I have been with this guy for a year . He constantly talks about how much he wants 2 marry me but x-mas came & went & no ring.Then to make matters worse he forgot our 1 year anniversary the other day...Help!
2007-01-27 06:31:16 · 5 answers · asked by TK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he is dangling the "carrot" in front of your nose to make you stay. Did you get you anything for Christmas? Does he treat you right? Could it be he just forgot your anniversary? Some guys do not remember dates.... lol.
It sounds like you need to have a heart to heart with yourself, then have a heart to heart with your bf.
You must know if you are on the same page. If you guys arent, you both have a lot of work to do, or move on. Good luck!! Be strong!
2007-01-27 06:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by lucky_one_happy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking him about it? Because maybe he just forgot and was too busy with something else.
And don't be so hard on him for missing your one year anniversary. We all have those times when we forget something, even if it's really important to us.
Give him a chance and if it keeps up, like he keeps forgetting other important dates, then you should start thinking about leaving.
And besides, it's too soon to get married, since you two have only been together for a year.
2007-01-27 14:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by crystalgoddess101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been with this guy for a year...how long have you known him? Because if it has been a year, then there is a lot that you probably don't know about him (even if you think you do, trust me!). Just take your time, marriage isn't a race, you are together and happy. Focus on that, and when the time comes, and you are meant to be married to him, it will come!
2007-01-27 14:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go after you give him another chance, if he fails. If he can't remember your 1 year it is either because he doesn't have a good memory or because he didn't bother to get you anything. It is most likely the first one but he should have had it marked on his calendar! Therefore I would give him another shot and if he keeps bugging you let him go, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-01-27 14:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much infor there....how old are you 2? Maybe he wants to wait for a hundred different reasons...You two need some serious communication if you are ever going to get married at all!!!
2007-01-27 14:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋