I am curious...has there been anyone out there who was married...had an affair with another person- fell in Love and had it work out in the end?
2007-01-24 05:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes actually I was married to a man and the marriage was falling apart we were sleeping in seperate rooms and already talking divorce but then he became abusive and obsessive and said he changed his mind he wanted to work it out... I met someone in a support group online who lived 2000 miles from me. we began to im everyday then call each other then I lied to my fam and husband to fly to his state to meet him and knew just knew that I was on a broken road and it leads to the new man, I went home filed for divorce an ugly drawn out divorce and moved to be with my new man... 6 years later we are still in love and happy my family adores him and things couldn't be better
2007-01-24 05:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe a couple I know is an exception to the rule. An old high school friend of mine was unhappily married to a real gem. She started working at a new job and met another man, who was also unhappily married with two teenage children. I believe he is 8 years her senior. They began an affair and then my friend turned up pregnant and didn't know who the father was. Her husband left and they eventually got divorced. Her "second squeeze" divorced his wife. Once the baby was born, it was determined that it was the first husbands child, but they did not reunite. Instead she and her adulturous partner got married and have had 2 more children together. They seem happy and I wish them the best...but I don't think I could trust someone who cheated on their spouse.
2007-01-24 05:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 04:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend of mine met a guy at work much older than her she is 35 he is 55. Supposidely nothing happened sexually before her and her husband were still living together but I find it hard to believe. Anyhow she got divorce from first husband and just married older guy last month. The sad thing is she has two boys and if is an uncomfortable situation for the ex to be around new husband just because of how the whole thing happened. Her ex is the nicest guy and he has remarried also.
2007-01-24 05:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DISCLAIMER: This story is a GROSS exception.
I know someone who did.
She was only 15 and started an affair with a 35 year old married man. She became pregnant. His wife divorced him (they had no kids before).
They got married. She is now 40 and they are still happily married with now 4 grown children.
I bet only 1 in 20 or less works out this well. The VAST majority regret it.
2007-01-24 05:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' kid yourself. That rarely happens And if it does, it ultimately ends in another affair. I love how homewreckers think they'll change for them.
2007-01-24 05:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No times 3........ you marry your spouse for a reason. I first one is always the best.
2007-01-24 05:51:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-24 05:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋