My attraction for one guy just keeps growing immensely. He is single, handsome and nice and I sense that some other girls are into him as well. But he gives us the same amount of attention it seems and that infuriates me. When me and him talk though, he comes up to me really close and frequently playfully touches me. I see him very often and we are involved in a number of projects. I am on the verge of telling him how I feel, but though I am cute I suffer from a low self-esteem, so I am just afraid it would look silly and embarrasing. Those other girls probably aren't that pretty, but they are much more confident, I sense they could snatch them from me. Ohhh, it's just so painful and I can't keep away from him, cause now he is a part of my life, but this ambiguity and false hopes just drive me crazy and make me sad!
2007-01-23 02:16:56 · 5 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off guys will be guys,have u seen him around any other women,and does he act the same way?guys are usually hard to settle down,maybe hes waiting for you to tell him how you feel,maybe he feels the same way but he is waiting for you to say it first because he could think you dont feel the same.just dont go to far with it,because in the end it might have been better to have a good friend then a good partner
2007-01-23 02:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by cancer4228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
i'm sorry a woman once did this to me
I call it 'keeping your options open'
he wants to see who will compete for whom
you know he is single, and hot
and here are these other girls, just like you
he wants to see you compete with these girls
and this will decide who will win his heart
so,
if u dont want to get hurt then dont play that game
dont let him touch u either
because if not he'll just keep going being nice
but at the same time - allowing the others to feel the same way
if your ready for pain, then yes compete, tell him how u feel
good chance the guy is also a player
he might pick you then go with another girl x time/days/months later.
2007-01-23 02:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty he doesnt sound into you. If he'd been into you and you'd spent so much time together with you obviously giving out playful, flirty signals then he would have made a move on you by now. Maybe he juts wants to begood friends with you.
Or maybe I'm completely wrong and he's just as shy as you. Try sending flirty signals out a little more strongly and see what his reaction is. Or try spending more time with him alone and see what happenss.
Either way, I wish you all the best
2007-01-23 02:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Yes, it could be embarrassing, but its not good to keep you emotions bottled up. Know that if he turns you down, that since you're "cute" another guy will be willing to love you.
2007-01-23 02:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bravo! you've identified your problem of low self esteem therefore it is half solved. don't let this surmountable problem rob you of your happiness. brace up and tell this guy how you feel about him and you may be surprised that that's the ginger he's been waiting for. please follow your heart and summon up courage to talk to him, the earlier you do this the better.
goodluck
2007-01-23 02:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by stubbornhair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋