I am a school teacher who is 33 and single and I have this friend Laura who who is the art teacher and she is 22 and going through her masters program right now and she asked me to pose nude for a sn assignment for one of her classes. I am afraid it may have affected our friendship now. She is a beautiful brunette but I think I saw an evil side of her when she was drawing me naked. I went to her house and got naked in her room that was a studio and when she walked in she started laughing hysterically and put her thumb and index finger about an inch apart. (what does that mean ladies?) and then throughout she kept giggling as I sat on the stool nude. I eventually got an an erection and then she laughed more asking me if it was 3 inches? (its bigger 3.5) She said I looked like a Macaca (monkey) with a little brown french fry. I am East Indian. Why do whites keep ridiculing us Indians? Should I end the friendship?
2007-01-22 08:42:19 · 47 answers · asked by edmixon101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think this woman is totally unprofessional and has no manners.
If she were a TRUE artist and really wanted to sketch a nude - then she would have behaved accordingly.
This women is obviously having a good laugh at your expense.
Don't engage in conversations with her anymore, but of course do show you haven't forgotten your manners at home. Greeting and being polite never hurt anyone.
Always be a gentleman and definitely don't pose nude for anyone ever again.
2007-01-22 08:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by fizzents 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this question a joke?
Ok well if not...then:
"Why do whites keep ridiculing us Indians?"
I don't think it's a race issue at all. Well personally I would not have done it, but since it is over, there is no use lamenting what has already happened... What's done is done. I think the friendship can perhaps be saved, if that's what you want... but maybe you should just give it some time for everything settle down so to speak? Also, if she was really laughing, well she is not a professional art student or a respectful friend, so I would "dump" her. That's just one girl's opinion! Good luck :)
2007-01-22 08:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by blondegirl2299888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After seeing a friend nude for the first time, a friendship is never going to be the same. Now, everytime she looks at you, she'll be reminded of that day you posed for her naked. It's not about whites ridiculing indians, I'm white & indian, and thats not true. If you have a small penis, it's not always about size it's about what you do with it. Maybe she was secretly hoping that you guys would beable to have a sexual incounter. If you wanted to remain her friend (a normal friend) you should have never posed for her nude.
2007-01-22 08:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not have posed for her. The thing is that you trusted this friend and its obvious that she disrepectpected your friendship, and you as a person. You tried to help her out, and who cares if she is going for her masters , she is still veery immature and has not grown up for her childish mocking ways, this is so messed up. You should talk toher and maybe end your friendship, unless you dont want too, but its up to you...or you could get back at her, and ask her out to eat or the movies anywhere, and just comment on how she shouldve worn something different because it doesnt look good on her, it makes her look a bit shubby....slight comments on appearance for girls, will bring down her self esteem and just giggle, give her a taste of her own medine.
2007-01-22 08:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by dream 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry dude, but that is a hilarious story! You probably gave her something to laugh about for a year!
Don't worry man... I think your friendship will be fine. If you can handle her jokes. I don't think it is a race problem.
The thumb and index finger thing, means that she thinks you are tiny.
Good luck! By the way, did you get to see the drawing? How did it look?
2007-01-22 08:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That was mean, you should make fun of her breast size. You really shouldn't have posed nude. Yes you should tell her that you didn't like what she said, and you may not be able to be friends. If she cares she will apologize, if not leave. White women live in the U.S and the average penis when erect is like 5-6 inches. She expects more from some men.
2007-01-22 08:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it was your choice now live with the consequences....the whole thumb and index finger about an inch apart means you are very small...not a turn on for most women. next time think about what you are doing or at least don't get completely naked wear a towel around your waist. as for ending the friendship...when you got naked ended it...she may have been interested before but she's definitely not now and she is telling everyone she meets.
2007-01-22 08:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by ?! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As long as you signed a waiver saying that she is to not use them for any other purpose than academic reasons. See if someone take a picture of you they own it and can do whatever they want with it as long as they don't profit from it. I.e post it on the Internet or whatever. However if there is a contract stating the intentions they can do whatever it says. As far as the friendship it's up to you. If you feel belittled by them that person isn't a friend. I think you should discuss it with her. You're both adults.
2007-01-22 08:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by steelhead3686 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She greatly disrespected you. As an art major she should be professional when doing nudes. It is not supposed to be about the size of anything, it is about the art and the challenge of drawing the human form. It is best to make the subjects comfortable and be none judging. I would tell her that she was very unprofessional and rude. Tell her how you feel and if anything else report her to her professor where she is studying.
2007-01-22 08:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by sweetbabyart212 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Posing naked with a 3 1/2" erection is always bad.. You should have probably thought the whole nudity / tiny penis thing through first.
Also, what happens if she sells the painting to an art gallery or it winds up on display in the louve or something? then millions of people will see you naked.
2007-01-22 08:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋