Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Alright, so I know this question is asked like a billion times a day twice over, but...

There's this adorable guy in my English class who sits right next to me, and I'm pretty sure I like him...a lot. Anyway, I noticed that every day before class, he, some friends of his that are also in the class, and I talk and joke around a lot...and whenever he laughs, he looks straight at me! He also seems to talk and make jokes a lot more around me than he does with other people (he's kind of a shy guy).

And also, we were playing this game during class called Battle of the Sexes, and the girls had to be on one side and the guys on the other. He didn't hesitate to sit right across from me! I soon noticed that he kept stealing glances at me as well, but looking away when I looked back. Hmmmm...

2007-01-27 06:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by marcheymann 2 in Singles & Dating

I been with him for a while and im more then liking him i love him and i care about him so much hes the kind of person that is my best friend too but the thing is in our r/ship im in a high level then he is hes not at the point where he would tell me he loves me yet and tell me actually how he feels or anything i dont know what i should do when it kinda bugs me cause im not used to falling for someone so fast befor and him taking baby steps what should i do??

2007-01-27 06:38:00 · 2 answers · asked by pink_skull000 1 in Singles & Dating

She had a boyfriend, who was also one of my closest friends. Let's call them Sue and Bob. Sue and Bob were together for a few months and they were both my friends. I just met Sue and we became fast friends, but I've known Bob for so long, that we were really close, and I loved him like a brother. One day during lunch, I decided to hang out with the both of them because I haven't seen Bob in a really long time. Sue and I had class together, so I see her everyday. So Bob and I were laughing and joking like we always did, and the next day, Sue refused to talk or even look at me. I asked Bob, and he said that she thought I liked him, which is gross, because that's like liking my own brother.
They broke up a few days or weeks after that. Bob and I are still friends, but Sue HATES me over something that never happened. Now, she's convinced all of my friends that I'm a boyfriend stealer and THEY won't talk to me. How do I get her to forgive me, even if we can't be friends again?

2007-01-27 06:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by crystalgoddess101 1 in Friends

ok here it is all in a nut shell. we got married 20 years go and i wasnt the perfict husband at all and then i strayed. Now my wife wants a seperation but still live under same roof. She at least has somebody to talk to but i got nobody at all to talk to about this and get some advise. I feel lost about it and lost inside and lost and dont know who to talk to about this and getting all kinds of advice. she dont wanna try and work it out after i was given so many chances. But i want to prove to her that i am changind and want to try and make us better againand doing all the wrong things and saying all the wrong things.

2007-01-27 06:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 06:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by sm177y 5 in Singles & Dating

im a virgin and most of the time sex is on my mind i have alot of boys that want to have sex with me but im young and i want to know do you bleed alot when your having sex, does it hurt or if it does when does te pain go away

2007-01-27 06:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by shay shay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 06:34:28 · 10 answers · asked by hodgson_marvin 1 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas?

2007-01-27 06:34:25 · 26 answers · asked by Danielle 4 in Weddings

So after, all the advice from the people around me. I think I will finally tell this guy i like him. I know him pretty well. I'm just wondering how i can start a conversation with him.........any ideas?

2007-01-27 06:34:14 · 23 answers · asked by angel_in_pink 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like a guy, i accidentally went up to him nd told him i didnt like him, because everyone kept thinking i did. now, how should i show i like him? ( we are not in the same classes)

2007-01-27 06:34:04 · 11 answers · asked by Hehe. ;]] 3 in Singles & Dating

and talking crazy about how much he loves me and how he dont wanna be with nobody but me for the rest of his life and he said he gonna propose to me on my birthday. and he said if im not able to see him on valentines day he gonna break up with me, but i got go 2 bible study and thats where i wanna go, but then he said he was playin. and plus my momma dont like him cuz he 20 and im 16, but age of consent in my state is 16 so its nothing she can do about it really. I think he crazy and he call me all day, but i love him so much. How do i tell him to cool it, we only been together since october 2006

2007-01-27 06:33:27 · 29 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 06:33:24 · 8 answers · asked by SMILEY 1 in Singles & Dating

i was in love, atleast i thought i was. i told him i loved him but he said he didnt feel the same way. he said he liked me a lot but he didnt love me. then i suggested that we take things slower and be friends and he agreed. after that we didnt really talk for a while. but i think that was a mistake because i really miss him now and want him back. but he has probably moved on with someone else by now. what do i do?

2007-01-27 06:32:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if my boyfriend of 5 years is dumb or what?? We have been together for five and living together for 1 1/2 years. He clearly knows how I am about when he goes on trips I like to just be updated on what he is doing, and he is the same with me. But he never comes through. Like this weekend (he is a pilot part-time flying) he went to California. He called me when he got there told me what room number but didn't give me the hotel number. He left a message saying "I told you it was at the Fairfield Inn Room blah blah blah)" maybe he didn't know the number. So he calls me this morning and since I'm still sleeping because of the time difference I didn't hear the phone. So he doesn't leave a message of nothing. He knows he is going to go do something with his co-pilot but doesn't give me updates so I text him because I was upset and he calls me from his co-pilots James cell because he said his battery was dying. Is this shady or just absentmindness?

2007-01-27 06:32:24 · 16 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I like and we hang out maybe 2-3 days a week for about a month and a half. We have not been out on a "real" date. We just hang out in his dorm and cuddle and watch TV and such until about 1:30-3 in the morning. I like him but I want to know if he just views me as a hook up (although we have not kissed yet.) i don't want to be just a hook up b/c I like him and want more. How do I ask him what he thinks is going on? I really enjoy being around him but know i have to cut it off if he just wants to hook up. How do i figure out what he wants with out being really blunt and just flat out asking? and when is the best time to ask? and how do I get up the courage to ask knowing that I might not like the answer?

2007-01-27 06:31:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 06:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by class-of-2010 2 in Weddings

I have been with this guy for a year . He constantly talks about how much he wants 2 marry me but x-mas came & went & no ring.Then to make matters worse he forgot our 1 year anniversary the other day...Help!

2007-01-27 06:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by TK 1 in Singles & Dating

I have waited lot for a friend whom I can call my best friend. My 2 best friends live in other countries now. My school is quite small, and my family has no money to let me join a sport or etc. I feel so alone now... I don't like to have "online" friends who I don't know, what should I do?

2007-01-27 06:30:23 · 10 answers · asked by wallflower 5 in Friends

In a week I have to go to my relatives birthday. I am sure it will be really boring. My father says that if I dont have any important events coming up at that time then i will have to go there. But i dont want to go. What event could I make/plan for that time so that I wont have to go.

2007-01-27 06:28:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-27 06:28:38 · 17 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were married 25 years (big party in the summer!) and then I found out he had been having an affair for 3.5 years!! I admit to being blind to what I did not want to see with our relationship, but I honestly had no idea about the other woman, and their shenanigans. 3 daughters, 23, 21 and 18 who are devastated. Oldest one close to dad, being very mature and wanting to ensure that her relationship with him remains on a realtively even keel. Youngest one sees him when she wants something and his guilt usually ensures that she gets it! However the middle one has never been very close to him,and she is very angry and doesn't answer his calls or see him for longer than five minutes! This is very distressing to me whilst I am having to deal with my own sadness, anger and misery ( altho things are looking up!) Any ideas on how to help number 2? Thanks

2007-01-27 06:28:34 · 8 answers · asked by poglette 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every 1 thinks im weird cuz I suck at school.Evry 1 makes fun of me how can I mak this stop.

2007-01-27 06:28:31 · 3 answers · asked by this_home_dawg 1 in Friends

Me and my girl have been dating for two months now and it seems as if we have been battling for our relationship for the longest. our first month was about me and my feelings toward my ex and this month its her ex coming back into her life. We are both over our ex's. We really want to be together and we really do love each other. We have only been dating officially for two months but we have been talkin for about five months. We feel that this is going to make us stronger for the future but we still question why we are going through this early on?

2007-01-27 06:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have a best friend who lives right in the townhouse across the street. her mom drives us to school and home after school each day but she is one grade older. we have been best friends for two years, always there for each other, countless sleepovers, over at each other's house each day.
well about a week ago we got in a fight over some little, stupid thing. i stormed out of the house and when i got home i assumed we would forgive and forget over the weekend.
well monday came and i was still a bit upset and when i rode w/ her it was like sitting next to a block of ice. ouch.
the next day i realized i missed my best friend (name's angie) a lot and wanted to be friends. but she brought her other friend home with her so i couldn't say anything.
i tried to make a point of being nice, but she didn't seem eager to be friends again. the next day, she ditched me and hung out with her sister, who doesn't like me.
after school the next day i once again was nice and things seemed to be...

2007-01-27 06:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Lulu F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am in the last year of High School and i like very much a boy but i try to forget him which is sometimes for me impossible(he doesn't have idea for my feeling). Look now, he looks at me sometimes and when i realise that, he turns his head in another direction. Yesterday, he told me that he is going to visit me next year, because i will go to the United States to study. And when he looks at me, he turns into red. Does he want me?

2007-01-27 06:27:44 · 5 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes, when I'm cleaning my shower, I remember a guy I was dating who asked me to scrub out his shower. I went along with it because he had fixed a few things around my house, although I didn't ask him to. Still, it didn't seem right. What do you think?

2007-01-27 06:26:58 · 5 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Singles & Dating

I like about 7 guys but i only care about 3 of them! should I forget about them or just go on living with all of them in my mind?

2007-01-27 06:26:58 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Jolly Rancher♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been treating me like garbage so i am leaving him in 2 days. This is my first boyfriend and/or break up so i have no idea what do say...i really really really need some help!!!

2007-01-27 06:26:41 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with a man who is MUCH older than me, more than 30 years difference...is it ok or not?

2007-01-27 06:26:31 · 6 answers · asked by Macy Jones x x 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. I gave this girl this crush note, well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty hazel eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me or she was just playing games with me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the note and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
The female employers say she a flirter. I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days. but I went today.She seem real happy and when she saw me. She didn't talk to me though she use the teacher to get my attention they were right in front of me.Se said to the teacher that she quit her job and she got a new job. Like the teacher really cares right. So I didn't say anything to her I didn't know what to say I just pretended i didn't care either. When she said she quit her job just made me think she doesn't like me. Idk. She seem kinda moody that day I guess cause I didn't talk to her.
I was talking to this other girl who was a new student and she walk past us, but ignore us like we weren't there. So when I was about to leave she got out of class saw me and turn around and called her friend to come here then I left cause my ride was here. What do you think that meant? So we haven't seen each other in a week, but I will see her tomorrow at school in class. Should I try and talk to her or let her come to me? I'm thinking about talking to the new student who goes there now. Not to make the girl I like jealous, but get to know the new girl and see if I like her, but what if the girl I like starts to do something about it? I don't know what to do? I still kinda like this girl, but I just don't want her to get mad for talking to another girl to see if I like her or not. I went to school today and I think the new girl is takin. This guy sat by her and talk to her all through class. But the girl I like was trying to figure out why I been ignoring for the past 2 weeks? I heard her and her friend talking about me. All I heard was her saying is "why is he ignoring me for. I was nice to him" she said. So she kinda tried and get my attention I was walking behind her and she turn around and see if I was looking at her. I didn't look at her I look straight down the floor. So she turns her head around and saids I for got something and tries to bump into me. That was that. So i'm playing hard to get so how long do I do this? Will she try and talk to me or she expects me to make some eye contact with her or something? Well I said hey to her at school today and she said you still work at that job and I said "yes" and she said "bless you." And that was it. The reason she said bless me is because she was surprise that I still work there. She didn't like it there and that's why she quit and works with her boyfriend now. My friend told me last week that he saw her with her friends about 2 months ago and he said to her you know my friend likes you know and she saids "I hate him." I told one of her friends that she has a mouth on her and I guess she got mad at me for that. So now whenever she around me she doesn't use foul mouth language and if does she saids sorry. But that was a 2 months ago. It's really hard to talk to her when she's around her friends, cause she acts different around them. This past wednesday she was asking people for gum in class.Everyone said no. Then she ask me and I gave her a piece and she said thank you and I said your welcome. She did that at work too asking for gum when she knew no one else had gum to give her. Anyways in the end she still with the boyfriend. Right now i'm confuse on if she likes me or not?

2007-01-27 06:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating