Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

what if you're a christian??

2007-01-22 08:42:56 · 13 answers · asked by Elie 2 in Weddings

When I was 14 I had a miscaraige. I know that having sex so young wasn't the best decision that I have made along with some other stupid ones. I'm 18 now and whenever I think of it I get so sad and start to cry. I was only 2 months along but it kills me that I had someone that was a part of me, that was inside of me dead. Is it okay that I still feel so sad about it?

2007-01-22 08:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 08:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by Kaleleonalani 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 08:42:28 · 3 answers · asked by [blahh] ™ 5 in Singles & Dating

I am a school teacher who is 33 and single and I have this friend Laura who who is the art teacher and she is 22 and going through her masters program right now and she asked me to pose nude for a sn assignment for one of her classes. I am afraid it may have affected our friendship now. She is a beautiful brunette but I think I saw an evil side of her when she was drawing me naked. I went to her house and got naked in her room that was a studio and when she walked in she started laughing hysterically and put her thumb and index finger about an inch apart. (what does that mean ladies?) and then throughout she kept giggling as I sat on the stool nude. I eventually got an an erection and then she laughed more asking me if it was 3 inches? (its bigger 3.5) She said I looked like a Macaca (monkey) with a little brown french fry. I am East Indian. Why do whites keep ridiculing us Indians? Should I end the friendship?

2007-01-22 08:42:19 · 47 answers · asked by edmixon101 1 in Friends

Ok short version: I have been "dating" this guy for about 3 years now and we have been going through this on again off again cycle and i seriously want to get off this merry-go-round and stay in our relationship. Now he has feelings for me, I know but he isnt the expressive type. (at least not to me anyways) Now I respect him and his feelings but he is starting to give me the cold shoulder and I dont know why. What should I do? I dont want to lose him. I am not desperate but i really am at my wits end! Please anyone who is in this possition or has ever been in the position please help!

Thank you

2007-01-22 08:42:09 · 13 answers · asked by gossip_gurl_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

i fall in love with a girl and everything was goin fine than suddenly she told me that she dont love me now but she can be my friend what i shoud do now

2007-01-22 08:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by icebakes 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 08:41:45 · 5 answers · asked by mary allen 1 in Singles & Dating

and she doesn't want me to buy her a gift for valentines day. Does she mean it.

2007-01-22 08:41:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What were the ramifications? Did your significant other find out?

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2007-01-22 08:41:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 08:41:15 · 26 answers · asked by james c 1 in Singles & Dating

we have tried to get back together but everytime we do he says im more serious than he is and he needs to take a step back to think things thru because hes not sure im the one yet, he needs to date more etc.....this has been going on for over a yr. i want him to just leave me alone because it hurts me everytime he texts me....but at the same time i wish he'd just make up his mind! he is 28 and iam 22....what is his deal? ps he does say he loves me etc but hes just "confused"!

2007-01-22 08:40:52 · 3 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Singles & Dating

last night i had a dream in which i was still with my ex, but when i got home( in the dream) i couldnt get her on the phone and she wasnt at her friends or familys places. In the dream i realised she was cheating on me and it hurt like hell. In the dream, there was also a fireplace in the bedroom which was burning. I was trying to figure a way to put it out or at least make it safe so it didnt set the place alight. I cant remeber much alse of the dream but i woke feeling very down and depressed. She did cheat on my at least once in real life but i forgave her. Thing was in the dream it hurt even more than real life. Can anyone explain dreams like this, and why the hell im dreaming of my ex after more than a year apart. I havnt even thought of her lately.

2007-01-22 08:40:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm over her but.. now I'm sad that i am.... What the hell. How do i stop being sad. and i think if i date someone else I'm going to be sad that i am taken so she can't be with me. Is this real love? Today in the hallway she said "hi" and i almost melted but i didn't reply right away.

2007-01-22 08:40:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex wife causes my kids grief when they come 2 see me they r adults oldest 23 youngest 19 so they dont come to see me ex did the cheating been divorced 6years still get mega grief just want quite life enjoy time with my kids

2007-01-22 08:40:20 · 17 answers · asked by MARTYN 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I asked my boyfriend of 6 months if there was anything about my body he didn't like. He said no. Then when I asked him if he thought I could fix anything about the way I look he said my *** could use a little work, but he still liked it. When I asked him what he meant, he said that maybe it was a little big.

Was it wrong for me to get upset by what he said?

2007-01-22 08:40:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my one friend(friend #1) thinks that my other friend(friend #2) wants to be BFFs with this snotty popular girl but she doesn't! So know friend #1 is really mad at friend #2! I'm not mad at friend #2 cause that seems like a dumb reason to break a friendship up to me! So know friend #1 is mad at ME cause I'm not on her "side"!!!! What should i do i really need help cause i don't want to stop being friends with either of them!!!

2007-01-22 08:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Friends

we live in new york state and my husband says owning a house will get you a better tax break.i say a child and claiming head of household will give more of a tax break.we both make together around 150k a yr.the house we would buy would be around 300k with 20% down.now before i get any anger answers we do not plan on having a child just for tax reasons we are not planning to have any.this is just a argument my husband and i had and i think i'm right and he thinks hes right.

2007-01-22 08:39:21 · 1 answers · asked by mary6ferrnis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 08:39:06 · 33 answers · asked by topchick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you couldn't go with her watching, why not?

2007-01-22 08:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just happen to see a posting from an ex complaining that her current beau is a gamer. It interferes with the sex. When she and I were together, I was the one suffering. Can't even begin the long list of lies that she fed me in the brief time we were together. Just venting, but it seems most relationships I've been in the woman lies. About everything. Then they get defensive. Why?

2007-01-22 08:38:34 · 13 answers · asked by otis f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm on a tight bugdget. My fiance and I are getting married when I get out of college. (A few weeks later). He is in the Army so our income won't be that large. I want a small wedding with cheap flowers and cheap decor. Basically...I just want a happy day with having to goto the court house! HELP?

2007-01-22 08:38:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She had been looking for a job for ever and i finally got her my old job. My boss was my mentor and now that relationship is gone. She has taken over my life and it drives me crazy. She is attractive and gets treated differently so that also annoys me. She has an easy work schedule than i did, makes more mone than i was at the position. I really can't stand it. When i first started there was no training and that was really hard. I have fully trained her so she doesn't have to go through the stress i did. I don't know what to do please help!!

2007-01-22 08:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by Berian C 1 in Friends

I'm in my 30s and I realized today that I no longer 'take the time' for myself that I used to. I work from home so I rarely leave the house so I seldom wear make up or do much with my hair. I'm wondering how many other women actually take the time to 'get ready' when they're staying home all day?

2007-01-22 08:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by razor_sharp_redhead 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently had an argument with my friend and stopped talking to him for over 2 months, and yesterday i started talking to him again and he kept saying something which didnt make sense to me, please can you share your ideas of what this may mean:

He kept saying that "a sequence of events has already begun which is out of his control, but he is doing his best to stop it, because if it happens, i will not like it"
and then i said that i didnt want to talk to him out of anger and he replied "when the sequence of events has reached its climax, thats the last thing you would want to do"

At first, i perceived this as some kind of a threat, but he is adamant that it wasnt a threat at all, and when i asked what he meant by it, all he'd say is "forget it, just remember that it wasnt a threat" - so what on earth could he have meant?

2007-01-22 08:37:48 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

I often dont show people how hurt I am. I simply smile back but I just cant tolerate it any longer...Plz help!

2007-01-22 08:37:23 · 18 answers · asked by iloveorange 1 in Friends

i like this girl. but i think she likes me back but the problem is that she has a boyfriend. one time she told me she was going to the movies and if she did go if i wanted to go. then she asked me if i can cheer her up because she had a arguement with her boyfriend wanted me 2 cheer her up. she said that i'm one of the very few people that she trusts. one day i asked her if she wanted me to pick her up from school and she said yeah. her friend told me that her boyfriend was a little mad and that she was really sad because she wanted to see me and didn't want 2 disappoint me then her friend told me that she was happy when she saw me. i asked her friend what kinds of qualities does she like in a boy and she told me he has 2 make her go awww, has 2 have a good sense of humor, and be a sweetheart. i've acted like that with her and she is always laughing when i say something and is always saying awww when i say something sweet. i like this girl and care for her a lot . what should i do ??

2007-01-22 08:37:09 · 8 answers · asked by Nitro_Bomb 1 in Singles & Dating

I am talking to a very shy guy...we've went out a few like 5 or 6 times but he's not ready to take things into a relationship...I've figured there's no reason to give up. But he kinda said I was going to be his date for a Valentines Dinner that's coming up. Does that mean this is actually going somewhere?

2007-01-22 08:37:09 · 17 answers · asked by forever_his 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 9th grader in high school and I like this girl alot. She is in 11th grade and is dating somone else. She is my friend but I dont like watching her with someone else. What can I do?

2007-01-22 08:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by USA IS NUMBER ONE 1 in Singles & Dating

how many of you have gotten back with any of your ex's. i have dated 3 guys and got back with two of them on more then one occasion. but my most recent ex, we were on and off from the summer and i loved him..but why would make you date one of your ex's again or what did make you date one of you ex's again?

2007-01-22 08:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by little lizzy lou lemon 2 in Singles & Dating