here's what's going on. i have a friend i used to stay with and i am still in the process of recovering all of my belongings from her house. just recently, i saw that she had on a pair of my panties. i couldn't have mistaken them. there's a size difference between us and they were several other indications that proved that they were obviously not her's. how should i react to my friend? should i confront her about it? am i being weird?
2007-01-28 15:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just let her have them.unless their like really expensive.make it as an excuse to go panty shopping!!
my old best friend has like 10 thongs of mine from when we used to live together.haha.i let her keep them.
you'll eventually get over it.just go buy some new ones.=]]]
2007-01-28 15:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My little sister use to steal mine all the time, I know it's a little different when they are family, but it's still gross. I tried talking to her many times and never got anywhere, I finally had to say something to her in front of her boyfriend, needless to say she doesn't do it anymore. I wouldn't suggest doing that right away, you may be able to say something to her about it and out of embarrassment she will stop. If you don't want to confront her, next time you notice her wearing them make a comment about them like "So and so, have you seen my ???? underwear, I think I may have left them here." Maybe once she knows you noticed them missing she will pretend to find them and give them back. I wouldn't suggest wearing them again if she does lol.
2007-01-28 23:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by lil_momma_of_two 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem with someone who was staying with me. I confronted her and told her she needed to give them (and my other stuff) back and then I told her to leave. BTW, I threw the panties away after getting them back.
2007-02-05 22:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to her and say. since you want to wear my used panties you can keep them but i saw these really cute ones at _________(insert store) that you are going to buy me to pay for the ones you wore. then in a chipper voice say bye. being a lil bitchy is a good way to get your point across. plus also that is really gross!!!! you don't ever wear someone else's panties. even if they are washed.
2007-02-05 14:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by ber-ber21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah.....that is very odd...Now I know its normal to trade clothes with friends, like shirts, pants, and shoes, but *not* underwear...Now if they were clearly yours, I would confront her about it. It doesnt seem like you gave her any permission.
2007-02-05 15:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by alison p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her why she was wearing your underwear and ask her not to its not weird its weird for her to be wearing them in the first place id be pretty disturbed if someone was wearing my panties
2007-01-28 23:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by britt b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would absolutely FREAK!!! I am such a germ freak and even though you can wash clothes in extremely hot water...that is just WRONG!!!!!
2007-02-05 21:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_me19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. thats not normal on her part. she shouldnt be wearing your underwear lol. thats pretty weird. confront her about it.
2007-02-05 23:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you'd like them back. After she washes them.
2007-02-05 16:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by southerngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok datz jux gross. let her keep em n tell her 2 buy u some new onez pronto!
2007-02-05 19:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥PiNk RoCkS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋