Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

me and my bf broke up for a day or two and we were still talking so he gave me his friends sn and said to talk to him to see wat he stays. the guy didnt really say much he just gave me advice and said he was sry to hear that and then i talk to him a few days later and told him that me and my bf were back together. And he seemed like he was happy for us and stuff. Then i tried to avoid this guy when i went on aim so i made a new sn and after awhile i went back on my old one to get my friends sn's and he was on and imed me. He said hi and stuff asked me wat i was doing tomorrow and then asked me if i wanted to hang out with him sometime. i asked him if he knew who this was. he said yeah. i mean it seems like my bf wants to break up with me the way hes been talking but then when i told him how this guy imed me he said to talk to him to see where hes going with it. it seems like my bf wants to find out if he would break up with me if i could get another guy, but idk plz help.

2007-01-27 04:43:21 · 5 answers · asked by dream21 2 in Singles & Dating

Should i move on to someone else because he may not be interested? Help me.

2007-01-27 04:43:19 · 25 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 04:42:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my sister, but she is so moody and controlling. The thing is, she can be in a bad mood whenever she wants, but no one else can. She does things that she would get on me about. Like as soon as our mom gets home from a long shift, she demands, "I want us to go shopping." That's the type of selfishness my sister loves to rag me about. My sister ALWAYS has to be the one who's inconvenienced or the one who is scolding, not the inconveniencer or the one being scolded. A few months ago, she accused me of having a bad attitude about her borrowing something of mine (you can't do anything with her unless you're kissing her *** to the extreme). She overtalked me and slammed her door in my face. I threw it open and she attacked me. She shoved me against the wall and slammed my head against it. I had hair missing. I love her and we have good times, but I'm sick of her hypocrisy and unwillingness to ever be wrong. It's starting to put a strain on me! What should I do? She's 23 and I'm 19.

2007-01-27 04:41:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm am going through some tough things right now so I wonder, if I tell my story is it worth someone else's time to hear or read it?

2007-01-27 04:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by itsjustme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you were married to a rich man (millions), would you be a working-mother or stay-at-home mom?

2007-01-27 04:40:27 · 11 answers · asked by Charlotte Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, do you guys think ex boyfriend/ girlfriends could be f**k buddies. in you experience is it ok for fun or just messy!?

2007-01-27 04:37:32 · 15 answers · asked by cookie 85 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 andmy family is pretty messed up and there all dieing and doing drugs and etc... and there crazy etc.. i wanna do good in life im working 4 jobs to support myself and my sisters and im trying to do good in school but im really afraid that im going to turn out like the people in my family what should i do??!?!?!?!??!im scared and i dont wanna die because i wa sin a gang or i dont wanna do drugs or get all pill crazy or sleep with every1s man in my family or anything help me!!!!what if i turn out like them!any1 have anyway to help me so i wont?

2007-01-27 04:37:16 · 14 answers · asked by juggalette 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 19 years old and I live on my own and there is this 16 year old girl who I think is using me. She is now dressing like me, she cut her hair and colored it like mine, she got the same phone as I have, and she always wants to spend the night with me on the weekends. The huge problem with that is she always asks me if she can have some guy come over and spend the night too. It's always a different guy, and she'll have sex with him! In MY house! She BEGGED one of my fionce's friends to sleep with her! She had just met him! Every time she mets a guy she sleeps with him or tries to! And she always wants to drink and begges my fionce to get alchohol for her AND, she hits on him! Infront of me! She grabbed his a**! I'm tired of putting up with her. She is trying to be like me but better and she is a **** and she is using me. help! how do I tell her off???

2007-01-27 04:35:33 · 38 answers · asked by bugeyed74 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the deal flowers are expensive and die in a few days so I don't see the point in spending hundreds of dollars on real ones. I got real flowers for the alter and my bouquet but I plan to get fake ones for the wedding party. What do you guys think?

2007-01-27 04:34:49 · 36 answers · asked by matchbox611@sbcglobal.net 2 in Weddings

I have a great brain and wonderful personalities... some say my body is hott...but why does no one love the gay circus clown...


not that i am gay

2007-01-27 04:34:38 · 17 answers · asked by finespirit001 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex has started coming to see me he lives with another woman.he brings me flowers calls me regularly.says he still has feelings for me.I am unsure he left me at a time I needed him the most.What do i do move on or wait it out. I still love him but i dont want to get hurt again.Should i move on?

2007-01-27 04:33:43 · 7 answers · asked by canteloupesweet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-27 04:33:38 · 8 answers · asked by mandy s 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy once in December and we have talked a few times on the phone since then. On our one date, he practically stood me up: he had to work late but didn't call to tell me until an hour after we were supposed to be out. I went out with him anyway because I was all dressed up, and had an okay time, and we kissed a little at the end.

But he has since done a lot of not calling when he says he will and then he called at 4am drunk. We talked last night and i tried to tell him I didn't want to see him again, but he said that he was out of town because his friend was killed and that it wasn't his fault he didn't call. He has admitted that he doesn't want to feel "committed" to me b/c he just got out of a long relationship, but he does want to see me again. I don't want to bother with someone who doesn't take me seriously but I feel guilty about blowing him off b/c his friend died. How can I tell him I don't want to see him again without being mean? Is that possible?

2007-01-27 04:33:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

going?

2007-01-27 04:32:48 · 19 answers · asked by Black Atheist 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, at my dance, my boyfriend took a pic of me on his camera phone. He put it in a heart shaped flower frame and saved it as his background. Then he showed it to EVERYONE he new. Then, at the end of the dance, we went outside and I told him I needed to tell him something. This was the first time I had told ANY guy this, and I told him I loved him. He smiled REALLY big and told me he loved me too. Then he gave me a big hug. Is this love? I'm only 13. Thanks!

~Rachey
Oh and my mom told me that my uncle met his wife when he was my age so do you think we might be together for that long too?

2007-01-27 04:31:36 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She's been in prison for a couple of years, and we just had a really big fight over the holidays. We've only talked a couple of times this year. I think that we're working things out.

She's only going to be in prison for 10 more years.

2007-01-27 04:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by no longer waiting 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Three months I've been seeing him, just friends at first. He boasts about how good looking, and how many boyfriends/lovers, his ex of 10 years, and mother of his 15 ear old daughter, has had. He also reminises about their sex together and how good it was on one particular occasion. When I confronted him abut it he was sorry, that I was the only one, and that he wasn't interested in her, said all he could do was ask her out to see how he would feel about it. So he did this and then told me how she said no and laughed and knew what it was all about, then he said they talked about it although he wasn't gossiping about me. I feel so humiliated, yet at the same time, as though I am an idiot. Help, I am a laughing stock, although he doesn't see it like that. I don't want to make a decision about him in my emotional state, so what do you think about this, and what the hell do I do now? Sensible advice only please.

2007-01-27 04:30:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The rest of the month, not interested. Is that normal??

2007-01-27 04:29:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i don't want to take up everyones time
i know you guys hear about boy problems everday haha
but i just need to know what to do

I broke up with my ex right before christmas
he dumped me
um, he started dating another girl maybe a week after we broke up
and he kept saying he wanted me back and all this stuff
which he didn't come back, and that led to the final break up in dec.

we are still friends
but everytime i say hi to him or just see how he's doing it's liek i'm annoying him
he says i'm not and that he still loves me but he's confused and wants time with her,just basically confusing

its now been almost 2 months and i basically want to know what to do
should i wait and be his friend?
leave him alone with no contact?
keep trying?

haha i don't know
i'm a nice girl and i'm pretty = ]
and none of his friends agree with him dumping me
he says i was a perfect girlfriend and its all him.

so what do i do?
please just don't say move on cause i know that
how? thxs

2007-01-27 04:29:11 · 7 answers · asked by Micky 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 04:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by Damian S 2 in Family

2007-01-27 04:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i tend to be myself no matter who i'm around. i don't have a problem burbing in front of my bf or guy friends and they seem to think it's hot for some reason. i can out burb most of them and burb words along with my abcs. is it hot or are they just crazy?

2007-01-27 04:28:16 · 30 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband doesn't take care of himself, he eats crap and smokes and does not seem to understand the consequences of that and what is actually doing to his body. I am not perfect myself, not a perfect body but at least try to watch what I eat, stopped smoking. Sometimes I feel we are in two completely different worlds and he doesn't want to do none of the stuff I am trying to. I feel like little things like that are going to doom our relationship, and we are going to end up failing. Sometimes I try to forget about it and just don't worry about the food . For example, yesterday we ordered pizza and I ate only two slices, I was full and even made me feel bad cuz I haven't eaten pizza in a long time. He finished the rest and that really upsets me, he always takes it to extremes. The only thing that he says is that I lecture him..and everytime I say something he looks the other way. What should I do?

2007-01-27 04:28:00 · 34 answers · asked by Jessica G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is the fact that i try to have as much anonymous sex as possible with people whom i dont know, a psycological problem? This is a serious question by the way.

2007-01-27 04:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Bailin R 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 04:24:52 · 26 answers · asked by AMAN SWEET B 1 in Friends

I work for a very large company that does not trust its employees. Before any of us can go off to the restroom we must let our supervisor know where we are headed. Just recently they installed cameras in the restroom to make sure that people actually go in their when they say that they are. They have also installed water proof cameras inside of the camodes to make sure people pissin and poopin when they claim that they have to. Is this right?
Several employees including myself have complained to upper management, but our complaints have fallen upon deaf ears. The company wants to make sure that when production is interupted it is going to be for a legit reason. Should my employer be allowed to have cameras inside of the restrooms?? Help please!

2007-01-27 04:24:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is there any way to kiss my girl?
when i start to kiss her my saliva always run out?
is there anyone can sent me a instructions or clip for me to learn.

2007-01-27 04:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by steven 1 in Family

my girl likes this other guy at school. She flirts wit him a lot. Should i beat him up?

2007-01-27 04:23:48 · 18 answers · asked by AR2daHizzay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 04:22:33 · 16 answers · asked by anonymous. 1 in Friends