Why is it so hard??

Question

Why is it so hard to leave you boyfriend when he treats you bad and call you names but you still love him? How can i excape?? Please HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

It can be difficult but one thing you have to do is lovey yourself more than you love him. I know it sounds hokey, but trust me, there are better men out there, and much better days ahead.

If he really loved you the way you deserve he would not treat you badly or call you names. Someone out there is waiting to treat you right. Good luck.

Answer 2

I have been through an abusive relationshiip, and I know that it is very hard. This may not be the best thing to do, but I found a person who treated me like a princess. That is what helped me get away from the abusive relationship. You have to realize that you are a great person who does not deserve to be treated badly. Find strength in yourself or someone else that wil allow you to leave your boyfriend.

ALSO- he will probably cry. Be prepared to think you are breaking his heart...but do it anyway! If he really loved you, he would treat you better!

Answer 3

gurl u know and i know that u deserve way better than that. And I'm very disappointed in u 4 being with him still. there are so many boys out there that can make u feel way better than what u feel now. You may think u love him, but u should know 4 a fact by now that he doesn't, respect or care 4 u. u shouldn't be wasting your time on someone that is taking u as a joke. If u keep letting him step over u as if u are garbage, you'll never know who's out there to rescue u from that long gone relationship that u are in.

Answer 4

I know what you mean. Went through the same myself. The thing you need to ask yourself is, is all that pain and sadness worth it? Do you want to be happy? If you have children, think of them too. Would you want your children to see you that sad or hurt all the time? I know it will feel like you are dying inside but in the long run you feel a hell of a lot better. One last piece of advice, Pray. God knows what He is doing and He will never let you fall.

Answer 5

Take a deep breath, realize it is for the best, and walk away. Do not stay in a relationship where someone doesn't treat you right. There are way too many men out there who will.

Answer 6

I would think you could not get away fast enough.
I read that people who stay in abusive relationships feel derserving of that kind of abuse.
Break the cycle find yourself a nice you man who treats you
the way you deserve to be treated.
No one deserves abuse

Answer 7

Its hard to break up with him because your in love and its hard to break love no matter what.But to escape tell him that your tied of him callin u names and tied of him treatin u bad.Then say that u feel that yall need to stop seeing each other for a while........and eventually yall will get back together by him apologizing.

Answer 8

Well... U need to stop feeling as if you need someone to help make you feel better. Dont depend on others more than you depend on yourself emotionally. It's up to you say enough is enough, and you're tired of feeling this way.

Answer 9

thats true love. you cant escape but the best thing is to talk it out with him and if he doesnt understand then leave him. youre doing the damage to yourself. later you will look back and know you did the right thing.

Answer 10

He has beaten you down to the point where you are too insecure and weak to leave him. That's what abusers do.
You need to get out, before it's too late.