well i have a best friend who lives right in the townhouse across the street. her mom drives us to school and home after school each day but she is one grade older. we have been best friends for two years, always there for each other, countless sleepovers, over at each other's house each day.
well about a week ago we got in a fight over some little, stupid thing. i stormed out of the house and when i got home i assumed we would forgive and forget over the weekend.
well monday came and i was still a bit upset and when i rode w/ her it was like sitting next to a block of ice. ouch.
the next day i realized i missed my best friend (name's angie) a lot and wanted to be friends. but she brought her other friend home with her so i couldn't say anything.
i tried to make a point of being nice, but she didn't seem eager to be friends again. the next day, she ditched me and hung out with her sister, who doesn't like me.
after school the next day i once again was nice and things seemed to be...
2007-01-27 06:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Lulu F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
..to be going well. her aunt lives with her and she is like my family. her aunt reminded her they were going out to buy a new book and she (the aunt) asked if i wanted to come. i agreed, because i thought it would help me and my friend to patch things up if we kind of hung out.
well, i had my shoes on and we were ready to go when angie runs upstairs, and her aunt goes after her. i heard them talking with the aunt and her mom and then her mom comes down and tells me angie wants to go by herself. well, this really insulted and hurt me, i ran home and cried and deleted angie from my my space friends. now i miss her a lot but she never even asked me why i deleted her, it seems like she has forgotten about me, and i don't want to be replaced! advice, please!!!
2007-01-27 06:28:31 · update #1
haven't said sorry yet, because its kind of awkward...but now i'm wondering how i can...should i? and how? i know she would listen but im shy and i dont want to in front of her mom
2007-01-27 06:29:17 · update #2
Call Angie and ask to speak with her alone. Then you can tell her how you feel, just as you have described it in this forum.
Good luck!
2007-01-27 06:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of your favorite thing to do together....something that you really enjoy....something that can put the sour mood away and invite her to join you....tell her that you really need to talk.
Maybe make a really pretty note and decorate it yourself.
Give it to her Mom or Aunt to make sure she gets it.
When you get where ever it is....maybe a sleep over at your house...with giggles and laugh planned....even something that simple tell her how you feel....
I hope it works out....however if it doesn't, please realize that people do come and go in our lives for certain reasons.
Give it one last try and see what happens....if nothing comes from it....at least you can say you tried...because your friendship truly meant something to you.
Best wishes....Good luck
Maybe also blog some thing about how you really miss your best friend...and wish you could take back everything you said and reverse time.....nothing mean...only kind.
2007-01-27 15:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it will take some time to patch things up try again and again but if it won't give in then give her some space and try to get a ride with someone else and maybe she will realize that she misses you alot as much as you miss her and try writing a letter calling privately and talking privately
2007-01-27 15:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tried to make up . in your own way but Angie ignored your efforts..she has made no effort in talking to you.
so.. going by that you should let it be and wait for her to come to you.
if she breaks off the friendship . that means she will not be a good friend again and don;t trust her either.
she is being selfish .. hateful..
2007-01-27 14:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say"I need to tell you how very sorry I am and since we have been in this fight I realised what an important friend you are to me and I miss our friendship very much."
Thats all.Just say that.
It won't be easy but just do it .
2007-01-27 14:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋