The guy makes you feel like you are the only one...Would you stay with him because of his body hair or would you leave? How strong is love?
Thanks for all answers.
2007-01-27 05:56:37 · 20 answers · asked by Marcjr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should love someone for who they are and not how much hair they have. When you get old- if you started losing you hair would you want the person you are with to question whether or not they would leave you? I would hope not.
I like a smooth chest as well, but when I met my BF (now my husband) I didn't like his hairy chest. And now?? I love his chest-hair and all! I love him and I could care less about it. He treats me like a princess and I love him!
2007-01-27 06:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by luvsreward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, then your love isn't strong enough. Let him go and let someone else have him that will truly appreciate him and love him as he deserves to be loved.
He's going to make some woman happy for the rest of her life. But I'm thinking that you'll always have issues with his body hair. Yeah, it can be waxed and all that, but this is such a cosmetic issue. What if a guy was thinking about you "This girl makes me feel so special, but she is ugly without make-up and I don't know if I can deal with waking up to her ugly face every morning." Would you want him thinking that? The answer is "No". So don't pretend the body hair thing doesn't bother you when it does.
Sorry to sound harsh, but my 20 year old son has body hair, and let me tell you, he is one hot babe that all the women look at. He is one of those who will treat the woman he loves like a queen. I want a daughter-in-law that will love him completely . . . . hair and all.
2007-01-27 06:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is too bad that we don't get to make a conscience decision of what things about a person turn us on and those things that turn us off. First of all, when he takes his shirt off, is it a mental reaction that you get. Like, Oh no, look at all that ugly hair, or is it a physical reaction that sends a cold chill up your spine?
In the first case, you may only be conditioned, having not seen body hair of this amount up close and touchable. Your feelings for him could overcome this and you could be reconditioned to have a hair fetish if you began to think of his hair as an erotic pleasure.
If his hair on the other hand, gives you the eebee jeebee's, save everyone the heartbreak of waiting and end it now.
If you were able to find a happy medium. would you be able to work with that? Tell him you would like to help hoim trim up a little. If there is hair on his shoulders for instance. Ask him if you could help him Nair it because it distracts from his chest hair which really turns you on.
You are a woman. You have a flair designed into you for manipulating men. If youi put your mind to it and feel he is worth it, you can work through this.
2007-01-27 06:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by terterryterter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if the guy makes you think you are the only one or if he has body hair or not. Nowhere in your question did you say how you FEEL about the guy as a person. Are you in love with him? If so, then you will have to address how much of an issue the body hair is for you and deal with it accordingly. If you are not in love with him, and the body hair is obviously an issue for you, then I think you should let the guy go. He deserves to be with someone who can love him as he is, and you deserve to be with someone you are in love with and whose amount of body hair is acceptable to you. Best wishes.
2007-01-27 06:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay because if you make her feel like she is the only one, that is really special and nothing should come between that, even if it is body hair.
2007-01-27 06:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about your own relationship with a guy who has massive body hair? Does it turn you off? If so, you will never be able to get past it. Unless you can convience him to get it waxed off, without hurting his feelings. I would say you better go look for a less hairy man.
2007-01-27 06:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant believe you would leave someone over body hair. That seems very shallow to me. You said "The guy makes you feel like you are the only one". Perhaps you may want to realign your priorities and hope he doesnt leave you first!
2007-01-27 06:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-25 06:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really care for him you should not let the body hair bother you little things like that make you rethink how you feel then maybe you two were never meant to be. do not take me wrong i am not judging you i am just say maybe he really not the right one for you right now do what make you happy.
2007-01-27 06:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were the one that started dating him. You knew he had the hair so who is to blame?
I know lots of girls that get off on male body hair. They think it's sexy.
2007-01-27 06:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋