This is just general question. What are the signs that a man (not a teenager) is serious about a relationship, and not just looking for a casual thing? (Even if he tells you he's serious. No offense guys, but actions speak louder than words.)
2007-01-22 08:12:26 · 10 answers · asked by M K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, his actions, but what actions? Any telltale signs?
2007-01-22 08:15:59 · update #1
Does he want to do things to make you happy, not just to gratify himself? Has he put some thought into those things that would make you happy--in other words, has he bothered to get to know you well enough to realize what would make you happy? And he's DOING things to make you happy, not just SAYING things--big difference.
Do his dreams and goals include you? Are the actions he's taking to achieve those dreams and goals indicative that you are part of them? Again--he's DOING things to achieve goals that include you, not just SAYING you're part of his goals--big difference.
Does he tell you he loves you? I know many guys don't, but if you have one who does--and not just when he wants sex, or during an argument--then he probably means it. If he just pops around to say "I love you" once in a while--sends you a card or an e-card, or flowers, or leaves little notes on the table for you--he's probably serious.
There's more, I'm sure, but all of them require that you WATCH and LISTEN carefully. Use your head, not just your heart. I know that can be hard to do.
And...if you're serious...act like it. And tell him. Do all the things you'd want him to do.
2007-01-22 08:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I am well-groomed always. Hair cut, manicure, pedicure, on a regular basis. I've taken care of my teeth, and hence have a nice set of pearly whites - which I feel is part of being well-groomed. I do not hold a job, so a particular 'uniform' does not pertain to me. However, I always like to be taken seriously at doctor's appointments, business affairs, and other what not appointments. My style is classic tailored. But I soften the look so as not to put forth severity. I'll wear nice slacks or a skirt, a blazer, and a blouse in a pastel or unexpected color. Good shoes are a must, as is a handbag. Jewelery will be gold, but not overdone. I am most comfortable in this apparel. I feel confident; and, therefore, exude confidence. I am taken seriously.
2016-03-29 09:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its when you can tell that he wants to be with you and he tries his best to show you that weather he know he is or not. He shows you that he wants the comitment and wants to be with you. He is conciderate about how you feel and is always there for you no matter what even if he is having a day with the guys. Hes just there for you but no one can really how he is going to act and I think that you kno in your heart that you can tell if he is or isn't . . . its just up to you to know if you want to listen or not. Chose the right feeling that only you know in your heart. There are other guys if he isnt the one you were looking for. You just havent found him. Good Luck!!
2007-01-22 08:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by .em. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to take time before getting sex. A man who waits is serious, a man who doesn't usually isn't.
2007-01-22 08:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has deep meaningful conversation with you and is happy to discuss future dreams and goals that involve you.
2007-01-22 08:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'd say one major clue would be that hes not trying to get in your pants right away
2007-01-22 08:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by thumper26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him to do something which you know he want do even if his parents ask him to do if does it for you he is serious
2007-01-22 08:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by Kash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he answer all the future ideas what you have and often give you time to speak.
2007-01-22 08:17:36 · answer #8 · answered by lost my thing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think you can tell, they are all full of crap.....sorry guys!!!
2007-01-22 08:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by manson1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his actions...........that is it...his actions
2007-01-22 08:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋