i don't want to take up everyones time
i know you guys hear about boy problems everday haha
but i just need to know what to do
I broke up with my ex right before christmas
he dumped me
um, he started dating another girl maybe a week after we broke up
and he kept saying he wanted me back and all this stuff
which he didn't come back, and that led to the final break up in dec.
we are still friends
but everytime i say hi to him or just see how he's doing it's liek i'm annoying him
he says i'm not and that he still loves me but he's confused and wants time with her,just basically confusing
its now been almost 2 months and i basically want to know what to do
should i wait and be his friend?
leave him alone with no contact?
keep trying?
haha i don't know
i'm a nice girl and i'm pretty = ]
and none of his friends agree with him dumping me
he says i was a perfect girlfriend and its all him.
so what do i do?
please just don't say move on cause i know that
how? thxs
2007-01-27 04:29:11 · 7 answers · asked by Micky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to continue to beat your head against ther wall that is your right. The only way he will want you more is if he thinks he cannot have you. Strange but true.
2007-01-27 04:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone, sweetie. You know that you should. He can't possibly LOVE you...I can tell you are young, just by reading your story there. Neither one of you know how to love each other, because if you did, he would never have dumped you, he wouldn't be confused and he wouldn't be dragging you along the way he is. Look at the clues and do yourself a favor: LEAVE HIM ALONE!
2007-01-27 12:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things to do
1) move on.... say hi if you guys meet but try to avoid him...
2) if he wants you back badly... say no.. even though you love him and he loves you
why you ask..... the reason he probably broke up with you is because people want what they dont have... he saw another beautiful girl and and wanted her and so he went for it. sorry but its true. why do you think that right after he broke up with you, hes with her.
3) just try to recover, not all guys are jerks....
2007-01-27 12:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...he's giving definite signs, without having the courage to say, he doesn't want contact right now. Just be polite and say hello when you see him. If there's going to be a next move, let it be totally up to him.
2007-01-27 12:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stop trying to contact him but if u c him sumwhere den dont b rude still say hi and stuff, but i would stop callin him and c if he makes an effort to talk to u if he does den he wants u back if he dosent den ur jus bttr of friends fo now. hope dat helps u out! good luk!!
2007-01-27 12:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be his friend but lighten up. if you crowd him it would confuse him more and maybe push him away. or worse try to see you both. and pushing would only make her fight you and make him stop seeing you. and no contact could offend him and he would refuse to see you. just stay patient respect their relationship and it should work out even if you only stay friends
2007-01-27 12:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has to think about if he really loves u it means he doesnt love cuz hes hesitating so if i were u i would just let him be, but it doenst mean u should start ignoring him try to stay friends with him
2007-01-27 12:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋