Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

i am still one and want to wait till college. but i was wondering if i guy wont like me for that reason? is that a turnoff?

2007-01-23 02:27:50 · 27 answers · asked by beach girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date a girl that is 7 years older then you if you are 29 and getting to the point where you are more interested in a relationship then just another fling?
This girl is still totally hot and if you had to guess her age you would probably guess she was more around 30 and not 36. I'm also thinking BONUS on the experience stand point. Less whining and crying to deal with then dating a younger girl which is my norm!
The reason I ask is because if a relationship is the outcome then when I am 35 she will be 41 and so on. Would that bother anyone?
So what say you my fellow men of men?

2007-01-23 02:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Adam F 2 in Singles & Dating

to a girl that's in a relationship?

2007-01-23 02:27:18 · 5 answers · asked by inloved with you 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent seen my Boyfriend in like three and a half weeks. and I think that i am starting to get desperate cuz i dont know why but i was hitting on this guy that i dont even like and afterwards i felt so dumb and didnt even know why i did that. But I need something I just cant take it anymore I am soo desperate Yeah I kno its cheesy but i am. What can I do to satisfy my need.

2007-01-23 02:26:48 · 18 answers · asked by Sexy Blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 02:26:48 · 10 answers · asked by My baby love. 1 in Family

Why is it so hard to leave you boyfriend when he treats you bad and call you names but you still love him? How can i excape?? Please HELP!!!!!

2007-01-23 02:25:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i pay for my sons insurance which i got the best plan available thru my job and he and his mom both pretty much stay with me and we're also common law married

2007-01-23 02:25:32 · 8 answers · asked by roberto 1 in Family

Where can I find a card for my boyfriend? Its our first anniversay and tho we r not married, I wondered if there was anyone that knew where I could get an anniversary to my boyfriend card? And wot do you think I should get him thats nt too expensive? Help! Thanks xx

2007-01-23 02:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recieved a letter from the Department of Child Support for the State of Tennessee. My ex wife contacted them in an effort to get them to start taking child support straight out of my check. Here's the kicker: I am laid off right now and really don't have much income other than lay off insurance. I have tried to work with her by paying half of the normal amount and then watching my daughter when she gets off school thus eliminating the need for a child sitter. I am really trying to do the right thing here.

I am not behind on ANY PAYMENTS at all. I figured to do something like this and get the government involved, that there would have to at least be some negligence on my part. I am a good father and I love my daughter. I have helped her mom in a lot of ways that I could have refused and then she did this to me.

Do I not have SOME say so on this issue?

If so, then how can I guard against this in the future?

What can I expect to happen next?

Please Help, James

2007-01-23 02:23:53 · 19 answers · asked by lackej1971 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the REAL reason why men look at porn. Is it because their needs are not being met by their wife? I doubt it. Some women are eager to have sex with their husbands, but they would rather watch porn. Further, men that watch porn often are having their needs met by their wife and often watch with their wife.

So, what is the need to watch pornography?
I believe the need to watch porn is not because a wife is not fulfilling a need, the need spurns from the desire to be with other people. It's an alternative to having intercourse with other women. Men that watch porn want to have sex with other women other than their wife. Period. Then why watch? I am curious-- do men that cheat on their wives watch porn as well? Probably not because their is no need for porn if you are screwing two women at the same time.
I know I'll catch a lot of flak on this one. I'm man enough to admit to my wife, I wanna have sex with other women. But at least I don't hide behind porn and justify watching.

2007-01-23 02:23:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i have this boy of my dreams and he treats me like a queen. He said that he will always be there for whenever i need him no matter what. He really loves me and i love him to and it seems like we're made for each other. Is God trying to tell us something!!

2007-01-23 02:23:25 · 12 answers · asked by starkiedra m 2 in Friends

2007-01-23 02:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by towaltz 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have had our share of problems , we've been together for close to 5 years and we have 4 wonderful kids together should i take the risk on getting married when we still have problems?

2007-01-23 02:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen in many cases where the woman dies first, her husband suffers a lot soon after and finally faces a pathetic end. But it is not so bad in the case of a woman who survives manages her last days after the death of her husband. What could be the real reason for this strange phinominon.

2007-01-23 02:22:20 · 8 answers · asked by Marks 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is dominance and subservience the main difference between the sexes. (besides the obvious plumbing)

Which role do you play with the opposite sex "dominent" or "subservient" ?

Does the opposite sex like the way you play your role?

Do they get off on it, admire you for it and pay you complements or do they bust you about it and say "hey you're a wuss, be a man or "your being butch, be a woman! "

note: for the purpose of this question: i am asserting that we play these roles and we are not fixed immutable types but rather just playing with "ways of being" to navigate our way into a sexual world that works for us.

2007-01-23 02:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is addicted to online video games, he spends 6-7 hours a day playing and more than that on his days off of work. I've erased all the games off of his hard-drive and threw away all of his game cd's already. Now he is going online and downloading this game called Project Visitor. Every day I erase it and everyday he just puts it back on his computer. Is there a way to put a block on his computer so that he is unable to download the game at all? Or better yet, we are on the same network.....Is there a way to send a virus to his computer without affecting my computer? This is my last drastic attempt to save what little of a relationship we have....

2007-01-23 02:21:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i"ve known this guy for years and he's never been appealing or attractive to me. Just recently we start hanging out and now he's all I can think about. I'm afraid if it gets serious then a few months down the line I won't like him again. He's a sweetheart and I don't want to hurt him. Please help!

2007-01-23 02:21:17 · 7 answers · asked by Littlemissy 1 in Singles & Dating

and what if the last relationship I was in I got hurt so now I am scred to be in another on because I scared of getting hurt again and mabye evean worse

2007-01-23 02:20:50 · 6 answers · asked by DJ_Easy_4you 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wedding is going to be in Spain but we are going to live in New Zealand. Is is rude to remind people of that fact and ask them to take it into consideration when getting us a present? I don´t want to seem rude but if more than 70 people gives us something I don´t know what we could do to send them all over...

2007-01-23 02:19:18 · 7 answers · asked by aroundtheworld 2 in Weddings

When I woke up in the morning, we were naked in her bed...I cant remember anything, what do I do now?

2007-01-23 02:19:11 · 17 answers · asked by Turc 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex is being a complete a** . a few people came and told me that he was cheating on me and it really hurt so i dumped him agian and know some more people keeep telling me that he still likes me but im not sure if i still feel the same about you. anyway if i did should i get back with him? in severe trouble. please help.

2007-01-23 02:19:09 · 22 answers · asked by Perfection 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy I like has a birthday coming up. What should I get him? He doesn't know I like him though. He likes Xbox, football, and guitar. Thanks. He will be turning 15.

2007-01-23 02:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by layna 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 31, single, professional and I really, really don't want to have kids. Everybody, but everybody says that I will change my mind, but that I mustn't do it too late.

The thought of having a baby in the next 5 years is like a death sentence. That means I have only 5 years to meet my travelling, career, personal and financial goals. Then its 20 years of looking after someone elses life instead of living my own.

'They' say that it is irresponsible to have babies after 35 (birth defects, fertility problems), but un-thinkable to get ones tubes tied if you haven't had kids.

'They' also say that I will love my child and will never regret having it and will never miss losing out on my career, travel, sleeping in etc.

How do I make this decision? Is it really now or never?

2007-01-23 02:18:07 · 24 answers · asked by SmartBlonde 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

coz majority women at present receive matrimony are pregnant

2007-01-23 02:18:05 · 15 answers · asked by maning 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw this new boy in fourth grade. I am still in love with him 5 years later. I am beginning to believe he is my true love. How do you feel about love at first sight?

2007-01-23 02:17:40 · 19 answers · asked by Hoopz C 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to understand wheather women really enjoy sex with their spouses and if so do they really look forward to it. Sex is an integral part of a marraige and usally it hapens that the sex drive is imbalanced between the partners and thus strains the relationship on the long run.. as is the case with my relationship. Particularly in places like India where sex education is not considered important ... and girls are married off not knowing what to expect in sex.. things get a bit sticky and incompatibility might set in if the male / female dont derive sexual pleasure from their spouse. Would like you to post your feedback and experience on this and pls be frank.

2007-01-23 02:17:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My attraction for one guy just keeps growing immensely. He is single, handsome and nice and I sense that some other girls are into him as well. But he gives us the same amount of attention it seems and that infuriates me. When me and him talk though, he comes up to me really close and frequently playfully touches me. I see him very often and we are involved in a number of projects. I am on the verge of telling him how I feel, but though I am cute I suffer from a low self-esteem, so I am just afraid it would look silly and embarrasing. Those other girls probably aren't that pretty, but they are much more confident, I sense they could snatch them from me. Ohhh, it's just so painful and I can't keep away from him, cause now he is a part of my life, but this ambiguity and false hopes just drive me crazy and make me sad!

2007-01-23 02:16:56 · 5 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 02:16:49 · 4 answers · asked by TONY Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 02:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by persian gal 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 02:16:15 · 18 answers · asked by xoxo 1 in Marriage & Divorce