my ex is being a complete a** . a few people came and told me that he was cheating on me and it really hurt so i dumped him agian and know some more people keeep telling me that he still likes me but im not sure if i still feel the same about you. anyway if i did should i get back with him? in severe trouble. please help.
2007-01-23 02:19:09 · 22 answers · asked by Perfection 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, To be quite honest you have to look at the source of the ones that are telling you he is doing this.Do they even like him at all? Is it possible that they are the same people telling you that he is no good? You cant go through life always counting on others to give you your truths.The best way to solve this is to ask yourself the real truth.You know him better than anyone.So,Is it likely that he is? Has he done it before to you and you know it to be true? If so and that's not the kind of man you want to be with, spending the rest of your time together in doubt that he is being faithful.So, Ask your self the cold hard truth, then live by your decision and don't look back.You only get one life and there are plenty of hopefuls in the world that you can and will trust if given the chance.Because if he has been un faithful before its likely he will again.Going in life with the same situation and expecting a different result is almost always a waste of time.
Good luck!
2007-01-23 02:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped him again? And you want to know if you should get back with him?
You should wear a sign that says "Feel free to walk all over me because I am a complete dum@ss".
2007-01-23 10:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by opjames 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have time to go back with someone who cheated on you and you are to good for him. He messed up the first time if her really like u then her would not been playing with your head!!
2007-01-23 10:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty is great!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you take him back then you are telling him that his behavior is acceptable. If you truly believe that you deserve and can do better, then go for it! Find yourself a real man and not some little boy who thinks he can play these games with you.
2007-01-23 10:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ana M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, sounds like he likes hurting you all the time for sure. Perhaps you should look around for a stronger man that will treat you with more respect and dignity.
2007-01-23 10:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Comanchero 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And so it goes........ he will definetely do it again especially if u go back to him u are simply enforcing a negative behaviour.
My dear lady get yourself a person who will love and cherish you and respect you for the woman u are.
Dont u jast need that?
2007-01-23 10:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all boils down to whether you can forgive.....and forget. It also boils down to trust. Do you really want to play that game? I mean you already put your trust in him once, if you do it again, will it also end in sorrow and pain? These are the questions that you need to be asking yourself. It really isn't whether he still likes you, it is about whether or not he can stay faithful.
2007-01-23 10:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by stacy a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are girls so stupid?
If he cheated on you once he will do it again.
But hye, if you are the type of person that needs a lot of drama in thier life, go for it.
2007-01-23 10:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jon S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no trouble here...just break up with him and end it. This guy is not going to respect you, so please respect yourself enough to cut it off with him. I don't know what he is doing, but cheating is dishonest and not part of a healthy relationship.
You deserve much much better!
2007-01-23 10:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, put him in the past you deserve better. If he liked you that much he would not have cheated on you to begin with!!
Find someone who deserves you and will not cheat on you.
2007-01-23 10:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋