I've never really talk to a guy on an intimate level before, and this guy came up to me and said that he was interested in me. So I gave him my number an he's supposed to call me in order to get to know each other better. I'm supper shy, and I get tense when a guy I like talks to me. I afraid that I wouldn't know what to say, or he'd ask me questions that I don't want to answer. What should I do?
2007-01-28 15:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lizy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
from one shy person to another. keep it light. talk about subjects that your comfortable with. if your comfortable with real person questions just say " sorry i cant answer that" if he ask why just be honest and say that you dont feel comfortable. hopes this helps
from stephanie
2007-01-28 15:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by yp_stephanie_el_monte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one! I'm shy too, ever since I was a teenager.
When you think about it, actually, shyness is an interesting feature of your personality and one that is not likely to change a lot. So if you are going to be friends with someone, you have to consider whether you want them to think of you as shy or not. If not, then how do you want them to see you? Probably it is best to be up front about who you are, at least if you want to have an honest relationship.
Anyway, if you are uncomfortable talking about yourself you can always ask him questions about himself.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-28 23:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by Eclectic_N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl,first off u need to have more confidence in urself.whatever he asks u ,u need to answer it ,it will make the conversation alittle spicyer.u dont want him to know that ure shy .he just might use that to his advantage.the conversation will seem abit dry,if u dont answer alot of the questions.try to pump up urself before like, yeah i can do this! this is nothing for me!.he should be happy im talking to him!,cause not alot of guys are worth my time.say that to urself,make sure he gets that .good luck gurl!
2007-01-28 23:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by kmyster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a normal conversation, just keep it cool, relax, flirt a little. Remember he's not face to face with you so that's less tension for you. He'll probably shoot up some good questions, you just gotta remember to keep being yourself, and enjoy!
2007-01-28 23:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say just be yourself and no matter what you do remember he's already interested so its not like he's gonna walk away...otherwise he wouldn't have made an attempt
Good luck hun!
2007-01-28 23:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yea me too
but once you start talking to him for a while you will get to know him better and one thing to get to know him better is to play the "question game"
2007-01-28 23:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start simple, be yourself. If you try to be something or someone your not, your setting yourself up to have a bad relationship
2007-01-28 23:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by College Boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, be the woman just approach him ask him out. be the leader until he takes the lead.
please vote best answer.
2007-01-28 23:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Idina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋