doubts, look for proof. If you find it, dump the chump and move on with your life. If you feel he's not giving you the truth, dump him. It'll be amazing to see his response.
2007-01-28 15:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already know he's lying. You already know he's hiding. If he's cheating, that's your call to make.
One thing though, breaking his phone is destruction of his property. You could be liable for the cost of the phone. You might want to keep your temper in check.
2007-01-28 15:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with a guy for 6months or so and we split for that reason. the reason my ex didnt really tell me about it was because it was his other girlfriend. your mans hiding something either a girl/guy or hes dealing drugs. i would look at his phone if he has a new one that is and see what happens cuz he most likely lied. even if you were looking at his phone and a text or if it rang you could just hand it to him he didnt want you to see what was coming. good luck
2007-01-28 15:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by marynew8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if he is not showing you something, he is hiding something. He either has something that he doesnt want you to see, he doesnt trust you, or he is cheating on you. Good luck either way but he is being devious for a reason
2007-01-28 15:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he's cheating, BUT.. I think he does have his mind on someone else.
Looks to me like he's hoping for something, but he's not about to let go of what he has unless he gets who he really wants.
Having someone is better then having no one.
That's just my opinion
2007-01-28 15:20:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋