my best friend ... ?

Question

ok we have been best friends for almost 3 years now
but lately, it seems like we have nothing to talk about anymore ..
many people have noticed that she treats me like crud
but i still want to be her bff bc i have nobody else who wants to talk to me .. i dont know what to do

i feel sad because she has 3 other best friends
and i feel left out and sad what do i do :(

Answer 1

You want her friendship for the wrong reasons though; you're being alone isn't enough, and is probably a big part of the reason you two don't have anything to talk about to begin with, perhaps there's pressure to talk about something. Spend some time apart and let her do your thing and you do yours and see what happens in the future ...

Answer 2

beleive me I have a best friend that I have had for two years and a little while ago she told me that I was her only best friend. but then she turns on me and she went to go with this other girl that I absolutly hate. but you should just tell her that you feel left out and maybe she will realize how badly she is treating you and you can become best friends with her again. Or if that doesnt work then you can try to become friends with the othere bffs that she has. Well I hope you get your bff back best of luck and ps never have low selfesteem and If she doesnt care about your feelings then you should stop being her firend and be friends who actually care about your feelings. well just keep fighting for her but if it doesnt work then at least you will no you tried hope this helps!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

Aww sweetie. I've been there. You don't want to be her friend b/c you'll miss her, it's b/c your scared to be alone. Talk to other people, make them your friends. My friend and I were the most rebellious kids in school, but she didn't think of me as her friend b/c we had nothing to talk about. She didn't know that friends are someone to be there for you, not someone to always gossip with. She went with some outcasts of the school, and now she completely sucks in her life. And I feel bad for her, but there's nothing I can do for her. Now, I'm friends with the most unlikely people on earth. I wouldn't even have guessed they would be my friends. But I took a chance and went for it. And that's what you shoud do, b/c you never what you'll get out of it, and if it'll be good.

Answer 4

People change. You need to stop letting her treat you bad. The fact that you are so needy is probably why she is so nasty. You take it no matter how mean she is. Join some clubs and get active in school and extra curricular activities. You will meet new people and find new friends. Stop being so pathetic. Stand up for yourself.

Answer 5

Try talking to her. If she doesn't want to listen then tell her you don't want to be friends anymore. If she treats you like crud, then she isn't worth your friendship.No friend should ever treat you like that. There are many more people that will help you out in life instead of turning you down.

~hope this helped~

Answer 6

I've gone through the same thing two times. Maybe its just time for change. That is what I relized when it happened to me.:)

~ Hope this helps

Answer 7

Tell her how you feel and she will understand, trust me this happened to me a couple weeks ago. Tell her that you feel ya'll are seperating and losing eachother and how you use to tell her everything and now ya'll bearly talk.

Answer 8

well she really ist your bff because she dosent treat u liek one. so just dont talk to her nomore. she ist a reall freind.

Answer 9

people change..but she isn't your friend especially if she treats like crap.....find someone who wont that will be your REAL bff

Answer 10

their is only one best friend you can count on is you, so fk him or her let them no how you feel if they still act shady, go the other way.