Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

My husband recently let another women kiss him and had feelings for her. He had lost these feelings for me because I didn't pay enough attention to him. Right now he says he wants to fix our marriage, but he is distant , mean and sometimes just hateful. He says he loves me. He says he can not say that he wants to leave or get a divorce., but he can not kiss or hug me without getting upset or angry. I am going to marriage counseling without him-he will not go and i do not want to force him. I just don't know how long I can keep doing this. I am always upset and crying and I have a 2 yr old beautiful daughter and I am sooo worried about her seeing all of this and if he does leave, I will be so upset not to see us both when shw wants. I really needs some GOOD advise. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-24 05:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by saj2404 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...So i'm in 7th grade...but I always like people who are older than me or sometimes WAY older like 6 years!!! I don't know why this is.....in all other aspects i'm just like any other 7th grader except for who i like!!!!!!!!!! does anyone know why i might like older people?

2007-01-24 05:24:26 · 10 answers · asked by Katherine 2 in Singles & Dating

I am curious...has there been anyone out there who was married...had an affair with another person- fell in Love and had it work out in the end?

2007-01-24 05:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 05:23:47 · 3 answers · asked by michael j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 05:23:43 · 30 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1 in Singles & Dating

During the first year of your marriage did you think sometimes “o my god did I make a mistake”. Does this pass with time? My wife seems to not find anything good with me right now after this first trying year of marriage (we’ve had to blend families as well). Is this normal? Will she snap out of it or should I just start preparing for divorce?

2007-01-24 05:23:36 · 18 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to clean my house. can you help me get motivated.

2007-01-24 05:22:30 · 14 answers · asked by ~annie~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 05:22:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was out with an attractive Indian man and he told me he only started dating last year when he was 28 yrs. old. He came to America from India when he was 22, been in the U.S. for 7 yrs. completed his masters and now doing his Ph.D.. He says due to his conservative upbringing and Indian culture, it's not unsual to start dating at such a late age. I find this something unbelievable and skeptical at best. If you are an Indian male who relocated to the U.S. to pursue a higher education...

1.) What age did you first start dating?
2.) How many women have you dated?
3.) Is it the norm to start dating when you are in your mid-20's?

2007-01-24 05:21:57 · 2 answers · asked by Hanna S 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating someone for only a month and feel compeled to say those 3 little words...but don't want to run him off?

2007-01-24 05:20:59 · 20 answers · asked by Adnerb 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it so fun to do househole chores nude while my wife sits at the table fully clothed and drinks cofee? Is there something wrong with me?

2007-01-24 05:20:57 · 13 answers · asked by Lance Carthen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 05:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 05:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

What makes u want to stay with them forever? what makes u think that HE/SHES the one?

2007-01-24 05:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by love_momo 1 in Singles & Dating

We're getting married in 3 months, do we have time to get married in church? I've heard a church ceremony requires 6 month of classes. Does that still apply if only one of us is religious?

2007-01-24 05:19:24 · 14 answers · asked by bluerageoc 1 in Weddings

last night my 9 year old step daughter was really giving me a hard time and she told her brother to start acting up. I sent her to her room. Later I told their father and told him how I handled it. That was all that was done. Do you think he should have stepped in on that or should he just accept my discipline and let it be?

2007-01-24 05:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by just me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some help. I'm 27, single, quiet, 'handsome/cute,' or so I've been told by a number of guys/girls. I've had 2 girlfriends. I went 4 years between my first and second relationship, and now it's been almost two years since the second one.
I've read all about where to meet girls. I go to the bookstores, malls, coffeeshops, etc. Sometimes I see a girl who's by herself, or maybe with one of her friends. But I never approach her, because I am afraid i'll say hi and then just stand there not know what else to say. Or I'll come up with excuses why I can't talk to her. "She's out of my league." "She probably has a boyfriend." "She's reading/trying to study, I'd just be interrupting her," just to name a few examples. Once in a while, a girl will flirt with me and I'll blow it by not playing along, because she caught me by suprise.
I'm getting older and afraid that I may be set in my ways. I want to meet girls, I am straight, I need help. How do shy guys meet girls?

2007-01-24 05:19:19 · 4 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Singles & Dating

for passing the time of day and doing the the most good while your at it. I just got to know Have a nice day.

2007-01-24 05:18:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been together about 10 yrs. (I'm 27,he's 36). Our families never really supported the relationship.......We have decided to get married and WE are paying for ALL of it. We don't think we should have to include our parents names on the invitations and such because WE are paying. Is that wrong????

2007-01-24 05:17:12 · 34 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Weddings

I'm 15, and I am bisexual, but I can't see myself getting married ... or being together with another man for the rest of my life. I know that one day I want to find a person to marry, but I want it to be a woman, not because it's seen as the normal thing to do, but beacuse I want to marry a woman and not a guy. But I AM bisexual, so I would still be sexually attracted to men too ... if a guy loved YOU and only you, and he told you he was biesxual would you still like him? As long as I was committed to that one person, would it matter if I am bisexual?

2007-01-24 05:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy but he is russian and very busy with his religion and he has no clue i like him. what should i do to let him know i like him with out saying anything? i have asked him to hangout before but like i said he is always busy.

2007-01-24 05:16:11 · 3 answers · asked by 8-) 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf r getting married in reno,nv but we live in san jose,ca after we get wedding and have our marriage license and go back to san jose do we still have to let our clerk or something in the town know like the records office know what we got married and show them the license???????? if we do than who to show it too??????

2007-01-24 05:15:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I recently became a counselor for couples therapy and amazingly all the couples that I see, it is always the Chick that sets the appointments. After the first visit they don't want to come back anymore though must be cause I tell them the easiest way to save your relationship is to shut your mouth and obey your man.

2007-01-24 05:14:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past two months or so, my girlfriend no longer is affectionate. She calls me less frequently and the phone calls last 2-5 minutes. When we were sexually active, we were intimate maybe once a month. Now, it has been over 2 months since our last rendevous. It depresses me, and I tried sharing my concerns with her but she doesn't want to talk. It annoys or upsets her. We've been together for over 5 years. We don't live together. I don't now if she is going through a phase or is no longer interested in being with me. Help?

2007-01-24 05:13:44 · 15 answers · asked by Their Guardian Angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is 36 (10 yrs. older than me) and we've been together almost 7 yrs. He is content, but I can't stop thinking about being single again. He is such a good person and he treats me well. We're both changing into non-compatible people. What do I do?

2007-01-24 05:13:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ii think thats very gay..its femenin

2007-01-24 05:13:15 · 14 answers · asked by liz 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl... and we used to talk a lot.. we still do... but i feel that sometimes we run out of things to talk now and not talk as much as before.. for all you love couples or dating ones out there... how do you manage to talk to your bf/gf everyday endlessly? i heard people talk on phone for several hours? what are there to talk about? i mean i know we can chat about everything... but how do i avoid the situation of silence? =\

p.s. we are teenagers

2007-01-24 05:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by tmackun135 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been ignoring this friend of mine because latley ive been sick of him always ignoring me and confusing me all the time. I also dont want to be his friend anymore because I really care about him alot more that he does for me and I really am scared of being that close. Is it bad that im ignoring him? does that make me a bad person?I dont want a whole dramatic thing going on but i think it would be better if he thinks im mad at him then going into this mushy thing of why i cant talk to him

2007-01-24 05:12:51 · 3 answers · asked by jjjj 2 in Friends

well i have been dating this very cute virgin, and we have been dating now for about 2 months. we have talked about touching and exploring to say the least, and she knows that i am not trying to sleep with her just to say that i "did a virgin" i really like her, i can also feel that this is getting stronger with each passing week. so we have been romantic, but nothing major...like i have put my hand on the tummy and all over her back, but i am honestly worried about touching her chest b/c she gave me the green light to say the least, but when things start heating up, she backs off a bit, and why this that? not that she stops it, but i just feel her not wanting to go a bit further. i know she is scared, and ive told her that i am not looking just for that. we have been in bed watching tv, holding, cuddling, etc. so i am confused, should i keep going step by step, or should i just let her make the moves? i know she hasnt done this b4 & i just want to respect her.

2007-01-24 05:12:45 · 14 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

I start felling hungry isnt funny>>>>???

2007-01-24 05:12:15 · 5 answers · asked by haki 5 in Friends