I met this guy no relationship he did not call me right away, he claim not to be married had one daughter and was single. He called and came by almost everyday, never to kiss, touch or sex only to say hello, see my face and give me money,first name and address is all he knows, sometimes coming twice a day dropping off money, flowers ect.. each visit was no longer than 10-15 tops, he never came in my house. Later i got a call from a lady who claims to be his wife with 4 kids,she was respectful and just had questions as any woman would, he called me 15 min after she did asking if she called me and told me to come out again he had flowers and more money. I gave a party for my neice and friends (9) girls and he paid for every thing. the same day was his sons 1st b-day and he bought him nothing. his wife and are cool and banking his money. i don't want him and she's leaving him. she's caught him twice in 4 months & beats her. he has no idea we talk and playing him. ?????
2007-01-24 05:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by ladybug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well everything is going to come out in the light sooner or later if you can get his money that is fine but are you willing to deal with the repercussions****
2007-01-24 05:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE ONLY thing you can do is the dreaded D word:DIVORCE If she didn't have anything to hide then she wouldn't have changed her passwords and would have let you seen her business checking accounts. 20 years is a long to be married and adultery is very good grounds for divorce. You have a strong case just be sure to shop around for the best lawyer that your money can buy. Shes a liar and a cheat and you don't need to put up with it any longer. Shes hurting you and not treating you like a good loving wife should. Its time for you two to part ways. Yes there are major financial repercussions to consider and yes accepting change will be hard but you will eventually learn to adapt. When you divorce you have to make sacrifices sometimes. She doesn't want to change and she isn't going to. She doesn't deserve you. Save the heartache and the headaches. I wish you the best and I truly do hope you make the best decision for you!
2016-05-24 04:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful and do not get caught.... Why is she deceiving him like this... This is scary and two wrongs do not make a right. Are you sure she is telling you the truth about him? If i were you i would not want to be involved anymore and i would let them work out their own problems... You really do not need this in your life as this is really not your problem and you dont need to get hurt or involved here.... They both sound like trouble and they may both be deceiving and playing you... BE CAREFUL!!!!
2007-01-24 05:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't exactly get your question. My opinion, probably not what you want to hear, Y are you playing him? You do know what comes around goes around; what seems as lack of class to me on your part (taking money from this man) spending time with someone who obviously has no morals, cares or concerns for his own family makes you look like an extremely materialistic person to me. If thats what you want, its your life!
2007-01-24 05:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's to much drama for you to be involved in... let the guy keep his money, and tell him to spend ten mins with his kids, in his mind the two of you have a realationship, it won't end until you end it
2007-01-24 05:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be afraid! Stay far away from this man. Sounds like a psycho!!
2007-01-24 05:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run away as fast as you can.And try to grow up a little.
2007-01-24 05:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you keep on playing the s.o.b. his wife needs to leave him, fast.
2007-01-24 05:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who was playing who?
2007-01-24 05:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋