2007-01-28 15:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Helene M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on the state and often the county you are in. In the state where I live, each county is different. Normally, you'd get the attorney first--you can get a free initial consultation. They will advise you, based on your circumstances, on how to proceed next. They know the in's and out's of the family/divorce court procedures. Make sure you have all financial records in order such as sources of income, debts, other assets such as a house, car, stocks, etc. And, if you don't already, make sure you have a bank/checking and savings accounts in your name only. That is possible in most states. If it is in your name, generally, you can't lose that as you need a place to hold your money. However, don't use it to "shelter" liquidated assets from the soon-to-be ex. If they, their attorney or the court determines this is happening, they CAN seize what's in the account if this asset depletion is occurring.
My advice: don't EVER go into a divorce court alone. Have an attorney that can help you. It may cost you money, but less than if you go it alone and potentially lose everything if your spouse were to get an attorney as well.
2007-01-28 15:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by prettymomofthree2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is different in every state filing is usually the first step well if you want to get picky separation is first
2007-01-28 23:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What step is that if i may ask?
2007-01-28 23:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire an lawyer first
2007-01-28 23:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋