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Last night, at my dance, my boyfriend took a pic of me on his camera phone. He put it in a heart shaped flower frame and saved it as his background. Then he showed it to EVERYONE he new. Then, at the end of the dance, we went outside and I told him I needed to tell him something. This was the first time I had told ANY guy this, and I told him I loved him. He smiled REALLY big and told me he loved me too. Then he gave me a big hug. Is this love? I'm only 13. Thanks!

~Rachey
Oh and my mom told me that my uncle met his wife when he was my age so do you think we might be together for that long too?

2007-01-27 04:31:36 · 31 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

it certaintly is love but until your married or something big happens it isnt true love

2007-01-27 09:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Callie 1 · 0 0

You're uncle is the minority for sure. Most people don't end up with the first person they fall in love with, or even the first they MARRY these days. Have fun while you are young, don't rush things. As this will probably be the first of many relationships you will have throughout your life, learn from every moment so you grow as a person from the experience.

2007-01-27 12:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Big V 2 · 0 0

It is most uncertain as to what the future may hold for you and your boyfriend; however, from what you have described, it seems he has strong feelings for you. Whether or not this is true love, I cannot say, as there is more development which must take place for such a decision to occur. Keep an eye on him, and pay attention to the way he acts to you. If his feelings get stronger, then yes, this is love.

2007-01-27 12:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Hawk 2 · 0 0

I would think it to be puppy love at this time, nothing wrong with that. I would not put my whole heart into it. Just be patient and wait and see how the rest of the year works out. When you go back to school next year and he still feels the same way, it has to be love.

2007-01-27 12:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by Oilfieldtrashwtx 3 · 0 0

thats sweet but im sorry to tell you this. but this is not true love. u are too young to know what love is. i know u dont wanna hear that. but its the truth. im a 16 yr old boy and i thought i was in love plenty of times. but u gotta accept the fact that its not. you are in a stage of puppy love. trust me, later on u will find a guy better and think you love him. Just for now, take it how it is, and see what happens. this can be a pretty long relationship. take it one day at a time. dont jump to conclusions. if you get to attached and he breaks your heart. it wont be good.

2007-01-27 12:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by Walter 2 · 0 0

Yes it is love. But you if you are together in a few years still, then you could possibly be together with him as long as your uncle has been with his wife. Only time will tell.

2007-01-27 13:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 2 · 0 0

walk careful.

good and long lasting relationships can take shape that young

but the vast majority pass away suddenly

yet everyone felt like theirs was the one that would make it

so you should be very careful, don't do anything that you will regret later

and remember when things change it is a normal way of growing up so that a later relationship can be better and permanent

2007-01-27 12:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0 0

As you get older, ideas always change. Relationships have to grow and if it works out between you two, it will.

When you get out of high school, everyone changes. Some move on, some feel they need to stay together.

When you are older, look around before getting into a deep relationship.

2007-01-27 12:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by freezie 3 · 0 0

aww thats really cute. well usually guys get scared and run away. maybe he really does love him the way you do. but its still young. but if your mom is telling you this, well i say it mite be something special. but dont just settle, you and him will always have problems no matter how long you've been together. just be careful. once you get into high school u meet way more ppl. i know this. but you never know anything untill something happens

2007-01-27 12:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Wow thats pretty young but if you feel like you truly love him and can tell he truly loves you than yea its love but dont assume youll be together forever because sometimes people fall out of love. Keep the relationship going though if its going well!

2007-01-27 12:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It is 13 your old love. Enjoy the feeling, but its not true love. I'll bet every unwed mother felt the same as you do now. Be careful.

2007-01-27 14:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by Tom 4 · 0 0

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