Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

I was talking to my sister today and she told me that we r moving in may to az. I honestly dont want to move, I do because I miss my family there but I love my mom's side of the family here and my friends. My friends are everything to me!!!!!! I go to church and everything my friends and the people at my church are what keep me from not giving up on life. What can I do to stay in fl??? my mom said only for a yr and if we dont like it then we will move back but i cant even go for a yr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! help thanks

2007-01-27 06:10:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My partner has had 3 one night stands in the 9 1/2 years we have been together.
But we seemed to get through it.
Just recently i found out that i am pregnant with our 3rd baby, and it has brought up all the worrys of him doing it to me again, he is imature for his age i feel more grown up than him ( hes 30 and im 25)
He says i treat him like a prisoner and that i say all the right stuff to make him go and do it again.I do let him go out its always me staying at home looking after the kids and him spending all our money.
He has gone away at the moment to premote a family business that hes not getting paid for.hes for 4 days when i need him the most as i am fairly ill due to being only 8 weeks pregnant and have a bad cold.
He doesnt help out at home either and its me who works part time for money even though he is looking for work but not much in our area.
Am i wrong to think that i have put up with alot ???

Please do not critisice me taking him back for the one night stands

2007-01-27 06:09:59 · 18 answers · asked by charlie h 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single girl and I know real life isn't a fairy tale most of the times, but I consider marrying someone you love to be a truly fantastic experience. Anyway, I know quite a lot of married women who wish to go back to their single days and I know also a few ladies with fabulous hubbies...So what is it in marriage that wears people out the most? And are the women with fantastic hubbies just lucky?

2007-01-27 06:09:20 · 33 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok.

First of: I'm very shy(I can admit it), and i'm not the Brad Pitt of the teen world.

So, I like this girl, and she kinda of knows.

About 4 months ago I told my best friend(which is one of her friends) that I was interested, so he informally(very briefly) talked to her and she basically said that she "wanted to fly solo".

We just saw each other last semester, August time, and we've never formally spoken to one another.

So, the other night we both went to a friend's party...we never spoke, but I believe she would stare at me for a brief period of time as I would walk by...

So I thought I would write her a note and ask her out soon.

Any suggestions? Any comments? Valentine's Day is coming in like 3 weeks, should I wait until then?

2007-01-27 06:08:56 · 21 answers · asked by lifeistolong 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this mean she looks at me then she looks away and then she asks for candy and then her sister's saying are there any rumors about me,i am confused i need help does she like me and want me to go up to her and talk to her,i am not certain she likes me

2007-01-27 06:08:47 · 1 answers · asked by Sammyo 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a lot of close friends who are having problems, whether its cause of their past,home or just boyfriends. Im lucky as i dont have any of these problems as i have caring parents and my life tends to carry on with relitavely little problems. Because i have little problems all my friends lean on me and pretty much confide everything in me.I dont mind this most of the time and im happy to help but lately its been getting a bit out of control. I can think of around 10 people at the moment who i sat down with last week to listen to their problems and its starting to get me down because i never seem to have any time to myself.The other day i was behind with work at college so i went to do some but two of my friends phoned and asked where i was,i told them i was in the library doing work and that i'd see them at lunch but when i saw them next they were very cold towards me as if i should have put them before my work and i felt really guilty.should i be feeling like this,am i being used?

2007-01-27 06:08:26 · 22 answers · asked by make_a_wish995 2 in Friends

i have german roots and some other random info...my great grandfather had a fight with his country and they never spoke again and that was a long time ago. my grandfather (his son) doesnt recall very much information as he wasnt told very much...just want to research my family and any help would be wonderful.. email me with any info you may have....serious replys only no BULLS**T thanks

2007-01-27 06:07:15 · 6 answers · asked by hoohoonick 2 in Friends

what does it mean when someone asks you if you are dipping?

2007-01-27 06:07:03 · 4 answers · asked by Promise 6 in Friends

2007-01-27 06:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by carrie g 1 in Family

2007-01-27 06:05:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like a guy that aren't in any of my classes. my friends and I always catch him glancing at me. So one day, he left his phone on the table i was sitting at. And another, he kicked a volleyball straight at me..and it hit me. Also, he sometimes talks to me and teases me about this other guy. what does this all mean? do you think he likes me?

2007-01-27 06:05:22 · 11 answers · asked by Hehe. ;]] 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother already paid for the reception and honeymoon; but now she says I have to buy the dress, flowers and some of the decorations myself. The wedding is on April 1st so my budget is only at $600 with my tax return. Because there are so many risks, I would rather not ebay it, is there anything to help save money without looking like a trashy wedding??

2007-01-27 06:05:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He's told me over and over that our relationship has no reconsiliation and he's leaving.The problem is he's become mentally and emotionally abusive; that i have no entry in his heart and mind to try to get him to fight for our marriage since he's falling in lust or love w/another woman...Therefore i have no choice but to say nothing and stay calm and unresponsive but hurting to see my life crumbling b 4 my eyes!!!!he says i don't love him and is spending every free time w her and behaving plain cruel w/me and am feeling completely lost,scared and helpless...how should i act in the next 4 days w/him there...

2007-01-27 06:04:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months now, and we spend most of our time together, out, or at my house, im 18 years old and in highschool. I can never seem to get enough courage to go over to her house and hang out there, she has 3 siblings, all older, 2 girls and one guy. I'm just wondering if I'm just really shy? Or is there somthing physcologically (spelling) wrong with me? During the christmas seaon, I did goto her house for a large party where her whole family was. And tommorow she wants me to come to her Oma's for brunch, but i just always make excuses to get out of these things, I dont know whats wrong =( I want to be a good boyfriend.. Am i just to bloody shy? Lemme know if you have the same things to ^_^ Thanks in advance.

2007-01-27 06:03:56 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok we have been best friends for almost 3 years now
but lately, it seems like we have nothing to talk about anymore ..
many people have noticed that she treats me like crud
but i still want to be her bff bc i have nobody else who wants to talk to me .. i dont know what to do

i feel sad because she has 3 other best friends
and i feel left out and sad what do i do :(

2007-01-27 06:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by krista sunshine 2 in Friends

I want to send flowers to this woman i work with. I am truly falling in love with her. The reason i ask is i have only known her since mid-December and she is still going through her divorce. It should be final soon in the next couple of months. So would it be inappropriate?

2007-01-27 06:03:30 · 7 answers · asked by stevencaman 1 in Singles & Dating

what is too young to start dating in your opinion?why? and what do you think is the right age to start dating

2007-01-27 06:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by OoAwesomelyoO 2 in Singles & Dating

Like if u get a babysitter that u trust and know [or a family memeber to watch the kids] and u go out and have some fun, like at a club or something? Every once in awhile??? But ur still a good mom, u just need a little fun to relive the stress???

2007-01-27 06:03:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm british and am in love with an American (we both love each other very much). we met when i was on holiday and we decided to keep in contact from then onwards. It's been one year now and I cant stand being so far away from my love. I understand that it's almost impossible getting into america as a permanent resident nowadays... Im going there this summer so that we both can meet each other and I just dont know what to do. I mean, I want us to be together forever and I dont think I will ever want to come back here........(i know, thats illegal) and I am a bit scared as to what might happen. I just feel like theres no hope as we both love each other very much but we dont want to marry just yet. I just wish there was a way i could go there and live there forever legally. I've been feeling so down for months because of this & had this dumb idea enter my mind yesterday. i thought if i want 2 go there...Y dont i just pack my bags & go but i guess being in love makes u think stupid thought

2007-01-27 06:02:41 · 2 answers · asked by Curious Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

He is not a sentimental person! This is a birthday gift.

2007-01-27 06:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by It's me! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

any tips or advice for someone to last longer in bed

2007-01-27 06:02:18 · 13 answers · asked by kevingolberg 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out partying with this guy i met through family. We had fun, but i didnt fool around with him. I told him my boyfriend drinks. He said he didnt want to be a bad guy and take me from my boyfriend. I saw him through family 2 times in the past 2 years. We didnt talk. Now i just asked his friend how is he doing. I then spoke to him. He tells me hes looking for a wife. and want to know if i am still with this guy. I said i am but its ending soon. Is this weird or destiny? I gave his friend my number to give him last week. But didnt hear back.

2007-01-27 06:02:09 · 5 answers · asked by eileen r 2 in Friends

There is this nice, sweet lady who I work with she is good natured and everything BUT she does not stop talking!! I can't make eye contact with her because she just launches in to some story or other and will go on and on and on for minutes at a time. I once asked her how to use a certain function on the copier and she kept me there for 30 mins telling me about her son and his neighbours, nothing to do with copying I know but she finds a way to relate anything to one of her anicdotes. I don't want to be rude to her or make her feel bad but it's getting to the point that I am trying to avoid her at all costs, I even hid behind a cabinet once to get away from her! so anyone know how to gently dissuade her ear chewing?

2007-01-27 06:01:06 · 12 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, how much money to spend?

2007-01-27 06:00:08 · 30 answers · asked by net385 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 13 i had a gf i like watchin girl porn never watched men but when i see a guy i would say he look kinda cute am i gay>?

2007-01-27 05:59:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

isn't it possible you could be possibly be having cyber s e x with a family member or a boss or someone you flipping know!!

2007-01-27 05:58:24 · 18 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

my BF broke up with me. he was my first BF. he had to break up with me cause hes moving to a different school...well anyways, I am a sex addict. after this guy from my middle school and old high school abused me and sexualy abused me I became a sex addict. I havent seen him for two years and I think about him everyday I dont know why and I hate myself for that. he was the first guy i ever kissed and did sex stuff with, even though he kinda forced me. I dont know why but I am having sexual urges to go back to him, how can I stop?? I saw his myspace and im afraid im gonna message him

2007-01-27 05:58:10 · 3 answers · asked by kyah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-27 05:57:40 · 7 answers · asked by someone 2 in Singles & Dating

This question is in NO way to gloat or be sick. But how can I get my husband to have sex more?? We have a great relationship and I am a very open person - so I do just ask him to get it on more. But he is in the Army and is very tired at the end of the day. I have always had a big sex drive, so for me - 3 times a day would be good. I am tired from working all day too - but if I don't get any it's always on my mind. Any suggestions?

2007-01-27 05:57:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy makes you feel like you are the only one...Would you stay with him because of his body hair or would you leave? How strong is love?

Thanks for all answers.

2007-01-27 05:56:37 · 20 answers · asked by Marcjr 1 in Singles & Dating