Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Banging your head against a brick wall?....by this i mean, trying to keep the peace with a certain someone only to feel asthough you're making some kind of head way then realise you're right back to where you srtarted?....if so what do you do turn your back on this person forever, or keep trying..... i think i have had quite enough of it to last me a life time...... what would you do?

2007-01-27 07:07:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for a girl to have sexual relations with another girl while dating a guy?

2007-01-27 07:07:18 · 33 answers · asked by me,myself&him 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you consider short for a guy? Because I'm 5'7 or 5'8 with shoes on... do girls think that's short? I guess I'm just a little self concious about my height.. because I know how the girls at my school think height is so important. Thanks!

Also please write how tall you are and what you think about short guys. Thank you, again!

2007-01-27 07:06:22 · 21 answers · asked by Chance 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like everyone I know is slipping threw my finger tips. My best friend is too busy for me now((even though this weekend she said she is relaxing but still doesn't want to hang out with me even though we havent hung out buy ourselves for like 3months now.)) And I feel like if i'm important enough to her then I think she can spare 1hour of her relaxation time to just go see a movie with me or something and with my other friend doesn't seem to talk to me anymore during lunch because she's talking to her other friends. My brother is moveing away because he's getting married. All the people I care about most seem to be just dissapearing. I feel so darn alone and I feel selfish because they have their own lives and I shouldn't be interfeering....what should I do?

2007-01-27 07:06:07 · 7 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Friends

i hear alot of people saying use lubricant and stuff but what is so specail about it and were do you put it

2007-01-27 07:06:03 · 7 answers · asked by shay shay 1 in Singles & Dating

ive had a couple of people that have asked me to email them computer jargon (i never comply) and get all strange when i say no?! i like IM cos there are some cool dudes out there. but what they all about?

2007-01-27 07:05:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you expect the guy to tell you that he loves you first after you have been going out for some time and you both have feelings for one another? and is it the same with latin women, or different?

2007-01-27 07:05:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and i haven't been getting along lately. i feel so unloved and unhappy. my "dad" just moved in and i don't like him at all. and ive been depressed a lot lately. so he decided to move out because my mom and my relationship is falling apart. but now my mom told me that her happiness is more important than mines, so now shes gonna tell him to move back in. would a good mom tell her only daughter this? she said the only thing she has to do is provide me with clothes food and shelter, and thats it. what should i do?

2007-01-27 07:03:39 · 12 answers · asked by unique2thextreme 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this guy in my class and i like him alot....and i want to ask him out....but im afraid of what he is gona say...and if he will tell his friends..what should i do....please help

2007-01-27 07:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by I love when emo boys make out 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this one person that suppose to be my friend, but she acts like she want to be my friend sometimes, and sometimes she act like she don't want to be my friend she was really the only friend I had. I talk to other people when I go to work, but I don't consider them as friends. I tryed really hard to hold on to the friendship, but its hard being friends with somebody thats not on the same page as you. She never calls me i always call her if I want to talk to her. I'am tired now I can't do it anymore.

2007-01-27 07:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by mamaR 1 in Friends

Getting together in bed?

2007-01-27 07:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by aj_peterson_5 1 in Singles & Dating

how would I ensure the person I am meeting is genuine and not someone pretending to be something they are not, what security measures do I take in order to know who I am meeting is not decieving me for any reason? I am an adult meeting an adult who is 32 but looks younger, this is playing on my mind as I think she is really nice but I feel a certain amount of deception or paranoia. serious answers will be appreciated, funny answers will be laughed at. thank you for your time.

2007-01-27 07:00:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy friend always gets mad at everything like i sent pictures to the wrong person and he got so mads. and one day he gave me a hickey and he was making it reder and he said that he better not see anymore when he gets back and i asked him about it the next night and he said he was joking that i can get as many hickies as i want. he says he isnt serious but everytime were together he always says something like that is he jealous?

2007-01-27 07:00:00 · 6 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him and they don't understand that it's his personality. He's really sweet, but dresses very differently. My parents hate guys that wear baggy pants and shirts wayy to big, but i love it. =) what do i do?

2007-01-27 06:59:58 · 35 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Singles & Dating

Would a guy choose to quit partying so hard and focus on career and family or would a guy choose to blow it all, drink and party, and eventually go back to the poor country he came from?

Assume you are an illegal in this country that has the option to be successful (very clear path to do this) or blow it and get deported.

2007-01-27 06:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no idea what I'm supposed to register for beyond kitchen items and bedding. I can't decide what kind of bedding to get. What else am I supposed to register for?

2007-01-27 06:59:30 · 13 answers · asked by Holly E 1 in Weddings

I see him at most once everyth three months (cause he lives far away) but we email almost every day.....I'm only 14, but I really like him. What do I do?

2007-01-27 06:59:26 · 14 answers · asked by Friend 1 in Friends

2007-01-27 06:59:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in a relationship with someone who I am really starting to care about. The problem; my Sister. I relocated back to NY about 9 mos. ago and my Sister has been staying with me for about 5 mos. She doesn't say it, but I get the sense she may be jealous of the attention I've been showing to my girl. Just little things like wanting to talk while I'm on the phone, not answering if it's her or acting funny when I come home from seeing her. Is it me being too analytical or am I sensing right? Both are special but I don't want any problems to occur so I'd rather stop something before it starts. Advice, comments?

2007-01-27 06:58:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This isn't my style and honestly I'm less attracted to her after knowing this. What she thinks is a sexual experiament could and probably will change the way I continue from this point forward. What do I do? We've been together for a year and she's pretty serious about trying out new things. I'm more traditional with my romances....

2007-01-27 06:57:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 06:57:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To the point where you have sexual relationships with them

2007-01-27 06:57:02 · 4 answers · asked by lover4ne1 2 in Singles & Dating

It is completely obvious that I am interested in noone else. I have friends that have been around for many years and I haven't dated them ever. Yet...he is suspicious and has started asking randomly about everyone, even people that I haven't met before.

Is he getting wandering eyes? Is that the problem? He is young and good looking. He would never cheat...but why the questions?

2007-01-27 06:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is there something wrong with me ..?
part of my fantasy is about being dominated by a male and doing it rough.(not to the bondage extend). suggest to my husband... but after the whole rough sex thing .. i literally cried and feel disgusted at myself. i am not sure why is it that i feel so violated when i was the one who sugested and wanted to try it ..
even though we are still doing it .. its stilk bothers me .. why ??

2007-01-27 06:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she's still in love with me but she says she's out of love with me? help me figure this out

she tell me she still in love with me but she fell out of love..i gets cofused and when i asked she said love is powerfull


her example was since she's still in love she that she well stick by my side 24/7 no matter what, shell do what ever it takes to make me happy
but she fell out of love in her words that she couldnt care less if im around....lol .... now im confused n i told her she has issues

how can u be in love but out of love with someone?

2007-01-27 06:55:54 · 2 answers · asked by L3ZBiiAN SW33TZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's not like its the 1800's where women have very few opportunities to make a decent living. When a girls insist they I pay on the first dates, I tend to think it's because she is financally irresponsible and can't hold her own. Ladies, many guys in the world today want a partner, and not a parasite. Enough of this sexist gender bull crap.

2007-01-27 06:55:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't ever really know wut to ask. I'm tired of the lame, "Whats ur fav. color?" I want some real interesting questions.

2007-01-27 06:55:39 · 7 answers · asked by Likwid 1 in Singles & Dating

Its a mans fantasy but we are in serious relationship. Usually i consider these things need to happen before you get involved and commited. What are possible things that may happen if i had to bring a girl just for one night so we can do some some and he can watch and enjoy himself? Is there any risk in breaking relationship due to these circumstances? What are the posibilites?

Mature answer only, please.

2007-01-27 06:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Singles & Dating

and talking crazy about how much he loves me and how he dont wanna be with nobody but me for the rest of his life and he said he gonna propose to me on my birthday. and he said if im not able to see him on valentines day he gonna break up with me, but i got go 2 bible study and thats where i wanna go, but then he said he was playin. and plus my momma dont like him cuz he 20 and im 16, but age of consent in my state is 16 so its nothing she can do about it really. I think he crazy and he call me all day, but i love him so much. How do i tell him to cool it, we only been together since october 2006

2007-01-27 06:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Friends

My boyfriend who I have been going out for a year now, doesn't feel that he knows me. I'm not a very open person so I could understand that, but I don't know how to open up to him and let him know I really care about him. I also don't know what he wants from me because I constantly feel like I'm not good enough for him, since he would tell me I need to work on things. Should I end the relationship? or just talk things through? It's so confusing because he's such a nice guy but he just doesn't seem to know what he wants.

2007-01-27 06:54:04 · 6 answers · asked by taurusgal89 1 in Singles & Dating