Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

i have told her but she doesnt seem to understand how much i like him she just seems intrested in if he looks at her or not but i no for a fact he likes me better than her!!

2007-01-22 08:25:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Two years ago my husband had a sexual encounter with a co worker. Four months later she told him she was pregnant with his baby. On his desperation he recognized the baby as his without taking a peternity test. Now two years later (the baby is one yers old) I just found out. The thing isI have three kids, the younger is just 20 days old and Im devastaded. My husband is a mess, he has asked for my forgiveness and confronted all our family, even my parents. Everyone is in shock because my husband character is not of a cheater. He says he had way too much alcohol that night. Im mad, frustrated and dont know what to do. Please help!!

2007-01-22 08:24:28 · 19 answers · asked by chola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking that I should probably not serve any alcohol at my reception because I and many of my guests have not reached the age of twenty-one. I don't want to open myself, my fiance, or my family up for a lawsuit. Would this be a disapointment to any of you?

2007-01-22 08:24:00 · 19 answers · asked by orangeflameninja 4 in Weddings

I don't get it, after 4 years, arguing over things that aren't even real. Assumptions. I don't get it. Does this mean he's the one doing what he assumes I am? I'm clueless. He's tripping on his own lies. I'm freaking on them. Being the significant other of a compulsive liar is very hard. I will not let him bring ME down for his made up fanasies. I'm NOT a cheat, I'm NOT the liar, and he's got it good whether he wants to believe it or not. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, I don't go to bars, I am a stay at home mom, I have NO friends cause of HIM (gets jealous if I go visti them), and I was happy to just spend his free time with him...perhaps he's bored of me. Needs to make stuff up to get a rise outta me? we get a long so well...why start this false crazy nonsense? I feel betrayed...I've been so faithful and true. I'm hurt. His ex stole his family from us both. To get them back for himself, he'll have to make me the "bad guy" so he can befriend his exwife again. I'm sickened. Why now?

2007-01-22 08:23:21 · 12 answers · asked by luv2bake 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My son-in-law of 6 yrs is an arrogant, self-centered person who I don't care for and neither does most of the members of my family. He looks down at us and has never cared for us either. I'm sure he would love it if we just all disappeared and he had my daughter to himself. It's difficult when we have family get togethers because I'm always tense and can't enjoy myself when he's around. I can't say anything negative about him to my daughter because I don't want to loose her and my grandchildren because she accepts his ways and usually blames the problems on me. We live in the same town, 2 miles apart. I've tried my best to keep the peace but it's not working. Anybody in a similar situation or was in one that found an answer to make it better?? I could care less if I never see him again but I don't want to loose my daughter and grandchildren.

2007-01-22 08:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really don't intend to ever get married again and I certainly don't want a second chance with this one. I've been living alone for over 3 years and love my freedom so much. As long as I'm still legally married, I can't get married again...and that's my reason. My wife has mentioned divorced a couple of times and I told her that if she wants one, to go ahead and file and I will not contest it. But she still hasn't made the move. I really don't care

Some of my female friends tell me I'm crazy for this and are always telling me to get the divorce so they can "set me up" with their friends. I have no desire to date and have no problem growing old alone. Why can't some women understand that I'm truly happy being alone and single?

2007-01-22 08:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you lose your virginity through cybersex?

2007-01-22 08:22:17 · 25 answers · asked by What's it to you 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm honestly curious, because i love to do it for my boyfriend, but it seems to me like guys wouldnt enjoy it, but, yet, you do! Why is it?

2007-01-22 08:21:56 · 23 answers · asked by Miss S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am oing out with this guy,William.And,my ex sent me an email saying "Why William?" I am 12 years old,and what does this mean that he sent that? Thanks!

2007-01-22 08:21:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 08:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by ASclown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my bf & i have been dating for about a year now. we used to be so close and now....we not as close as we used to be. his best friend is always around him and his best friend don't like me. i think he's telling my bf not to be around me cuz the other day he said that my bf ain't going to sit with me at lunch cuz he's going to be sitting with his friends. i'm sooooo confused!!! idk if he still loves me or not!!!

2007-01-22 08:21:26 · 8 answers · asked by *hedgeツ♥ i<3mlm* 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

in the last three years.in bristol ,england or surrounding areas

2007-01-22 08:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, like my question asked... Is there really a perfect guy out there? And to me a perfect guy will call me just to hear my voice, and someone who misses me after not seeing me for 3 minutes, and loves my family and they love him, and is great with kids, and cooks great, and gets me stuff just because he saw something that reminded him of me, and someone I can talk to and get an honest answer, and who gives me a promise ring and says we r gonna be together forever, and who goes everywhere I go just to be near me, and who smiles everytime they think about me... is this guy real? how do i find him?

2007-01-22 08:21:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 08:20:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yersterday i spen all day at a beauty spa and i came home and my gf said i looked like i just spent a day in heaven.
and i told her and was like " omg thats so sweet ! i had no idea you were that you were so into that kinda stuff " and then she starts saying that im a marshmellow.

whats wrong with a guy who workd out plays alot of football goes surfing plays street basketball and gets his hair and nails done ??
its not my fault i want to look and feel good how does that make me a marshmellow ?
i feel like getting a manicure is a manlyish thing to do.
in a wierd kind of way...

2007-01-22 08:19:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was looking and everything promises a lot for the money but when i search I don't seem to find anyone who sounds compatible. I just hit 50 and don't want to waste time with a lot of different people who are just not of interest. Just want to find a friend first and go from there. HELP!!!!

2007-01-22 08:19:30 · 3 answers · asked by happy2binsc 1 in Singles & Dating

im in 7th grade if that helps

2007-01-22 08:18:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honesty
trust
love kindness

2007-01-22 08:18:37 · 7 answers · asked by caprice s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 08:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by SARA R 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy Ive started dating/seeing says...... I like you, you are like one of the guys.

2007-01-22 08:17:40 · 23 answers · asked by somewoman 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up 4 months ago but we stayed friends.I still like her a lot and I felt that I screwed up which led to the break up. About a month later she starts liking one of her guy friend that lived in alabama. She met him during her summer vacation while I was going out with her but she stayed in touch with him. About a month later she apparently "fell in love" with this guy bc this guy said all this **** saying "I love you" or "I always want to be with you." So this guy asks her out for a long distance relationship and she said yes but a day or two later this guy finds another grl to go out with. My ex was totally heartbroken, I never seen her like this before. So I'm there comforting her and make things better for her. She felt bad talking to me because she knew my feelings about her. She told me that she doesn't want to lose me. I want to give a relationship another shot but I don't know if she considers me as a friend or thinks of as more as a friend. What should I do?

2007-01-22 08:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by azndragon72487 1 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas?

2007-01-22 08:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents let my 25 almost 26 year old brother live at home rent free. He never has had a real job, and my mom does all of his laundry and things like that. Every pay check that he does receive, he spends on electronics and other things that he wants. I have confronted my parents on this in the past, and they always just shrug whatever I say off. They say they are letting him decide what he wants to do with his life. He is a musician (not a bad one but professional level) and expects stuff to just fall at his feet. He doesn't want to start at the bottom and work his way up. He wants to go ahead and start at the top. My worry is that he lives with my parents forever and then when they pass away, I will have to kick him out into the street on his own because I am definitely not going to care for him. Any suggestions or similar experiences?

2007-01-22 08:15:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im a guy and need to pay more attention to these things because all my friends say things like she likes you and I have no clue

2007-01-22 08:14:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Anyone have any ideas for a honeymoon? Something different, like a cabin with a county view. A lake would be nice too. I'm tired of the bahama's honeymoon ideas. I want something more laid back!!

2007-01-22 08:14:01 · 15 answers · asked by jeremiahs gal 1 in Weddings

2007-01-22 08:13:56 · 33 answers · asked by Luke T 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel hurt, desperate, calm, positive, negative, and even sorry for him. One day I think I should be firm with him and am full of self-respect. Then I feel sorry for his obvious struggle and think i should give him time, because these things are happening everywhere. Why destroy the home of our kids prematurely? But then again, i see the perverseness of tolerating his cheating as his wife. He says nothing would work in the long run if he would try to supress his current emotional chaos and fake the domestic peace. So he needs time.He wants to see a therapist to find out why this has happened to him. Shoud I wait?

2007-01-22 08:13:36 · 18 answers · asked by mary b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 08:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Whats Up? 1 in Singles & Dating

This is just general question. What are the signs that a man (not a teenager) is serious about a relationship, and not just looking for a casual thing? (Even if he tells you he's serious. No offense guys, but actions speak louder than words.)

2007-01-22 08:12:26 · 10 answers · asked by M K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 08:12:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating