My ex and I broke up 4 months ago but we stayed friends.I still like her a lot and I felt that I screwed up which led to the break up. About a month later she starts liking one of her guy friend that lived in alabama. She met him during her summer vacation while I was going out with her but she stayed in touch with him. About a month later she apparently "fell in love" with this guy bc this guy said all this **** saying "I love you" or "I always want to be with you." So this guy asks her out for a long distance relationship and she said yes but a day or two later this guy finds another grl to go out with. My ex was totally heartbroken, I never seen her like this before. So I'm there comforting her and make things better for her. She felt bad talking to me because she knew my feelings about her. She told me that she doesn't want to lose me. I want to give a relationship another shot but I don't know if she considers me as a friend or thinks of as more as a friend. What should I do?
2007-01-22 08:16:27 · 6 answers · asked by azndragon72487 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I should talk to her about this but I also don't want to kill our friendship because shes extremely important to me. She has told me that I was a good friend but that was during the time when she was "in love" with that guy. so yea any help is appreciated.
2007-01-22 08:23:40 · update #1
Continue to be there for her, let her know how you feel, but make sure to tell her that its all up to her but you want another chance. She's heartbroken now, so she needs time to heal, only share your feelings with her when you think she's ready to deal with a relationship between to two of you. She obviously values your friendship and you can try to build on that.
Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-22 08:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might still have feelings for you and may realize that you regret having done her wrong and are actually sorry. Sit down and talk to her about it and see where she goes with it. Obviously if she still can talk to you about matters such as those and you are willing to comfort her, she may give you a second shot. Just dont mess it up the second time around cuz then you may not even have her as a friend anymore and there won;t be a chance for you after. Remain strong...
2007-01-22 16:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Robert B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on comferting her and talk 2 her like you did be4 u guys went out. flirt with her and let her know that you still care about her and that u will always be there for her.then if things are still going well try 2 ask her out again.
2007-01-22 16:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by simply...me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point the choice is really hers. Tell her how you feel and see what happens.
2007-01-22 16:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by UT FAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being the good guy.
2007-01-22 16:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her how you feel and then tell her that at least she knows you and how you will act.
2007-01-22 16:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋