Ok my one friend(friend #1) thinks that my other friend(friend #2) wants to be BFFs with this snotty popular girl but she doesn't! So know friend #1 is really mad at friend #2! I'm not mad at friend #2 cause that seems like a dumb reason to break a friendship up to me! So know friend #1 is mad at ME cause I'm not on her "side"!!!! What should i do i really need help cause i don't want to stop being friends with either of them!!!
2007-01-22 08:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by Maddie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your other friend you do not like being put in the middle of the situation. You feel that friend #2 has a right to choose who she wants to be friends with just as you and friend #1 do. Tell her you did not make the decision for friend #2 she chose to be friends with that person all on her own and that person has not hurt you so you see no reason why you should not stay friends with her just for being friends with someone who is popular. Tell friend #1 you have been friends with friend #2 for so long why should you end a friendship over that? I mean think of all the good times you had with her.
2007-01-22 08:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of y'all are crazy. You can have two friends who hate each other, But that's not your problem all your concern is how you get along with the person whom is your friend. And never bring bad gossip from one to the other cause than your not really a friend yourself. In fact if your friends with two different people, who hate each other. Never bring up the subject of the other when you are with one or the other. And never take sides.
2007-01-22 16:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by loveableken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you want to remain friends with both of them and you don't want to be caught in the middle of their petty drama. If they are true friends, they will understand. Sounds like you guys all need to talk and figure things out.
2007-01-22 16:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY what ur talking about. just whatever you do dont talk about friend number 1 or 2 behind there backs. Ans tell both of them that this fight is really immature and you dont want to get in between it; trust me this happen to me this yea but i did all the things i just tolld u not ot do and i lostt my bestfriend!
2007-01-22 16:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down together and talk it out...
see if things are really going the way u think it is.
it might just be a misunderstanding...
just talk it out so that every one understands whats going on...
start will a cup of coffee at Starbucks!!!
2007-01-22 16:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by chrissy... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always find myself in the middle between two of my friends. It is a tough spot to be in I think you need to be honest with both friends and tell them they need to work things out themselves. That no matter what happens you intend to remain friends with both of them.
It takes a long time to build true friendships.Small mis- communications and mis-understandings can ruin a friendship.
Girls can be very catty and manipulative unfortunately so can women. Things don't change !!!!!!!!!!!!
You need to remain true to yourself, stay out of other peoples fights, and avoid their drama..........just be honest with both of them!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-22 17:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend #1 seems a little self conscious and jealous.
2007-01-22 16:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by karilyn2202 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them both, sit them down, and tell them to grow up. Explain the situation, get rid of all the misconceptions and confusions, and just talk about it.
2007-01-22 16:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try stop acting like children.
2007-01-22 16:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, girl if thats all the problems you have you're laughing, wait until you grow up a whole lot more!!!!
2007-01-22 16:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋