is dominance and subservience the main difference between the sexes. (besides the obvious plumbing)
Which role do you play with the opposite sex "dominent" or "subservient" ?
Does the opposite sex like the way you play your role?
Do they get off on it, admire you for it and pay you complements or do they bust you about it and say "hey you're a wuss, be a man or "your being butch, be a woman! "
note: for the purpose of this question: i am asserting that we play these roles and we are not fixed immutable types but rather just playing with "ways of being" to navigate our way into a sexual world that works for us.
2007-01-23 02:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure if I would call this "dominant" and/ or "subservient". I mean, there is always a top and a bottom as with most things in life....you have an ebb and flow....cause and effect.....
I do not believe that dominance and subservitude are gender specific.
I play both roles...I think its always fun to have a great repertoire of what I can bring to the table....or to the bedroom for that matter.
Yes, the opposite sex loves everything I do...I'm a minx!! lol
I think a man likes a woman to be both....there are times where I totally need to be dominated and made to feel subservient and I play that well....this is all in effort to bring him the highest pleasure imaginable. When I want to be dominant, I do so...but its always feminine. I'm never working him over and he looks up and thinks he's in a scene from "Brokeback Mountain"!!
I do whatever I am feeling ultimately to please him.
2007-01-23 02:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is most certainly not the main difference between sexes. I know plenty of men who play a subservient role within their relationship. We are no longer in the 1950's where the woman's place is to be barefoot and pregnant. And if you are referring to sexual preference then do a little exploring in the world of BDSM, and you'll see that there is probably an equal amount of dominitrix (female dominants) as male doms.
2007-01-23 10:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you need to be both in any relationship, gay or straight. Sometimes you got crack the whip and other times you have to bend over and take your punishment.
Repetition becomes boring.
Secretly I like to be in control, but of course sometimes I will let him think he is leading.
He likes it, he is still here after all.
2007-01-23 10:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say settle in to the role that suits you best and gains you the results you want, but is that you or just a role?
2007-01-23 18:33:04 · answer #4 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can go either way and they'll like it. (smirk) The main difference between the sexes, besides the "plumbing," is that one has longer hair and bigger breasts.
2007-01-23 13:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the role we play is entirely based upon the mood at the moment....sometimes dom....sometimes sub.....all depends....we each enjoy the variety.....and are wonderful play partners regardless of the role we are playing.....
2007-01-23 10:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am subserviant, the way a woman should be! Yes i know it doesn't bode well with feminism, but oh well!
2007-01-23 10:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Pardonne Moi? 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey Low Road! Are we talking about our brother today???
2007-01-23 15:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there's a special area here for the gay questions...
2007-01-23 10:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by male4girlz 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
*taking my whip out*
2007-01-23 16:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by lowroad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋