my ex bf I havent talked to in a few months because i thought he was cheating on me when we were together so we had trust issues and broke up even though he said and still claims to his friends he didnt do anything. Im still in love with him and its been a couple months since our break up he text me to see how i am doing saying hes not sure why he did and that he was just thinking of me...is there any chance of things working out again? and what can I do on my part?
2007-01-24 05:09:43 · 7 answers · asked by Becky B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One text message in "a few months". He's moved on. At best you can look forward to is being friends, and that is a "maybe". Don't get your hopes up.
2007-01-24 05:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by c.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you decide to try and work it out you need to make a conscious choice to trust him. Don't waste your time "wondering" if he did cheat or will, it's out of your hands anyway. Put all you effort into this relationship if you decide to try it, and if he's a dog you'll find out soon enough.
I think just as many relationships are ruined on people basing there lack or trust on past experiences.
If that doesn't work...."How you doin'?!?!?" LOL!!
2007-01-24 13:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say forget him and keep it moving since you have moved on. See trust is hard thing to reestablish once it's gone. u sually when you have supcions you have them for a reason....I dont know a lot of woman that act carzy for no reason at all....My advice find a brand new boyfriend & have fun!
2007-01-24 13:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should both go to couples' therapy, that might help if you really want to get back together and talk about things on neutral ground.
2007-01-24 13:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give each other a chance. Just do it with an open mind, love isnt easy to find
2007-01-24 13:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely give it another chance. If he's willing to get back together then try it
2007-01-24 13:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him sorry if if you weren't wrong and ask can you guy's fix it
2007-01-24 13:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋