She had a boyfriend, who was also one of my closest friends. Let's call them Sue and Bob. Sue and Bob were together for a few months and they were both my friends. I just met Sue and we became fast friends, but I've known Bob for so long, that we were really close, and I loved him like a brother. One day during lunch, I decided to hang out with the both of them because I haven't seen Bob in a really long time. Sue and I had class together, so I see her everyday. So Bob and I were laughing and joking like we always did, and the next day, Sue refused to talk or even look at me. I asked Bob, and he said that she thought I liked him, which is gross, because that's like liking my own brother.
They broke up a few days or weeks after that. Bob and I are still friends, but Sue HATES me over something that never happened. Now, she's convinced all of my friends that I'm a boyfriend stealer and THEY won't talk to me. How do I get her to forgive me, even if we can't be friends again?
2007-01-27 06:37:48 · 4 answers · asked by crystalgoddess101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no need for forgiveness between you unless you feel that she ought to be asking your forgiveness for acting like a love sick teenager. You don't seem to be holding any grudge, so that's not necessary unless she apologizes for acting irrationally.
If she ever valued your friendship, she will come around in her own good time. Wait her out. She needs to come to her own awareness that what happened was not something of your doing.
2007-01-27 06:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by Suzianne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is not how you can get her to forgive you, but what you can do to make this situation right. Do what you can, and in the end if she doesn't forgive you, atleast you know you did what you could and now the problem is with her. Go to her and ask her to step aside for a while to talk. Explain to her how you feel and what happened exactly. Understand how she feels though-maybe she misunderstood something and all you have to do is clear it up. Also, talk to the friends who are mad at you too. Stand up for yourself and know that in the end if you didn't do anything wrong, you don't need to grovel down and beg for any forgiveness. This will only cause you to feel worse and her to feel better about what she's doing.
2007-01-27 15:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by chrisie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend Sue maybe thought you were flirting with Bob. talk to her and work things out. If this doesn't work, maybe she isn't a good friend. Because friends forgive each other.
2007-01-27 14:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you guys aren't just friends your cousins or have him tell you that
2007-01-27 14:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋