For the past two months or so, my girlfriend no longer is affectionate. She calls me less frequently and the phone calls last 2-5 minutes. When we were sexually active, we were intimate maybe once a month. Now, it has been over 2 months since our last rendevous. It depresses me, and I tried sharing my concerns with her but she doesn't want to talk. It annoys or upsets her. We've been together for over 5 years. We don't live together. I don't now if she is going through a phase or is no longer interested in being with me. Help?
2007-01-24 05:13:44 · 15 answers · asked by Their Guardian Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try breaking the routine.. girls hate this... do something special.. show interest .. take her flowers, take her out, ask her to go to the movies... do lil surprises... she may be expecting something from you... dont be passive wondering what she has... amaze her:P
if still not then talk to her and try to figure out.. maybe shes tired of the relationship... be there for her though and try to fix things.. i believe is just a phase and she just needs to get away from eveyday life.. routine is bad.. do something nice for her adn you will see that she will change...
2007-01-24 05:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all about intimacy, you know. Your parents are probably worried that you're being too intimate with each other at your age and are trying to prevent it. Show them you care about more than just making out and whatever else. A good way to do this is to have her over for dinner more often or to invite her to see a movie with you and your family (no cuddling for that one). Parents like to know that their kids are being respectful when it comes to dating. As far as your girlfriend's feelings go, she's probably either missing the intimate times or wanting more than intimacy. If you've been dating for less than six or seven months, chances are she's missing the intimate times, so try to squeeze some alone time in your schedule as best as you can (and if you prove to your parents that you're being a gentleman, then it should be a lot easier). If she seems like she's just getting bored or losing her feelings for you, then take the time to woo her again--be spontaneous and send her flowers, or treat her to dinner, etc. You know the drill. Good luck!
2016-05-24 04:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seem like she might have some one on the side,but before jumping into conclusion u mention ur been together over 5 yrs, has it cross ur mind that she might want more stability marriage, living together. being intimate once a month its kind of not right, just sit with her and try to communicate, don't dress up the conversation but ur need to talk and get thing straighting out
2007-01-24 06:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my bf in terms of blocking you out but you have to talk to her tell her that you need to know what id going on between you two that it is not normal to not have sex that lil in a relationship at least once a week i mean me and my bf have sex 4-10 times a week if he didnt wanna have sex with me i would demand to know why? ask her is it me? or is it you? or is it someone else? you have the right to know and if she continues to block you out then something is up and you should not even talk to her anymore
2007-01-24 05:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her that you love her and need to know what is wrong between the two of you, she may have someone on the side and feels guilty
2007-01-24 05:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER! i've been with my man for 7 years... and we always find a way to make it work... and if this relationship means anything to her.. she will give you that much...
look for clues and hints of infidelity... has she been talking about some one new maybe.. like for example..look for clues like... you could be talking about one thing and she could be like... OMG you know what Mark said today... hes so funny... blaah blhaa stuff like that... i'm not saying she is... i'm just syaing its a possibilty...
maybe theres a new change in her life? like... did she all the sudden get more busy? maybe with school or work or something? maybe she's just stress... you could maybe offer to take her mind of things... take her to her favorite places...
i don't know but goodluck...
2007-01-24 05:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down and tell her how you feel. ask her how she feels about this. if she tries to walk away beg. DO NOT! BE ABRASIVE. if she walks a way let her walk away. keep trying and trying. she'll crack eventually. and if she files a lawsuit for umm... what do you call it stalkin i guess. find a new girl. or go get an A-town hoe.
2007-01-24 05:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think now is the time for your girlfriend to get an attitude adjustment and nothing quite does that as nicely as whipping her across the butt with a car antenna.
that should fix her uppity attitude but FAST!
2007-01-24 05:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to e like she's not interested anymore and can't bring herself around to being honest with you about it.
2007-01-24 06:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by wyldfyr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's going on. You can't just expect things to turn around without doing something. communicate with her directly.
2007-01-24 05:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋