.... I have no one to talk to. I am trapped here & my family is so far away.. I am around judgmental people with no, well (a tiny bit of compassion) and I have no friends. The people I would like to be friends with think that I am a snob like the people I have to be around. to tell you the truth the personality you read on my 360 page is who i really am but i can't be that way around these people.. they are republican(if that says anything). so Basicly I am completely alone ... i have been invited to visit my bf's friends mom but I was told i cant go there because my bf's mom will think i am some kind of trouble maker because she doesn't like that they aren't like her....... so what the hell do i do i am trapped ... no where to go .. no one to help me .. i keep telling my bf that i need counseling but he say's i am fine and so does his mom... i know you will all tell me to leave him ...Believe me i would if i could but i have no money and no where to go... I am not abused physiclly.
2007-01-28 15:11:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well then, hello friend. =)
2007-01-28 15:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to live the way that you do so i may suggest that you look at your talents and inrest and trie to get a job once you save up enough $$$$ move out of where ever you are and move to some place fun like California or hawii get a apartment , get a great job get a boy that you really love have a familey and live happly ever after , it may be jumping to conclusion but just do the first step SAVE UP okay and i wish you the best of luck
and get rid of the computer so it doesnt waste your time and money good luck again
2007-01-28 23:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by kilii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abuse is abuse it does not matter if it is physical or mental.get out and meet people and be YOU!!!!if they can not accept you that is somthing that they need to deal with and if your b/f really cares about you then he should be supporting your emotional needs.the one thing about lifeis that the more you try to please a person the more they want and it will never be enough no matter what you do.be happy with yourself even if you have to get away from b/f and struggle a bit and every thing will fall into place when the time is right but you are holding yourself back right now.hope everything works out for you,good luck
2007-01-28 23:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are in a growing phase and not quite sure which way to turn. If you are looking for more friends, get out there and find some. Do something for others and stop thinking about yourself so much. Seems like you have too much time on your hands and you need some purpose in life.
2007-01-28 23:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun first of all...do NOT assume to know what people will think or say. Secondly, dont be so wrapped up in yourself, but look outside of you and find a place your needed.. Get a job, volunteer, make yourself useful, learn to cook, learn to make things, find ways to contribute to this world so people look forward to your company.And STOP WHINING< stop saying you cant do things. Might be true that you cant, BUT YOU CAN LEARN and forget about you and get busy being usefu. You can only get a friend by being one.l
2007-01-28 23:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by kitty_kat4602000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your page says your interests are poetry, reading and cooking. Please tell me why a political affiliation (Republicans) keeps you from being friends with people who also read, eat, cook and may even write poetry?
I think perhaps you are the one too hung up on labels and assuming what people are like and that is why you have no friends.
2007-01-28 23:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move and work ur way up
or...
i dunno ur age...
switch schools
u sound intelligent and like a good person so...
don't worry...
just make sure u finish schooling and get the hell out a there...
good luck
xao:)
ps:
join an online forum...
also...search around town for people more like urself...
i think u said u were a democratic type?...
move to californiaxD
...but seriously...try going to skateparks, clubs(maybe), arts festivals, theaters, foreign films, music shops etc...
yeahhhh...take musik lessons(guitar duhhh!!!xD) (private lessons) and ask ur teacha to hook u up with some other musicians to start a band...instant friends
good luck
xaoooo;D
2007-01-28 23:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there.. Did you know most of usare on yahoo answers becoz we either a) have no friends or b) are complete loosers...
so hello friend. Also you have a bf so your not completely alone...
2007-01-28 23:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your family and why can't you go back there?? I'm sorry you're in the situation you're in, but you're the only one who can change it. Good luck!!
Need a friend?? Hi!!
2007-01-28 23:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mentally you are being abused hon and yes you should get away from your bf specially if he is allowing others to abuse you mentally.you need to treat yourself like your #1.
2007-01-28 23:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the courage to get counselling on your own.
2007-01-28 23:16:35 · answer #11 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋