Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs and have two children. He is in the military and since he came back from Korea two years ago things began to change. He began lieing to me about how late he was staying at work only for me to find out it was because he was going to see some girl he met at the mall. I never really got over it and it has just been down hill from there. In the last two weeks things have just gotten worse the emotional abuse has gotten out of hand so I asked him to move out and have agreed to begin the divorce process. It has been a week now and I have met a man you seems to be interested in me. My dilemma is should I pursue things with this man or should I wait even though I know in my heart that I have not loved my soon to be ex for quite some time now. Am I wrong to want to be with someone who will not disrespect me and who will not continue to put my children at risk?

2007-01-24 05:12:09 · 29 answers · asked by nessa_ild 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He looked at me and we held eye contact for like 5 seconds and he was smiling [like a halkf smile] and then he continued what he was doing.
then eye contact again for a few seconds and the same smile.
and the same again.

Was he flirting?
Does he seem interested?

Thanks.

2007-01-24 05:12:02 · 14 answers · asked by Blue-eyed Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

loving and honest

2007-01-24 05:11:30 · 16 answers · asked by Courtney B 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he snt gay i havent talked to him in 3days i cant keep dodging him is it weird i think it is gross it want to know do straight guys realy want to see that kind of stuff

2007-01-24 05:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by nicu 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner knows that I hate porn and it hurts my feelings, but he won't give it up. So I told him I will get into it even though it goes against my principles and beleives. What do I do to desire other man if I already have one that I love? what are the websites for girls to see naked guys?.....oh god I can't beleive i'm writing this.....I think that's the only way I won't find it so disrespectful, if i have some for myself :o(

2007-01-24 05:10:12 · 31 answers · asked by none 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf I havent talked to in a few months because i thought he was cheating on me when we were together so we had trust issues and broke up even though he said and still claims to his friends he didnt do anything. Im still in love with him and its been a couple months since our break up he text me to see how i am doing saying hes not sure why he did and that he was just thinking of me...is there any chance of things working out again? and what can I do on my part?

2007-01-24 05:09:43 · 7 answers · asked by Becky B 1 in Singles & Dating

If a married man is having a long-term affair with another woman, does he have to keep track of both female cycles and then how much time does it really leave him? (considering they all have f/t jobs and kids) unless of course, both women get their periods on the same day...would the man really take time to even think about the cycles?

2007-01-24 05:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 05:09:08 · 28 answers · asked by Elizabeth M 1 in Singles & Dating

they always bug the living sh** out of me so how cani tell them to leave me alone

2007-01-24 05:08:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a teen.........I just love Rafael Nadal.I'm crazy about him.Is it realy worth it?I mean is it normal & common.............it is love or just attraction?

2007-01-24 05:08:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i'm trying to get this guy to like me, but i don't want to desapoint him by doing something wrong.

2007-01-24 05:08:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 05:08:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A civil union may be to obatin tax benefits and related goodies that are impossible otherwise. A marriage is a dedicated institution for the welfare of a family unit with a lot of rights and duties that have evolved through many centuries of past experiences of many cultural societies throughout the world.

2007-01-24 05:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy no relationship he did not call me right away, he claim not to be married had one daughter and was single. He called and came by almost everyday, never to kiss, touch or sex only to say hello, see my face and give me money,first name and address is all he knows, sometimes coming twice a day dropping off money, flowers ect.. each visit was no longer than 10-15 tops, he never came in my house. Later i got a call from a lady who claims to be his wife with 4 kids,she was respectful and just had questions as any woman would, he called me 15 min after she did asking if she called me and told me to come out again he had flowers and more money. I gave a party for my neice and friends (9) girls and he paid for every thing. the same day was his sons 1st b-day and he bought him nothing. his wife and are cool and banking his money. i don't want him and she's leaving him. she's caught him twice in 4 months & beats her. he has no idea we talk and playing him. ?????

2007-01-24 05:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the easiest escape would be to throw a twinkie one direction and while the Chick chases it you run the other direction right?

2007-01-24 05:07:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 05:07:13 · 3 answers · asked by hoopshola 1 in Singles & Dating

I am into the fantasy/fiction kinda book. I like the books with sweet fluffy romance, too, but not too into the scifi.

2007-01-24 05:06:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-24 05:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

I have seriously noticed now i'm pregnant my sex drive has risen sky high, my man has no complaints at all but i don't remember this happening with my first child...so can this happen?....i suppose in pregnancy anything can happen right?

2007-01-24 05:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

just boring me and not satisfying me in bed. He is a good worker and I know that when we get a divorce he will pay his child support on time because he loves his 3 year old daughter. I want to enjoy life with my high paying job and I want to date cute guys that are exciting and take me out places. So how do I tell my husband in a nice way that I want a divorce because he is boring me and not great in bed.

2007-01-24 05:05:13 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My man seems to always want to make me jealous of his pretend sister. Since me and her had a disagreement, now he seems to want to tell me all the things he does for her. (Time wise and financially) Before all this happened he never volunteered such info. What pisses me off, is that he acts so tight and stingy with me. By the way, he is my husband. If I ask him, why does he continue to do things for her when she is capable of doing for herself; he seems to take it as an insult and will say things like I must be jealous of her, etc. Why does he do this?

2007-01-24 05:05:12 · 1 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys:

Leave your number somewhere for a girl to see it, on her car, or locker, or desk at work?
If a girl left her number on your car, lock, or desk etc., would you call her?

Girls: Same questions at you but from your stand point.

Thanks!

I would leave my number on a guys car if I though he was cute. I would call him, if he left his number...

2007-01-24 05:04:09 · 20 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

i'm 16 and my bf is 17.

my mom knows and i'm fine with that, she just sort of guessed by the way i was acting and stuff but my dad doesn't know and my mom is making me tell him! how unfair!? she says i have to tell him and if i don't, she will....he'll gorund me or something, my dad is so strict. i'm also a little embarrassed cause like.....he's my dad. though this guy is really amazing, if he gave him a chance, he'd like him.....

2007-01-24 05:03:59 · 12 answers · asked by Grace 1 in Singles & Dating

We separated in 2000, and i immediately took him to court, and was granted child support. He never made 1 payment, so I went to Child Support Enforcement, provided all the necessary paperwork and waited...and waited...and waited. Then I get a letter saying that because he doesn't work for an actual company (he freelances as a carpenter) they can't garnish his wages, since basically they can't find where he works. He has a beautiful home, 2 nice cars, and even a 2 bedroom boat, but because everything is in his girlfriends name, they say there's nothing they can do. I wish I could afford to hire a laywer, but that's really not an option, so if anyone can offer advice, I would appreciate it!

2007-01-24 05:03:42 · 4 answers · asked by Eves 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf smoked pot as long as I have known him and been with him (about 3 years). He stopped to go into fire academy but had to leave because we might think he has heart problems. He told me he wasnt going to smoke as much but now he his and it really upsets me. He only mocks me because he said i have been with him this long while he did that i shouldnt care. Because of this he is not really speaking to me which really upsets me, should I let it go and not care?

2007-01-24 05:03:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we would like to do our own catering for a wedding...any ideas and is it worth the trouble?? caterers seem awfully expensive...what is a good price per head? the wedding is in charleston, sc.

2007-01-24 05:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I used to have 1 really close friend but she went to america to a new school, now in 8th grade i have 3 close friends but I still feel lonely. I have had a crush on that guy for 1 1/2 years and I still don't even dare to get close to him. Any advice on what I should do? I feel left out and pointless.

2007-01-24 05:02:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-24 05:02:42 · 18 answers · asked by wscrapy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i started sleeping with my boss becuz i just couldnt help it. but now im pregnant. he has a wife who i happen to be good friends with. and he has 4 kids. i told his wife but i ddnt tell her who the father was. and she was happy saying our kids can grow up together and now i kinda feel guilty what should i do

2007-01-24 05:02:14 · 55 answers · asked by Dutchess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so what do you perfer- long medium or shor hair (or bald- hey you never know?) Thanx xxx

2007-01-24 05:01:39 · 11 answers · asked by MCR ROCK 1 in Singles & Dating