Its a mans fantasy but we are in serious relationship. Usually i consider these things need to happen before you get involved and commited. What are possible things that may happen if i had to bring a girl just for one night so we can do some some and he can watch and enjoy himself? Is there any risk in breaking relationship due to these circumstances? What are the posibilites?
Mature answer only, please.
2007-01-27 06:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by BK thang 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These things never turn out well, the best thing to do is be honest and say it isnt your thing. Personally, I could never do this with my gf as I love her and feel sick at the idea of "sharing" her for a night with a stranger, male or female.
The risks of this are huge, he could have sex with this girl and really fall for her, they could have an affair because the sex is good, or worse still he could leave you for her.
If its just you two girls doing it, then maybe he will feel frustrated and resent you for doing it afterwards, maybe you will make different noises that he hasnt made you make and will feel immasculated and small.
Maybe YOU will see something in the girl, that you never thought you would, and decide that maybe guys arent for you anymore.
Or maybe the girl with have an STD that you all dont know about, and it could cost you more than your relationship.
There are far too many risks involved with playing these games. If everyone is single and it crops up then fine, everyone is in the same boat. If in a relationship you need to bring in other people to fulfill your sex life then things need to seriously be looked at.
Dont do it, but if you do, be careful.
2007-01-27 07:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is every man's fantasy, but why allow it to come true for him? What if you picked a girl with an std? What if he left you for this other girl? You know you are going to have to find a bisexual girl for this or a lesbian. If you chose a bisexual, he would probably leave you for her because she likes guys and girls and he would be able to make his fantasy come true every night if he wanted to. If you two are in a serious relationship, then don't you think it's a little immature to get another girl involved for just one night? One night is all it takes and then he could be hooked. You wouldn't want him nagging you all the time to do it again would you? I would think about the countless numbers of std's out in this world before you allow yourself to do things with another girl just so your boyfriend can watch. This thing doesn't have to happen in order to get involved and commited. There has to be love, faith, communication, understanding, compromise, and loyalty to make a relationship succeed and for it to be a serious relationship. I think you need to sit down, alone, in a room and think about your relationship. List the pros and cons about doing this threesome before you do it and think it over with yourself long and hard. Good luck!
2007-01-27 07:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there is the obvious jealousy (maybe you, maybe him), the possibility that this will only excite him and that his request will escalate to an uncomfortable place and you begin to feel pressured. once you have opened up the playing field there is no telling were it will go.The two may have an affair outside of you. resentment once you are finished (maybe you , maybe him). All in all it is your choice, dont let him bully you and dont feel pressured. Only do what makes you comfortable.
2007-01-27 07:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi? Depends on how you feel about it---could very well be the biggest mistake of your life. Not all guys like to be that open...they say that they do, but when it comes to getting serious, they rather have their little secrets taken care of elsewhere....
2007-01-27 07:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think biggest issue is whether you could handle it. Many women agree to this and then when they see their man aroused by another woman get very jealous.
2007-01-27 07:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One night? I would give it 3 or 4...can I come?
2007-01-27 07:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tu mama es me ama 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dats some hot **** you be takin bout. I forgot what u was askin.
2007-01-27 07:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Return Of Buckwheat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as the person isn't a friend and uglier than you, then you'll be fine... ENJOY YOURSELF!!! when are you getting the second guy in???
2007-01-27 06:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋