I've been with this guy for a year and a half. Lately, i'm beginning to wonder whether he still loves me. He used to say that he will always love me as long as i love him. Any advice on this? Should i continue holding on to his words? I really love him. Does the 3 word, I Love You, an essential part in a relationship?
2007-01-28 15:08:12 · 6 answers · asked by Callisto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He still calls me with the nickname he used to call me before though.
2007-01-28 15:36:10 · update #1
I had just asked him his whereabouts, because today is his day off from work. He said he's watching movies. Not long after that, i sms him again, and that's when i found out, he shuts off his hp. Does this mean anything? He really is bored with me, right?
2007-01-28 20:01:25 · update #2
if you arent the best sex he can get at the time, he doesnt love you. there is probably someone else he is seeing on the side
2007-01-28 15:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by threeojl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Seeing as you two have been together for a long time, I'm thinking things are slowing down because of always doing the same thing with eachother.
Why not try new things, spice things up a bit. Surprise him with some new dish you learned how to cook, or just buy him a gift out of the blue.
Learn a new fact out there that you know would interest him to get things going.
Usually the signs that things are drifting apart is whenever you two spend time together, he rarely holds your hand or doesnt try to touch you. (kind of sits distantly away)
He makes and breaks promises to meet somewhere or to do something together. (dont count phone calls; men are just lazy when it comes to that)
he doesnt say i love you anymore, at all, especially if you say it to him. He tries to avoid that word at all cost.
all of the sudden he cant find time to hang out with you, or even call you. (this doesnt apply if he just got a new job)
2007-01-28 15:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a heart to heart talk with your bf. It's no use really just guessing how he feels. If you feel he has changed in his attitude towards you, there must be some reasons for that and it"s not always what you feared. He might have other personal problems which he can't tell you upfront or he might have some problems with his job or his family. Try to probe in a subtle way or as I say have a heart to heart talk with him. This will clear a lot of vague issues.
2007-01-28 15:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by bethcelis88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you perform oral on him and he starts doing a crossword puzzle using your head for a table,he's bored.
If he'd rather go to his kid sisters piano recital,he's bored.
If he yawns during sex,he's bored.
If during sex he 's yelling Oh Sarah! Yes, Sarah! But you're Jen,he's bored.
If you go out one night and he doesn't notice you wore crotchless pants , he's bored.
And if you offer backdoor access and he says"Nah,the History channels pretty good tonite"
then he is definitely bored.*
*but if you're still offering a backstage pass.....
2007-01-28 15:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The attention says it all. if you can't tell how much attention he is giving you, then you just don't want to realize it.
2007-01-28 15:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he will say, "lets take a break".....and u know wat that means....
2007-01-28 15:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋